Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

Me and this girl are good friends. she has a boyfriend but he's known as a player and almost everyone i know thinks she's too good for him. but she always says hey to me, she waits for me when we're going to class, she chose the same group as i did (we have modules and we get to pick what subject we want based on how high our grades are mine was higher than hers by a point and she went right after me) , she lets her leg rest on mine, and she's all giggly when its just us two. and you know how sometimes people have a certain look in their eye when they dig u, i think i see it in hers not sure yet. is she crushing or is she just a good friend. oh and once she was talking to herself and i think she said i can't wait til our next class. but i asked what she said and she said never mind. i could be wrong but i think thats what i heard. and when my friend cracks jokes about her being my woman and stuff she smiles and laughs. what do you think?

2007-02-07 13:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i tried out for a musical together, thought it would be fun
We both got equal parts in the musical, both got a little solo but no lead, now she has this really big head.
she thinks shes the greatest and i don't mean to be mean but its like shes not very good
she is driving me crazy! All she ever does is talk about how good she is and the people who got leads are not as good as her, and she has no right to say that because everyone is better than her!
should i tell her that shes not that good or to stop talking down to people who shes jealous of or something? i want to let her know the truth but don't want ot loose her as a friend, what should i do?

2007-02-07 13:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by brdwaylvr 3 in Friends

This question is for both genders.
I'm male, 5'8, and I'm 15. I have a toned and average mass eight pack with a well rounded muscular structure on my legs, chest, back, and arms. It's not huge, it's well toned and well massed, so it looks natural. I'm training for the Junior Olympics as a fencer, so I need this, speed and power and I cross train with swimming.
Would girls find this attractive or disgusting? Would I be considered a jock?

2007-02-07 13:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Mikail 2 in Singles & Dating

ok--so he is 13 and im 12. we've kissed a few times, but i want us to do more than that. Stuff like chocolates, and a teddy bears won't work. he loves Panic! at the disco, but has all their albums. I need something subtle yet romantic--and no we are not going to have sex!!

HELP ME!!!!!!!!

2007-02-07 13:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend of two years finally called me after a really bad breakup. but now im about to move out of state. We talked about him coming but he is still very "wishy washy", so there's no telling if he will come or not. I want him to but i dont want to pressure him. i only have 3 weeks!! what if he doesnt go? im afraid it will be over for good. how should i handle this?

2007-02-07 13:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by sTreSSLEss 1 in Singles & Dating

why do people allways fall in love with your friends?
i am in love with my friend and it sucks so why does it allways happen?

2007-02-07 13:25:59 · 11 answers · asked by [undercover dinosaur] 1 in Singles & Dating

i try to enjoy my life but the only problem i dont know how to say the woman i want to make you happy for the rest of my life it is like a relationship i am very quit and i want to chance it but i dont know how i think to stupid like the woman is the rose and i dont know how get the big color in their eyes...

2007-02-07 13:25:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've only met this guy that I like once but that seemed to be enough. He's really sweet and funny. We've been talking over myspace ever since I met him this last summer. He lives on the east coast and I live in the middle of the country. I really like him and I'll probably see him again this summer. I think he likes me but I've never been too good at being able to tell if someone likes me. Do I tell him how I feel or just wait for him to say something if he does like me?

2007-02-07 13:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone else out there worry about meeting mr, right/mrs. right, and if so, what do you do to cure your worrys?

2007-02-07 13:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by Ellen 4 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when my already really flirty guy friend always pokes my stomach, and smiles at me? i dont think he likes me

2007-02-07 13:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by Char 5 in Singles & Dating

if a woman hurts your feelings so deeply that you can't hold anymore ...for example, an ex who tells you something that is very hard for you to hold out , would it a sign of weakness if after a moment you cry can't hold and cry before her ...do you think the woman consider the man weak for that ?

2007-02-07 13:23:10 · 23 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 13:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

The wedding in March 17th, but I've already gotten 2 checks from people for wedding gifts. Both are also attending the wedding according to the RSVP cards. Should I do a thank you now, then a thank you for attending the wedding as well? Or it is OK to wait until after the wedding & just send 1 note?

2007-02-07 13:21:15 · 22 answers · asked by layla983 5 in Weddings

i have no idea what to get my boyfriend 4 valentinesday! what should i get him? (hes 11, so plz be approprate!)
what should i give him that i can afford? how should i give it to him? do i hand it 2 him and run? or hand it to him a then kiss him? plz help me pronto!

2007-02-07 13:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by ♪♫♪ 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont see myself in a relationship anymore with this girl who turned me down...but why is it my stomach literally ached when i saw her again??? and i cant get her off my mind, i keep replaying our brief enocunter, asking myself why did i feel that way and what was she thinking. i even internalize how will i feel if i see her with someone else, and im starting to hate that guy who got along with her. i keep promising myslef ill never ask another question about her, but i still do.

(im busy with college and have crushes, but she still bothers me so much! i still feel hurt.i want my revenge, but being mad just keeps me stranded, and if im not mad, i tend to have a soft spot for her)

2007-02-07 13:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy friend that said he was fond of me during one of our recent conversations. I have been intimate with him. What does it mean?

2007-02-07 13:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by lil blue eyez 2 in Singles & Dating

theres dis one guy who is so cute and he started liking me well thats wut i thought until i found out he ask out my enemy and i was so pist ...and he had the nerves to call me and tell me a bunch of BS and i dont know wut 2 do the only thing is that i was actually falling 4 him and i still kinda like him so i dont know if i should let it go like nothing had happen!
ps.he knew i didnt like the gurl he ask out and his friend likes me a lot!!

2007-02-07 13:18:50 · 4 answers · asked by latina 2 in Singles & Dating

if its your first time doing something[intimate]
like kissing or sex or something...
& you do something wrong [ex. mess up while kissing]
but the girl LAUGHS about it,
what do YOU think about that?

2007-02-07 13:18:47 · 22 answers · asked by Spongebob ") 3 in Singles & Dating

How come sometimes when a guy is clearly interested they go one step forward and two steps back in the process? Why are some men affraid to act on their interest and chose instead to flitter around with mixed messages? It is just plain confusing.

One minute he seems very interested and then the next time seems very unclear . I don't get it at all. My story is way to long to explain but I have confirmation from another guy friend who has observed that this guy is interested, just confusing.

Guys your advice will really help.

2007-02-07 13:18:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am going into highschool next year but i am scaried out of my wits. my friends are going to the same school as me so i am not afraid of that but i am afraid of bullies. there are a lot of books and movies out there about bullies in highschool and i don't want to be the victim. What do i do to avoid the wrath of bullies???

2007-02-07 13:18:07 · 20 answers · asked by Candace 1 in Friends

2007-02-07 13:18:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl (iv never talked to her) and im trying to build up some courage to start talking to her, but i really cant think of a good icebreaker, and im not sure if she will think im completely weird if i just went up and started talking to her? (i think she knows i like her) So what do you think?

2007-02-07 13:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help I'm getting married in Nov. and i am planning on a fall themed wedding but i need help gathering info! anyone with fall themed invitations, table pieces, cakes, wedding favors, etc,.... my fiance is a Chef, so we are trying to incorporate chef theme as well ( mini whisks, cookie cutters in the shape of maple leaves etc.) any idea will be greatly appreacted. Thanks!

2007-02-07 13:17:15 · 5 answers · asked by MrsChef 2 in Weddings

I am american and I am dating a albanian. We have been dating for a while. I was wanting to know if their are any traditions that albanians do when dating. An example of what I mean is I have a friend that told me that when albanians date they dont introduce their girlfriend to their his parents unless he plans on marring her. Is this true?....and if so what other weird traditions should I be aware of when dating an albanian? Any advice and any info on dating albanians would be very appreciated. Thanks!

2007-02-07 13:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there is this girl, shes engaged (mid 20's), and to put it nicely, is super boring. Never wants to do anything out, just wants to sit around, boring and mundane, over and over. Her relationsh*t with the fiancee is shakier than the san andreas fault, and she is just an all around unhappy person. Now for whatever reason, the GUY does not want to see her on Friday nights, so she deems it necessary to try and get a 'Girls Night' going each week. The highlight of the night is to see who gets drunkest on water with lemon. Girls nights once in a while as a whole are definately great, but should we all have to suffer because of a slightly removed and angry woman who cant get along with her to-be husband? PS, if the point wasnt taken, these nights are usually not so exciting. Thanks!

2007-02-07 13:16:48 · 1 answers · asked by Feltersnatch 1 in Friends

should a 15 year old girl go out with a 19 year old guy.

2007-02-07 13:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by RoseMary 2 in Singles & Dating

i work at a call center and theres this guy i meet and hes absoultley wonderful and i want to start dating him but hes 7 years older than me and we work together but hes the best i ever ran into im early 20's hes late should i go for it my only thing is hes been around the block a few times and hes about ready 2 settle down and im not sure if i'm ready for that hes a great guy though i need your opions now

2007-02-07 13:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by rhotgurl1 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to get this boy to go out with me but he doesn't like me. what do i do?

2007-02-07 13:16:09 · 2 answers · asked by u don't know me and never wi 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married and having a difficult time choosing the colour for my girls...I love the idea of black dresses with a baby pink accent. I also like a deep magenta colour. The problem is some people look at black as bad luck and the colour of death as oppose to the traditional pure white for a wedding. Though I like the magenta I'm finding it hard to match accesories such as flowers, invitations etc. And I always go back to black. Can someone help??

2007-02-07 13:15:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My 'mother' asked me what I wanted from her (past history of being abused by my step-father AND her). I said (extremely leniently) "To say sorry...and to mean it". Her reply was "I could say sorry...but I wouldn't mean it"! She told me to remember that it was my choice - I told her "You've just made it for me". That was our last conversation, about 3 1/2 years ago now. I have read that to heal, it is best to find it in your heart to forgive but can you really forgive someone who openly has no remorse for their actions?!

2007-02-07 13:15:21 · 44 answers · asked by catwoman alex 2 in Family