Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

im 19 years old, and i haven't even gone on one date since i was in the 12th grade or since i graduated high school. that was two years ago. last time i really had a boyfriend was in the 9th grade. im not ugly or anything. i am a very shy person. it was a lot easier dating in high school than it is now because there were so many boys at my high school and I would see them everyday. but I go to a vocational school and the majority of the people there are girls. there's only like three guys and they're all gay. I go with my friends to places and hang out, and usually there are a lot of guys there, but usually, they look but they don't approach. I'm not going up to them and start talking becuase i'm affraid of rejection. what should i do?? I wan't to date. what am i doing wrong?? how do I get over my shyness when it comes to guys? I feel so ashamed

2007-02-08 13:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone emails you on myspace

saying that your boyfriend has been calling her and asking her out, and he lives out of state, same state as her, and I live about 5 states away... what does this mean? Is she just creating drama?

2007-02-08 13:42:12 · 5 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 13:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by vin_man00 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 13:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by sunrisevirgo 1 in Friends

2007-02-08 13:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by sam b 1 in Friends

This game of he said she said?

I heard SO many rumors about the guy that I liked, and I never found out from him if any of them were true. How can I get the truth without it being ackward.

2007-02-08 13:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i know he likes me but i dont know if i should go out with him becasue i am afraid of what my friends will say...i cant help who i like...help plz i dont know if i should ignore my feelings or just go with them and go out with him

2007-02-08 13:40:30 · 18 answers · asked by jennaroooo:) 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 13:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by ALESANA 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 13:40:20 · 7 answers · asked by sam b 1 in Singles & Dating

I am leaning towards derick what do u think ladies

I like both of my firends theyare boith sweet they t and they both like me i love them to death ok wich one should i pick on one hand mike the black guy he is sensative careing honest friendly loves to read poetry and is open to new idea like i remember when i asked him to come to yoga he fell flat on his face but still tired because i asked and hee likes to cuddel and on the other hand there is derick he likes to make itallian cusines and like to talk about all the fascinateing things he enjoys, and he is allways there when i am down

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2007-02-08 13:40:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so you guys, what do you think about curves...im not talking fat, but im not talking stick skinny either...is it ok that im not as tiny as some of these unrealisticaly gorgeous girls i have seen? i have an hour glass figure, and like i said im not fat, but sometimes i would give anything to look like one of "them"...

2007-02-08 13:39:39 · 34 answers · asked by B 3 in Singles & Dating

I gave a girl I like carnations on the 1st date which hit the spot. What about the 2nd date any ideas? Do I give flowers again or does that get old, any way to make it special?

2007-02-08 13:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by sporteguy03 1 in Singles & Dating

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?

2007-02-08 13:38:32 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

we r friends and im not sure if he likes me i like him and he knows that already . we have things in common and he jokes around with me and we have fun but does he like me?

2007-02-08 13:38:19 · 14 answers · asked by teetee p 2 in Friends

I read that a lot of guys want to settle with a good girl type but all the young women complain that they are being pressured to put out early (which they are) and so there is a small pool of women who meet this criteria. It doesn't sound fair to either side so I figure it would be better if some of the old courtship rituals came back, you know where the guy has to wait and it isn't socially acceptable to just cave in to him.

Or maybe I'm just being to old fashioned.

Here's one of the articles I read:http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_60/82_dating_advice.html

2007-02-08 13:38:02 · 4 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I am seriously in need of some good advice. Alright, I trust my friends plenty enough, but in matters relating my love life, I'm not too trusting of my friends.

I have 4 friends, I'll name them J, T, L and S. I trust J the most, and I haven't been friends with him for long, but I trust him more, due to events in the past. I trust S less than J, and I trust T less than S. OK, so here's the order, starting with most trusted. J, S, T then L.

Now, J hasn't been at school for the past 2-3 days. And I hope to God that he will be at school tomorrow, because I need to ask him something, and I don't trust S, T or L with this information. Now, if he's not there tomorrow, should I ask S? I don't really trust him too much, nor do I even trust L at all, because when I told Lwho I liked once, he told S and they asked the girl if she would go out with me, and she didn't even know me.

So my question is, if J isn't there tomorrow, should I ask S?

2007-02-08 13:37:03 · 11 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

So there is this guy that really likes me. He does exactly what he says hes going to do, like, i'll call you tonight, and he calls me, and when we do, do something he leaves me a message after the fact telling me he had a great time. but he makes racial comments, doesn't like the same music, and he calls himself a redneck, which is completely opposite from me. He does make me laught but..... Then there is this other guy. He seems really sweet, i haven't spent a lot of time with him, he lives farther away. like two hours, which isn't a big deal. I talk to him everyday online or the phone, but the doctor says he is sick. He has a problem with his spine and he won't live over 35 years old. and he has done pot.. but he has been asked to quit by his doctor, smoking and pot, which he has done. He is sort of like me, he's nice, shy, quiet, laid back. He brings out the kid in me, which i like. I'm not sure what one to choose. They both have cons, and pros. Which one will be the best person?

2007-02-08 13:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Singles & Dating

okay. i was mad at my best friend but now i am not but she is. She is mad at me because i said something mean to her!! I mean how lame is that. i really want her back because she said this other girl is her best friend. I know i am jealous but what do i do?

2007-02-08 13:35:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a question about welfare. If I was 62 years old and my living expenses outweigh all of my income, can I go on welfare, if I also had $200,000 in my bank account?

2007-02-08 13:34:14 · 17 answers · asked by krumpmaster terrell 4 in Family

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2007-02-08 13:33:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 13:33:26 · 14 answers · asked by funnygirl 4 in Family

Okay heres the deal:
All of my five friends formed a clique a couple of months ago. My name is Dylan and my friends are Massie, Claire, Alicia, and Kristen. Theres this really mean girl named Layne that is such an L that has no friends that Massie is inviting into the clique!Layne is really annoying and ugly so things just won't fly! Everybody but Massie despises Layne and we're trying 2 come up with a plan 2 get rid of her. Layne is such a brat that she cries when some1 bugs her just a little so i can't do any of my signature smart comments. I sent Massie an e-mail to either take us or layne. I'm still waiting 4 her 2 respond. Massie says that Layne is cool because shes mean and we need a mean person in the clique. We all told Massie that shes mean 2 the rest of the clique and not 2 other people so shes pointless and annoying! Massie says shes mean 2 us because we act like brats and be mean 2 her (which we DON'T)!!!!! LAYNE IS EVIL 2 US.MASSIE SAYS SHES NOT.WE'RE NICE 2 LAYNE. HELP!

2007-02-08 13:33:24 · 2 answers · asked by chezplz 2 in Friends

'your existence means more than the stars can brighten the a night, and your deliverence means more than the sun can brighten a day.'

2007-02-08 13:33:05 · 16 answers · asked by she_devil 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a sophomore in highschool, and there's a freshman girl I saw who I want to get to know. I haven't really talked to her, but sometimes we make eye contact in the hallways.

I have NO classes with her, and i only see her in between some classes.

Sicne it's just between a few classes, I can't really go up to her because she's with all her friends and we don't get much time to switch classes.

I wanna go up to her, but I can almost never find her during any of the breaks or in the morning or after school.

If I did find her in the morning or after school, how would I say that I've seen her around and think she's beautiful and stuff? It kinda sounds stalker-ish to me. But I'm not sure how else to put it.

Someone in another question said to drop my books sorta in front of her.. whould that just make me look stupid? lol or whould it work?

Anyone have some advice?

2007-02-08 13:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Singles & Dating

I thought i had a good friend and it was just my sis and i found out and im upset!! i thought she (my FAKE friend) had a crush on a singer i like but she didnt now im mad!!!! you wanna be friends? i know its stupid but im really upset!! HANNAH DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT ANSWERING!!!!!!! (my sis)

2007-02-08 13:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm making my boyfriend a build-a-bear for valentines day... Just a normal teddy bear with my voice inside..... What would be a good name?

2007-02-08 13:32:07 · 9 answers · asked by Pink Frog 1 in Singles & Dating

he usually calls me every night. or i text him. or something. because we never see eachother at school very much. but he hasn't called me for a few days and i dont know..its only been 2 days. and i sent him a text but he still hasnt answered. it says he hasnt seen it yet. maybe he lost his phone? i dont know...i just is it normal for a guy to take a break from calling? its not like we have massive 12 hour conversations or anything weird.

2007-02-08 13:31:54 · 12 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

When and how is everyone else sure they've found the right person for them? Is it soon, like when you've just met them or after you've been with them for a while ?

2007-02-08 13:30:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 13:30:44 · 22 answers · asked by *~TEAM JACOB~* 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, I am seriously in need of some good advice. Alright, I trust my friends plenty enough, but in matters relating my love life, I'm not too trusting of my friends.

I have 4 friends, I'll name them J, T, L and S. I trust J the most, and I haven't been friends with him for long, but I trust him more, due to events in the past. I trust S less than J, and I trust T less than S. OK, so here's the order, starting with most trusted. J, S, T then L.

Now, J hasn't been at school for the past 2-3 days. And I hope to God that he will be at school tomorrow, because I need to ask him something, and I don't trust S, T or L with this information. Now, if he's not there tomorrow, should I ask S? I don't really trust him too much, nor do I even trust L at all, because when I told Lwho I liked once, he told S and they asked the girl if she would go out with me, and she didn't even know me.

So my question is, if J isn't there tomorrow, should I ask S?

2007-02-08 13:29:54 · 2 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Friends