i met this guy not long ago and i saw him in college, he used to stare at me alot. when we met he kept staring at me and smiling and trying to get to know me. and i thought he liked me but i saw him again and he completely ignored me and stopped flirting and didnt try and talk to me. im not sure what happened but why do guys do this, do they suddenly lose interest.
2007-02-07 22:36:07 · 20 answers · asked by poppettes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not fat im a model. im tall and thin!
2007-02-07 22:40:38 · update #1
its so wierd that no ne believes im a model. im an art student and a model. whats s far fetched about that. im not an internet wierdo.
2007-02-07 22:51:05 · update #2
he is just not after a relationship
he likes to flirt about and then is afraid that it may go out of hand
don't waste energy on them
2007-02-07 23:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Crap. I always want to get best answers, but this time I won't. :( The truth on this one sucks bro. She's not into you. I have had the same thing happen to me many a time in my life. I am a senior in high school, and I must admit, I had serious problems with girls liking me. They just didn't. So I speak from experience when I tell you this. See, you told her friend to tell her, and when she found out, she was all weirded out, and didn't want you thinking she was giving you the wrong signals, so now she exaggerates in front of you to make you back off. Maybe the friend that you asked to tell her was a jerk and made you sound all needy and stuff, but maybe she just doesn't like you. I failed about 20 times before finding this amazing relationship that I am now in. It sucks being rejected, and I know, so sorry man, but she's not going to work out for you. :( I am truly sincere in my empathy. Sorry. :(
2016-05-24 06:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing against you. But sometimes they like the look of someone and when they get talking to that person the find that they are not what they want in a person (they might be boring, over the top Etc.)
2007-02-07 22:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting and dating, especially in college, is when people test each other and experiement. People come and go. Don't get too attached to anything in college. You will meet plenty more and some of them will be winners, some losers.
2007-02-07 22:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
as males we are easily distracted --- he probably was interested in you for some time --- but couldn't make up his mind on the other half dozen he could 'have' --- and so he lost the plot with you --- sad to say ! never mind -- plenty of other fish in the ocean that don' need a wake up call . good luck .
2007-02-07 22:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by bill g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have been to clubs and bars and seen some beautiful girls, i always give them a smile and wait to see what will happen.
sometimes they smile back which is a start and other times they look down to show me they think they can do better.
a lot of girls these days know they are beautiful and it spoils their appeal to men, making them untouchable to normal guys.
be yourself and smile as much as you can, life is too short to hold out for mr. universe and believe me, he doesn't exist.
2007-02-08 00:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
this may sound daft, but im sure we arent aware of it at the tijme.
i went on a date with sylvia, ( perfect gentleman) i kissed her goodnight and left her on the doorstep.. it was our first date. she was 19 i was 24...
i didnt think anything of it... i was busy, and and and..
26 years later she reminds me of this... YOU IGNORED ME.... no i didnt, i was busy... why didnt you phone me? you hadnt got a phone..remember...
ok things have changed these days, but i never once thought i was blanking her... and maybe thats the difference. its a thin line between clinging and possessive and carefree and ignorant.
2007-02-07 22:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is probable that you gave off uninterested vibes. OR, you offered bad chat to him and he thought, 'Ah, pretty girl but that's about it' hence why he is uninterested now. I don't think you can generalise this with it being a 'GUY' thing, perhaps take some responsibility that he liked you when he saw you, he speaks to you and goes off you, i don't think he is playing games, I think he is uninterested...
Sorry if it sounds harsh but it might make you think.
2007-02-07 22:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Yayick 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you really looked like a model you wouldnt be on here moaning about a guy ignoring you because all the other guys would be chasing you.....u r an internet weirdo.
2007-02-07 23:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
not just because he did flirt with you means that he likes you. maybe he was attracted to you before and now is different from before. you have to move on.
i have these guy friends who loves to flirt to other girls. they're just doing that to kill the boredom and for fun as well.
2007-02-07 22:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by poochini 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋