my stepdad ?

Question

my stepdad has been raping me since i was 11 and i'm 13 and pregant now. how do i tell my mom ?

Answer 1

YOU don't tell your mom. You go to someone you trust --a teacher, your doctor, a neighbor -- and you tell them what has been happening. Have them with you when you tell your mom, just in case she does not believe you. If the first person you tell does not do anything, tell someone else. Keep telling people until someone calls children's services or the police.

If you have the baby, have them do a paternity test to prove what you are saying. If you choose not to have the child, ask if there is a way to tell who the father is without giving birth.

If you cannot stay at home while you are pregnant, children's services can find a foster home for you.

Answer 2

you should've told her a longgggggggg time ago. are you sure you are pregnant? had he ever worn condoms when raping you?thats the first step. the next time she comes in tell her you have something important to talk to her about and it can't wait any longer. then don't listen to the b*st*rd if he trys to say stuff that refrains you from telling her. then just say it straight out. tell her that your stepdad has been raping you for over two years, and that this time you are sure that you are pregnant. if you have any proof show her that it was him or that you are infact pregnant. or if she is not around and you have a feeling he is going to rape you, call someone anyone.. like your friends mom, dad,family member, teacher. .. just tell someone, trust me don't wait any longer and if he threatens you don't take it. if you dont feel comfertable saying it to her write her a note and give it to her, make sure she reads it. if you need to say its a note from you teacher so she'll read it right then and there... but if she doesn't respond then look her right in the eye and tell her. then tomorrow tell a teacher or some adult while your not at your house just so someone else can help you.
best of luck.

Answer 3

How awful. This saddens my heart. You need to tell your mom. If you can't tell her inlist someone to do it for you like school nurse or the law. When my daughter was 13 a 20 yr. old man from our church had molested her. She never told me about the ordeal till she found out she was pregnant. She wrote me a note. Try a note to your mom.....

What ever you choose it has to include letting her know. It would be far better for her to hear it or read it from you. Then it needs to be turned into the law. He needs prosecuted for what he has done. And you also need to get help for the pregnancy and for your emotional status.

Answer 4

Okay first of all it's NOT your fault. I'm not going to ask why you didn't do it sooner..because I know that if you could have you would have.

That being said..is there a family member that you are close to (an adult) that you could tell. Sweetie you NEED to tell somebody and you NEED to get out of that house ASAP. Make sure that the authorities are called after you are in a safe place..

Then you are going to need counseling and a lot of it. Just remember IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!!

Answer 5

Through the local law enforcement and child protective services.

Answer 6

I feel for you is it your dads or some one eles and dose your dad know that you are preagant? I would just sit her down and talk to her and tell her the truth she will belive you you MUST or it will hurt her a lot more too PLEASE DO IT NOW IF YOU NEED TO TALK MORE PLEASE CLICK ON MY PICTURE AND GET MY E-MAIL AND WRITE ME PLEASE

Answer 7

dont tell your mom, call the police and tell them.
chances are, your mom wont believe you.