We fought, argued, said things we weren't supposed to say, now it's all over.. But I feel like things won't be the same again.. Not because of the fight or the argument, but because of the things we said to each other, I haven’t been able to forget, I have a feeling he hasn't..
I know the fight’s over, but what if we fight again? We'll just bring back all the old stuff and hold it against each other..
I know I should hope for the best.. So should I just 'let it go' and forget? For the sake of our relationship? What if he was the one that was wrong?
Note: there was no swearing of any offensive lang.. Just harshness.. I feel hurt..
2007-02-07 22:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been into this situation of always fighting over unworthy topics (mostly).
what are u fighting about? why ur always goin into this things?
it's just normal in a realationship to have this issue but not always...
so better, talk to him at d right moment/time & place wer his mind is totally off work, off the tv/games, not hungry...wen he's calm & relaxed...only in this manner a guy can listen to u withh all-ears coz he's not thinking of anything.
dun try to talk or ask anything in moments wer he's bz or troubled, else, it will make things worst.
guys dun want their minds be ******-up with things especially this relationship issues...dey r not d type who will sit down with u & have looooooooooooooooooong talk about it. be precise, specific about wat u wanna talk about. speak straight to d point. he will not explain much also so dun push him.
dun worry, a guy will always find his time of telling u things wen he feels it...:-)
2007-02-07 23:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to talk things over properly now that you've both calmed down. If you don't then you are likely to bring the same things up again when you next argue and they will never get resolved. It's so much better to talk things through so that you can let them go.
2007-02-07 22:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about all the harsh things that were said and let him know how it makes you feel and how you don't want it to ruin what you have. I'm sure he probably feels the same way. The only way to work through it is to talk about it, no matter how hard it is to do.
2007-02-07 22:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really hurt you? Did you feel emotionally abused? If so, I think you should leave him before something worse happen.. You cant avoid fights... But if you can understand him, and what he said to you, just trust him and forget bout those hasrh words..
2007-02-07 22:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Pianoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very last evening, i could not even get an answer. i tried to call, yet my delight would not enable me dial. and that i'm sitting the following, With this sparkling expression. and how i think, I wanna curl up like a baby.
2016-12-03 21:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you people are up and doing again, forget about everthing, there is no perfect relationship without ups and downs, when it happens this way you have to understand urselves and settle disputes immediately. have a wonderful day
2007-02-07 22:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry about it
2007-02-07 22:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋