Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

i split up with my ex 5 yrs ago and need help getting over her. she has moved on and its tearign me apart, i cant eat, sleep or do anything. i really want to self-harm to get over the pain but i thought id see if anyone cud help me b4 i go down that road.

2007-02-07 22:00:48 · 24 answers · asked by azil_jesani 1 in Singles & Dating

Love isn't the most important thing. It is just a mean to make a relationship last. if this relationship does exist...

2007-02-07 22:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm confused about what my friend thinks of me. I've known him properly for about three months, and we generally hang around in a group. Sometimes I get the feeling he likes me. He looks at me and smiles at me a lot. He often sits next to me. If I'm talking to other people he often seems to be listening to what I'm saying, and sometimes joins in with the conversation, commenting on what I've said. He'll remember things I've said to him, or things I've said when he's around from weeks before. He'll always comes over and talk to me when he gets the chance, and sometimes when I'm talking to other people he'll hang around me, as if he wants to talk to me but doesn't have the chance to. He's generally quite shy, and doesn't give much away, so it's hard to tell what he's thinking. What signs should I be looking for? How can I tell whether it's just friendship he wants, or more?

2007-02-07 21:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he would rather play counter strike or any game on the p.c then when i go out its porn he is attached to it like he was me when we started going out. wot the **** am i ment to do he tells me he loves me then its **** off then its come back i try to talk to him he says theres nothing to say every time i wanna talk i getshoutd at because i made him die on his game anything everything i do just seems to piss him off but im just the same person i have always been its him thats changed since he got his p.c what the hll am i to do im gonna lose my love because off a computer porn and counter strike im not kidding ive tryed everything except watching porn with him y the hell would i wanna **** him off while he looks at another women?ERR NO DIRTY! so dont give me that idea just tell me what u think

2007-02-07 21:54:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm confused about what my friend thinks of me. I've known him properly for about three months, and we generally hang around in a group. Sometimes I get the feeling he likes me. He looks at me and smiles at me a lot. He often sits next to me. If I'm talking to other people he often seems to be listening to what I'm saying, and sometimes joins in with the conversation, commenting on what I've said. He'll remember things I've said to him, or things I've said when he's around from weeks before. He'll always comes over and talk to me when he gets the chance, and sometimes when I'm talking to other people he'll hang around me, as if he wants to talk to me but doesn't have the chance to. He's generally quite shy, and doesn't give much away, so it's hard to tell what he's thinking. What signs should I be looking for? How can I tell whether it's just friendship he wants, or more?

2007-02-07 21:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my partner for 2 years,we are in our late 20's. we dont live together, but he is at my place quiet a bit. Lately he has been spending up to 5days/ nights, including sleepovers at his mate's house. If i call or sms him and ask when ill see him or what he's up to, he gets angry and turns his phone off etc. He also wont go 'out' with me of a weekend and will only go out unattended. I think its weird to not want to go out with your partner and i think its weird guys that age having sleepovers......ive asked him bout it and he gets angry and says im jelous he has a best friend...What do you think? Im at a loss. I dont know what to do...

2007-02-07 21:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by Lilly lola 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to talk to a guy for ages online and we got on really well... and as far as i know the last time we spoke we were getting on fine. He was really my sort of guy and i got the feeling he liked me to but out of the blue he has blocked me from messaging him on myspace. so i have emailed him via personal email (which he gave to me before) saying sorry and hope he can reply but haven't recieved anything back. I'm not sure if he has even recieved them but i normally would walk away cos i have many friends and think its not worth it but i get the feeling ive hurt him and i really like him and don't want to loose him! Any ideas?

2007-02-07 21:53:39 · 12 answers · asked by ???????? 1 in Friends

I have written some time ago for some advice, and had some great responses, i dont think things have improved, actually i think they are worse.
Its difficult to paint a scenario of our problems as i would be writing forever, Basically my husband is 47yrs i am 34yrs, he works 40hrs a week, i work 20hrs a week.
We have my 3 children that live in his 1st marriage and family home all of the time, and his 3 children come over some of the time. (which he has trouble with) he misses them terribly.
We have been together for 7 years now, and have no children together.
He is a good father and a good provider, but because of his stress of not having the children with him 24/7 so to speak, myself and children feel as if we are to blame for being there.
This has been an ongoing torment, we fight every other day about one thing or another, he says he is sick and tired of not spending time with me, but he is always pissed off and i dont want to be near him. CONT: NEXT

2007-02-07 21:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by jordancassandra 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Love isn't the most important thing. It is just a mean to make a relationship last. if this relationship does exist...

2007-02-07 21:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where are you? What are you doing? Where would you rather be?

I'm in London - uk: at work: would rather be relaxing in Dubai.

2007-02-07 21:51:34 · 69 answers · asked by Just me 4 in Singles & Dating

CAN A PERSON WHO IS HURT IN LOVE 4 2 TO 3 TIMES IS SUPPOSE 2 BELIVE IN THE OTHER PARTNER AS HE OR SHE HAS BEEN BETRAYED ???????????????????

2007-02-07 21:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by rocker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend both agree that our sex life is not as good as it was ( but somtimes it is), and we are ok with that. But the lack of sex is worrying me. When i approach her for sex she either gets mad and say's no or im tired, so i back off. Then i get told i never approch her for sex anymore. What do i do?

2007-02-07 21:51:14 · 11 answers · asked by charming 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want him anymore,he was very bad to me.
but he doesn't leave me. we are not married or something like that!
Could you please help me? i really want some good ideas of losing a guy..!!

2007-02-07 21:48:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is marrying shortly and has been living with her partner for nearly 3 years, their daughter will be 16 months old. They would like to ask their wedding guests to pay for their meal instead of receiving gifts.

2007-02-07 21:48:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i loved him more than my life but he was selfish.he was younger than me. but i sacrificed alot for him.when i decided to leave him, he tried alot to persude me to stay but i thought it`s better for him to start a new life with suitable girl. i suffered alot but after a month i know that he starts his new life with many girls and involved himself in many relations. i have the chance to spy on him. i felt great pain and don`t know what to do???

2007-02-07 21:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by beba 1 in Friends

2007-02-07 21:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by nelz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 21:45:42 · 21 answers · asked by rawan me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked a similiar question like this before but didnt get any straight answers.

If a guy always follows you around..even if its a group of guys..and he'd rather be with the girl..than the other guys..if he sits next 2 a girl..and the girl moves..and he moves closer..if he gets up and says" aye dont let anyone else sit next to you!" ..and when people are talking to him half the time he is 2 busy looking at the girl..and if he finds any way of touching her..(nothing dirty..like..hugging..touchin knee..things like that)and other stuff like that...does that mean he has a crush on that girl..or is he just being friendly?

by the way..that "girl" is me.(just incase you werent sure)

2007-02-07 21:45:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Cant you girls SEE THROUGH the marketing aspect of this holiday? why cant you celebrate love EVERY FREAKING DAY without saying that if you dont love someone MORE on this cursed day that your guy is a jerk...please enlighten me

2007-02-07 21:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it like I never run out of problem's...
I am so tired...
All I wanna do is to cry
I failed my family a lot of time's
and I think I am gonna fail them again
I always wanted to know what I wanted to do in life
But now that I know what I want
Why is everyone and everything against it?
I am so lost
I don't even know who I am right now...
There are times when all I want to do is to sleep and never wake up again...
I am so sad.
I am loosing sight of GOD...
There are times when I question him why I was born a looser...
Life seems so unfair sometimes...

2007-02-07 21:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by teejay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-07 21:43:38 · 49 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend calls me when I am watching a movie. I told her that I would call her back when the movie was over. I turned off my mobile phone and charged it. So my girlfriend calls back and leaves a voicemail. She calls back again and tells me that I considered watching the movie more important then her. I told her that I cannot be on the phone with her all the time as in 24/7. She said she wants me to call her back about everything—including going to the bathroom/restroom. I told her that everyone needs space—just to sit down, relax, stretch, watch a movie by themselves, and spend time with their family and friends. Is she trying to smother me?

2007-02-07 21:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a co-worker who doesnt like me so much. im not doing anything but i feel he likes teasing me. Ive got a crush on one girl who everybody knows that i like so much. Just recently, he is courting the girl but he already has a girlfriend. I think he's doing that to embarrass me. He looks better than I do.One way or another, he will succeed. Could you help me how to deal with this impossible person? I don't want competing with him but I want to show how strong I am. I work with hime every single day and its really hard to deal with him. Could you give me a reverse psychology techniques? Any psychologists here, he needs help, and i also need one.

2007-02-07 21:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by jake 1 in Friends

i think my boyfriend dosent want me no more but how am i supposed to leave when i still care about him more than any1! no silly answers plz. thanks

2007-02-07 21:41:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think a person who constantly checks out other guys/girls in front of their partner and lies a lot, or do you think it would be the person you would never expect to cheat because they seem to be faithful and honest? Also what characteristics do you think cheaters have that others dont?

2007-02-07 21:41:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's 13. im also 13. but i think that she thinks that we are just friends. i want her but i dont know if the first step that im gonna make is wrong. what should i do?

2007-02-07 21:39:36 · 6 answers · asked by axxole 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean what bits am i supposed to touch etc. this is a serious question

2007-02-07 21:38:15 · 32 answers · asked by bob canny fix it 3 in Singles & Dating

Sorry my english, I'm Italian!!

2007-02-07 21:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by sara _p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i talked to my boyfriend last night ( we haven't spoke since last wednesday night when he told me he loved me) and he says that although he loves me we can never work out and that we should stop this now. he was crying and told me i was his soulmate. should i try to win him back or should i let him go? this hurts so much and he feels it too! advice please.

2007-02-07 21:35:25 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 21:34:58 · 8 answers · asked by Batson D. Belfrey 2 in Singles & Dating