One for the boys (but girls please feel free to add your input!) If you had upset your girlfriend, would you respect and listen to her more if she ranted and raved at you or if she talked to you, explained she was upset, and tried to solve it calmly?
2007-02-07 22:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by FoxyB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will want my boyfriend to come back for me.
2007-02-07 22:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is upset she rant and rave you need to be calm. after sometime she will be cold and you can now sort out the problems with her
2007-02-08 06:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets irritated, everyone yells at times, But my ex husband had the mentality that, "He who yells loudest wins" To me, that approach is jusy bullying. I prefer to solve conflicts in a kinder, gentler manner. :)
2007-02-08 06:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouting just doesn't work. I can't hear myself think and he can't hear what I'm saying. It's hard not to sometimes, but it never solves anything.
2007-02-08 06:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wanted to talk about it calmly yeah i would listen but if she was yelling hell no
2007-02-08 06:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will leave her alone for some time. after try to speek with her about her prb. if it solvable by me. i will do. otherwise will have to convince.
2007-02-08 06:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by ramesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the calm way.
2007-02-08 06:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋