i have a close friend. he is secretly my crush. i just can't tell him that i like him, because i'm afraid he dont like me, and after that it will be awkward to be friends with him like before. so, i dont take that risk to save my friendships with him. i like him, and he's special to me. he is sort of a shy and silent boy, especially facing girls. but he is okay with me, he talks to me, IMs me, text messaging me, and he's comfortable being friends with me. but, in our friendship, i think its all about him! he talks about himself all the time, and he never really cares about myself. when i'm sick and heve to go to the hospital, he never ask, what are your sickness?, are you okay? etc. and when i'm feeling down, he still talks about himself. when i'm happy, he never ask why. DO YOU THINK THAT HE'S PRETENDING TO NOT CARE ABOUT ME, OR HE IS A SELFISH BOY? and sometimes, i think he likes me, but sometimes, i think i'm not his type of girl.
thanks for reading.
2007-02-07 22:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by alyson.s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like much of a friend let alone good boyfriend material. Keep your feelings to yourself and hold out for someone willing to listen as well as talk.
2007-02-07 22:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Often it perplexes me as to why females seem so into these selfish males? Why is that? You have just written about everything is about him. Why is this attractive to you?
Do you really see a future with this guy if all he thinks about is himself? He probably knows you are keen on him, selfish people always PRESUME people want to be with them. I think you need an answer either way, tell him you like him and if he likes you too, good luck. If he doesn't, then you may lose a friend but it's no great loss is it?
2007-02-07 22:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Yayick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not really your friend. a true friend cares about you, calls for no reason at all. your friendship is misguided, you have let yourself believe that by being there for him he will see you in a different way. possibly start liking you as his girlfriend. why don't you try a little experiment. Don't call/ Don't be so available a week. Does he continue to call and wonders where you are, how you are? Just stay a little busy. if he asks, yeah. if he doesn't. get another friend.
2007-02-07 22:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Sounds like you feed on fantasy above all else.
Stay cocooned in your own false reality.
It sounds more comfortable than the challenges of the real world.
2007-02-07 22:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds selfish to me. If he is like that and you are just friends, trust me, you don't want it to go any further.
2007-02-07 23:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋