I am not very good at sex. Truth be told, I am very nervous and timid. I am getting married in June and I know I will be terrible in the bedroom on the wedding night. Ifind it hard to get an erection when I am nervous (which is all the time when sex is concerned) and I find it hard to keep one. My fiancée is apparantly too overweight to go on the pill, so we have to use condoms. She doesn't, however, like the feel of them. I am concerned that perhaps she doesn't actually like the feel of sex, and the condoms are an excuse. When we do have sex (approximately four times per year) I have to withdraw. This isn't a very good method of contraception and it worries us such that every month we take a pregnancy test (her weight also affects her periods and she often misses them). She has never been pregnant (yet) though.
Anyway, I only want serious answers here - no mickey taking and no insulting. If you are under 18, don't bother to answer. My question is, how do I get better?
2007-02-07
02:32:34
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Mawkish
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