I have a co-worker who doesnt like me so much. im not doing anything but i feel he likes teasing me. Ive got a crush on one girl who everybody knows that i like so much. Just recently, he is courting the girl but he already has a girlfriend. I think he's doing that to embarrass me. He looks better than I do.One way or another, he will succeed. Could you help me how to deal with this impossible person? I don't want competing with him but I want to show how strong I am. I work with hime every single day and its really hard to deal with him. Could you give me a reverse psychology techniques? Any psychologists here, he needs help, and i also need one.
2007-02-07 21:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your co-worker does sound like a bit of a knob, who says that girls are overly impressed by looks? If she falls for his smarm, she's maybe a bit dumb and unpleasant and not worth the bother anyway, if shes not impressed wheres the problem, don't underestimate people if he is a smuck people will realize it. Don't compete, you don''t have to, you sound nice and fairly well balanced, he obviously has problems, hence his competitiveness. chill and be yourself, sod him, he should make you laugh really
2007-02-07 22:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by mia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is a good hearted sort she will see straight through this other guy you should just be yourself, looks are not everything don't play his silly game and when he teases you say to him why do you have to be so childish and embarrass him
2007-02-08 05:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by oz_girl70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being able to do your best, and ignore his childish acts are the best way to "compete" with him.
2007-02-08 05:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dominicandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that gal.......really has true love for uuu......then.....she will be urs forever...and won't be intimated with another guy.....so make sure.....is she loves uuu...???
2007-02-08 05:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by hots! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋