my g/f wants me to "go down" on her where do i start?

Question

i mean what bits am i supposed to touch etc. this is a serious question

Answer 1

You will find this link useful:
http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/cunnilingus.htm
Just be gentle and respond to her; she'll let you know if she doesn't like what you're doing and you should be able to tell from the groans if she does!
have fun!

Answer 2

in the shower. LOL. seriously, look at an anatomy book to see where you are going and what you are looking for. the clitoris. the little button. Manual stimulation and kissing are good place to start. then you move between her legs. start with gentle licking, some sucking on it, not too hard unless she asks for you to be more aggressive. Since you are having sex and she asked you to try, tell her tell her you would love to BUT you never have before and if she could help direct you where and how. if you two can't talk about these things, you have shouldn't be going there. yet! keep exploring Christopher Columbus !

Answer 3

serious question answered. start by being intimate with every inch of her body not concentrating on just her "happy place". and as you proceed to get lower on the torso gently kiss her. not slobbery ones just soft pecks. take your thumb and first finger and separate the p walls and gently touch your tongue to her "button". be gentle first and progress from there pending how she reacts. use your other hand to rub somewhere else like her chest. just remember all around up and down side to side it all feels good when done the right way.

Answer 4

That depends on the girl. Don't be afraid to experiment, start with your fingers and WATCH her for feedback. You'll know what feels good pretty quickly. Once you've got a feel for the playing field, it's just a matter of experimentation.

Answer 5

Start with her mouth (seriously). Then go south. Continue south until she starts to sigh. When the sighing becomes pronounced, go east and west. When moaning begins, go back to center. I promise, pal. She WILL give you some direction on this. Remember, this is play. It's supposed to be fun. Have a good time with it. Explore.

Answer 6

first of all, a very enthusiastic attitude is great. if she's convinced that you are just DYING to please her, she will get off all the quicker. show her by passionate kissing... my guy also gets this naughty smile and says "oh boy!" lol... whatever suits you.

try sliding the panties off with your mouth, but use your hands to help that go smoother if needed. kiss her all over her stomach and thighs.

then use the top of your tongue (where the tastebuds are) (not the tip) to rub on the top of the clitoris. just keep doing that, don't stop, she'll love it. use the flat part, when it's a pointy tongue flicking around, that just feels icky!

meanwhile, use your fingers to gently stroke wherever you can reach!

hooray!

Answer 7

I would suggest finding some reading material on the subject. You'd be surprised at what you can find at a Barnes & Noble or Waldenbooks. Also, try talking to your partner. She'll be able to tell you what feels good and what's not working for her. Be open and honest.

Answer 8

Might think about going to Barns &Nobles to find a good book on sex to help you out. Everyone is different in what they like. The book can tell you where all the good spots are.

Answer 9

lick the area above the "hole",, eventually you'll feel a lil nub in there called the clit. keep llicking all around that

then put a finger an inch or two in her,,push upwards and back like your saying with your finger "come here"

you can move down and lick her butt once too

Answer 10

Well if you guys are sexual you are suppose to know what she wants and how or you just tell her this so that she wouldn't think that you are clueless and inexperience. Tell her "command me baby I am yours tell me where and how you want it" just in a really seductive voice that would work. It works for me! LOL