2007-02-07 02:33:21 · 87 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2007-02-07 03:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you think the future holds: if you want to marry him then tell him but you must be truly sorry and willing never to stray again, honesty is the best policy because you can't build a marriage on lies. Be prepared for the possibility that he may want nothing to do with you ever again - his best mate, that is the ultimate betrayal!
If you can't give up this other man then please don't get married, it will cause more heart ache in the long run, you can soften the blow of dumping him the week of your wedding by holding back the truth and telling him that you just don't feel what you should for him or something.
Good luck even though I don't condone infidelity!
2007-02-07 02:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
If you feel strong enough about the best man to sleep with him you should consider your options. Tell your soon to be husband that you need to end the relationship, get out now before it really costs you, both emotionally and financially.
Getting a divorce costs double what it cost to get married. If you are sleeping with someone else than your love isn't true and it's not fair to any of the parties involved.
You have to follow your heart and make your own decision.
Good Luck and Best Wishes.
2007-02-07 02:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by scottsladylumps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I know people are giving you a hard time but the truth is that you need to be honest with yourself. Do you really love him, Can you just stop sleeping with the best man or do you have feelings for him. I think you just need to think about what you are doing. If you can leave the best man alone and you truely love your guy then I think ou should tell him be honest and if he truley loves you, ya'll can work it out if not then it wasn't meant to be. If you are just going to keep sleeping with the best man then just tell him and get it over with don't get married it would just cause to much trouble.
2007-02-07 09:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you tell who?why in the world are you getting married then?i think you should just call the wedding off and decide on who and what exactly it is you want?you used the word 'sleeping',that means you are still getting it on with the best man...it is never too late to back out of a wedding!
2007-02-07 20:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by ebello1328 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely up to you. Ask yourself this; do you want your marriage to begin an atmosphere of deceit? Or, do you want it to begin in an atmosphere of honesty and trust. You've already blown the trust bit but maybe in time youcan regain it. If you get married amidst the lies and deceit then you cannot have any realistic expectations that your marriage will be anything other than a lie. You certainly won't be able to have an expectation of trust and honesty from your husband. I know I wouldn't want any part of a marriage like that. You are already proving through your actions that regardless of how you think you may feel, and despite what you say, youreally don't love your fiance. People do not hurt those they really love the way you are doing.
2007-02-07 02:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by toff 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is not "the Wedding Date" this is real life because only in movies does the woman confess to be sleeping with the best man - usually the grooms best friend or his brother - and then they all hug and cry and the wedding goes on!
If you love him - and how could you if you are sleeping with his brother or best friend - then stop sleeping with the guy and don't tell him. If you still want to marry him, don't tell him. If you dont, then tell him because he's going to leave you. Either way you should stop cheating.
2007-02-07 02:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sleeping with the best man? Don't you love your fiance? or is it that you needed a fling?
No-one will be able to tell you what to do here, you need to make up your own mind, but if the Best Man is good friends or even related to your groom, then you will always have him in your life!
Even if you stop your affair, he will be a constant reminder.
This is really hard, but If you don't love your fiance, then you can't marry him.
If you do love him, you can either stop what you are doing, come clean and hope that he still loves you or
you can stop what you are doing and never cheat on him again for as long as you live.
This is your choice and yours alone
Thinking of you.
2007-02-07 02:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by fairyprincesscorinne 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi that is disgusting i hope you feel ashamed of yourself. How could you ruin your parteners day and spend all that money on the wedding. People like you need to think about other people and not yourselfs for a second. If you get married you are lower than everyone on her already thinks you are. Dont you have a consiontus. Just call it off as soon as possible, he doesnt deserve what you have done to him. I hope he finds someone better to treat him right.
2007-02-07 09:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get married Saturday....and why are you sleeping with the best man??? You are giving marriage a bad name.
2007-02-07 04:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by JenS12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him. He needs to know, and marriage is a life long promise that you make under God. How could you go and get married, and sleep around. Those vows that you say have meaning to them, and truly you are not ready to get married. He needs to know what type of woman he plans to marry and you need to break this off if you are truly not serious about being married.
2007-02-07 02:40:37 · answer #11 · answered by mstigger_78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋