Guys only! Would you do this to a girl & why..?

Question

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?

Answer 1

First are you ready to settle down with this guy if he asks you?

Maybe he knows now that he had a good thing and he let it go and it's hard to ask you back. Just date him if you like him and see where it goes. I see so many girl and guys in here ask why don't I have a boy or girl friend, just take the friend part for now and keep on looking. You have so much time, and if this is the guy for you don't you think it's best for you two to get to know each other better just as friend first?

Good luck stay cool and go live your life. Go on more dates with other guys, you have time your only 21.

Keep smiling

Answer 2

hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back

Answer 3

hell how shoud i now