I have been with my partner for 2 years,we are in our late 20's. we dont live together, but he is at my place quiet a bit. Lately he has been spending up to 5days/ nights, including sleepovers at his mate's house. If i call or sms him and ask when ill see him or what he's up to, he gets angry and turns his phone off etc. He also wont go 'out' with me of a weekend and will only go out unattended. I think its weird to not want to go out with your partner and i think its weird guys that age having sleepovers......ive asked him bout it and he gets angry and says im jelous he has a best friend...What do you think? Im at a loss. I dont know what to do...
2007-02-07 21:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by Lilly lola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess it doesn't really make a difference in the end. he's just not that into you. time to break up, obviously.
2007-02-07 22:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's my opnion that if a drastic change has happened in your relationship that you have to ask yourself, do I fully trust my partner?
Because if you fully trust your partner, then there should be nothing to worry about.
If you have doubts about their will power not to cheat, then by all means ask your partner about it. It may be a nasty conversation, but if they have been with you for two years then they should understand. Try going at it in another direction since you have already talked to your partner about it.
But with my experience, he's cheating. I had a boyfriend who would "runaway" atleast a few nights a week and we lived together and he'd make up excuses like he had a fire call that went long, or he spent the night at a friends house. When I would call, he wouldn't answer my calls at all. Then I found out just how bad he was cheating. SO I left.
Well, good luck with your situation
2007-02-07 22:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by krystalk25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know but, i suggest when you do see him next, go to yours and sit down with a cup of tea, and let everything out, just ask him whats going on.
Are you sure he's not under so much stress or theres something going on in his mind that you aren't aware of?
Just ask him.
Personally in my opinion i think that he might have gay tendencies but isn't sure so he's trying to spend more time with the opposite sex.Or he wants time alone or his best friend knows he's under stress and he might feel more chilled there, you know what guys do though lol they just go out and drink beer most of the time.
Don't worry sweetheart
just ask him round as soon as :)
2007-02-07 22:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be saying he's at his friend's house, but really, he's out with some other girl.
Sounds to me like either way, it's over. Move on, to someone who appreciates you.
His getting angry when you message or call him is a very big clue that he either wants or needs a lot of space, feels smothered, or has someone else.
When you ring him, that someone else can hear the conversation.
He might tell her after he hangs up with you, that you are "stalking him" or that you are his "Sister".
Seriously, sounds like it is over, or he's too close to his "Friend."
Good luck.
2007-02-07 22:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is gay or necessarily cheating.
Sounds like he is tired of dealing with you and your jealous tendencies, so he is grappling with how to get rid of you without incident.
If I were you, I would start to find somebody new because you are about a stone-throw away from being replaced.
And please don't EVER get the feeling that you are irreplaceable.
2007-02-07 22:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to go on. But almost anything is possible. A good likelihood would be that the relationship is fatigued and he is bored and looking elsewhere. It behooves you to do the same.
2007-02-07 22:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's got his cake and eating it too. is his mate a guy or gal? and if he has one or the other what are you doing waisting your time on him? sweetie dump that crum and find you someone that will take you out and show you off to the world.
2007-02-07 22:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with him if he's acting this way, regardless if he's gay or not. I would dump him in a heartbeat, no man is going to treat me like that.
2007-02-07 22:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over there and all of you can have sleepovers...then find out....yourself
2007-02-07 21:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a MAN! Your boi is GAY!
2007-02-07 22:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋