Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

i have a close friend. he is secretly my crush. i just can't tell him that i like him, because i'm afraid he dont like me, and after that it will be awkward to be friends with him like before. so, i dont take that risk to save my friendships with him. i like him, and he's special to me. he is sort of a shy and silent boy, especially facing girls. but he is okay with me, he talks to me, IMs me, text messaging me, and he's comfortable being friends with me. but, in our friendship, i think its all about him! he talks about himself all the time, and he never really cares about myself. when i'm sick and heve to go to the hospital, he never ask, what are your sickness?, are you okay? etc. and when i'm feeling down, he still talks about himself. when i'm happy, he never ask why. DO YOU THINK THAT HE'S PRETENDING TO NOT CARE ABOUT ME, OR HE IS A SELFISH BOY? and sometimes, i think he likes me, but sometimes, i think i'm not his type of girl.
thanks for reading.

2007-02-07 22:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by alyson.s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 22:47:44 · 18 answers · asked by portivo 1 in Singles & Dating

i stay up all nite and cant sleep i always have sex on my mind but have never had it.

2007-02-07 22:47:44 · 4 answers · asked by sammi j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 22:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by portivo 1 in Singles & Dating

In a street/mall/decent place scenario, ok.

Personally, I like women dressed up in miniskirts(not too mini and not too revealing though), short shorts(especially if they have nice legs), tank tops, but I have yet to know what clothing would women see on a man as an absolute turn on.

Please also state what characteristics/traits of a guy turns you on.

2007-02-07 22:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 22:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well a answer would be great thanks someone has to

2007-02-07 22:45:08 · 3 answers · asked by sammi j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 22:44:24 · 15 answers · asked by kissyJAM 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to find a good divorce lawyer in bangalore for a friend who is in a very bad marriage. can someone help out please?

2007-02-07 22:42:48 · 4 answers · asked by peachmelba29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a few times for apparently cheating on her. Your storys? Girls feel free to comment

2007-02-07 22:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by rmxer 3 in Singles & Dating

no first kiss. im almost 30. i have never done anything is it that you think im ugly what

2007-02-07 22:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by sammi j 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

my girlfriend is very tall taller at 5 11, i am 5 8.

She wears heels most times, and when we hug and kiss lately , she has to bend to kiss me, and she ends up lifting me up by putting her hands under my butt.

She says she finds that cute to carry me and kiss and says she has no option since i am shorter. But i find it embarassing to be carried by my girlfriend, she does this all the time infront of her friends and i find it awkard to be carried by a girl.

Girls why do u think she does this?

2007-02-07 22:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it God's greatest gift to us.

2007-02-07 22:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by jamie st theresa f 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy went to the pub yesterday with our friends and we left at the same time with a kiss goodbye (as always). I text him when i got home asking if he wanted to come round tonight and got no reply (there was no way he was in bed as i live closer than him and i got a taxi!). Anyway he didnt reply so i text him this morning to say how are you and if he wanted to come over later and he still has not replied. He usually texts me every morning first thing and i havent heard from him all day!

Should i worry or might he just be really busy at work?

Am i overreacting on this situation? Should i just wait for him to text me back whenever?

2007-02-07 22:38:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf dumped me rather out of the blue i think he still likes me but wat wud the signs be every time i say a lad has been on the phone he asks wat they want he sed he is still my friend but i think he still likes me he sed the breakup hasnt bothered him at all but he is always with sum1 or doing something he never seems 2 be on his own does he like me an jus wants a break or is it over for good

2007-02-07 22:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-07 22:36:59 · 12 answers · asked by sika ama 1 in Singles & Dating

And how would you set out the table e.g candles etc.... what would you do to make it special and impress me big time? providing you were single that is...

2007-02-07 22:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We fought, argued, said things we weren't supposed to say, now it's all over.. But I feel like things won't be the same again.. Not because of the fight or the argument, but because of the things we said to each other, I haven’t been able to forget, I have a feeling he hasn't..

I know the fight’s over, but what if we fight again? We'll just bring back all the old stuff and hold it against each other..

I know I should hope for the best.. So should I just 'let it go' and forget? For the sake of our relationship? What if he was the one that was wrong?

Note: there was no swearing of any offensive lang.. Just harshness.. I feel hurt..

2007-02-07 22:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy not long ago and i saw him in college, he used to stare at me alot. when we met he kept staring at me and smiling and trying to get to know me. and i thought he liked me but i saw him again and he completely ignored me and stopped flirting and didnt try and talk to me. im not sure what happened but why do guys do this, do they suddenly lose interest.

2007-02-07 22:36:07 · 20 answers · asked by poppettes 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friends bf of 4 years just broke up with her and then she saw him in the book store wtih a new girl just 3 days later. She lost her virgenity to him and everything and I don't know any advice to make her feel better. Please someone what do I tell her?

2007-02-07 22:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by megan 2 in Friends

I feel really shy and embarrassed around the male population. I can barely look them in the eye, so I just look at my knees instead. I'm 17, and despite having about 7 chances to date I've basically been single my whole life, have never dated and have never been kissed. I wish I had a boyfriend, but I don't see it ever happening. I can see myself as a crazy old lady with 72 cats before I ever get with someone. I'm always making lots of mistakes and embarrassing myself. From my last highschool where I left because of bullying, I got the gist that I was fat and ugly, and that nothing I did could ever be forgiven because I can't pull of being cute. I also have a bit of a speech problem when I'm nervous, that makes people think I'm an idiot, when in reality, I have an above average IQ. I don't really have any street cred as such, and am always saying the silliest things.

Would people get a vibe about how I feel around them? Oh and would you date me besides all that?

2007-02-07 22:35:13 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is sex so important for many of us?

2007-02-07 22:34:59 · 14 answers · asked by manjari99999 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how come when an unmarried young woman gets pregnant the society frowns at the termination of the pregnancy and later the girl suffers the stigma, carries the burden of raising the child alone if possible and suffers relationship problems as liking a guy so much and the guy gives the excuse indirectly that she has a child and he can't marry her!why let them have the babies knowing what they will suffer in future?

2007-02-07 22:32:46 · 12 answers · asked by Lechs 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 6 weeks pregnant and has 15 months old son, i just found out that my husband is sleeping with a girl from work. should i stay (at least until the baby is born) or should i leave??

2007-02-07 22:32:36 · 29 answers · asked by dhinie75 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One for the boys (but girls please feel free to add your input!) If you had upset your girlfriend, would you respect and listen to her more if she ranted and raved at you or if she talked to you, explained she was upset, and tried to solve it calmly?

2007-02-07 22:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by FoxyB 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 22:31:45 · 4 answers · asked by Dexter N 1 in Friends

my friend is shy......

2007-02-07 22:31:36 · 1 answers · asked by KuMiKo..^__^ 1 in Friends

n.a

2007-02-07 22:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by MANISH J 1 in Singles & Dating

I have read many things on here that have a sexual "overture" or is just being flirtatious. Many people on here have serious problems and are seeking help. I understand that with all this seriousness one would also like to have a little fun and just goof off and there is nothing wrong with that. However I am wondering if you are comfortable or uncomfortable knowing that your partner maybe on here asking or answering questions that have a sexual "overture" or is just flirtatious in nature.

So tell me comfy or not?.. I would uncomfortable!!

2007-02-07 22:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes when I see my ex-girlfriend at the store or come across her at a restaurant it appears that she still has feelings—as if she likes me. She will smile at me, sometimes copy me as what I do, and appears that she is trying to create situations as through she wants us to somehow connect. Maybe she is being friendly? Lately I have seen a change in her e.g. the way she dress, her shoes, her colored and stylish hair. She has a completely different look. How can you tell that your ex-girlfriend actually has feelings for you? Because it’s hard for me to tell as my feelings tend to get in the way. Does she still have feelings for me?

2007-02-07 22:29:47 · 2 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Friends