do women really consider a man weak when he cries before them ?

Question

if a woman hurts your feelings so deeply that you can't hold anymore ...for example, an ex who tells you something that is very hard for you to hold out , would it a sign of weakness if after a moment you cry can't hold and cry before her ...do you think the woman consider the man weak for that ?

Answer 1

depends upon every woman.......some woman feel that he is weakkkkk..........

but there is another category who will think he is crying because he loves me alot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i heard from my gf that women think that Marry a boy who can cry for you!!!!!

Answer 2

In your situation, no way. Men are human beings too, and we all have the same heart and the same capacity to feel emotional pain, don't we? If any woman ever thinks a man weak in such an instance, then she must be heartless.

As long as men don't watch romantic comedies and weep at the end, I would not consider crying during emotional trauma weak. It's what anyone would do.

Answer 3

Unfortunately it all depends on what she told you. If your saying that an ex told you something and you started crying, she could think that your weak because in her mind you should not be so sensitive to anything she has to say because she's an ex. Of course this all depends on when you broke up.

Another factor is how you cry..yes. how you cry can be an issue too. If you shed a tear that will not be so bad as compared to if you started crying uncontrollably...if she can see snot coming out our nose then that can be a major turn off for a woman. You can't act as if you just heard that your momma died.

Answer 4

I have been through some really hard things and cried in the presence of girls. The ones that were worth my time NEVER saw that as weak. Quite the contrary. They see a guy as strong if he's not afraid to show his emotions.

Of course, it might be different if a guy cried frequently.

Girls who see crying as a weakness probably have some pretty big issues themselves, or worse, they're just plain bitches.

Answer 5

Before me and my boyfriend were very serious he called me up crying one night because his ex (who he almost married) had called him and said some very hurtful things. I didn't think that he was weak for this, I thought that it was obvious that he cared very much for her and I hoped that one day he would feel the same about me.

I have dated men that cried a lot and yes found them to be weak, but those are the ones that cry over everything.
If you are hurt, go ahead and let it be known, if she thinks you're weak screw her..sometimes it takes a lot of strength to cry.

Answer 6

Definitely not. Even the strongest man has feelings too. Emotion is something spontaneous. if I'm the girl, i'll be guiltier than ever to have make a guy cry ( provided it's not a crocodile tear)

Answer 7

Who ever said that? There is this perception in society where men are suppose to be "bad ***'s" and they can't even show emotion? Well, not true. Of course men cry -- you have to! If something tragic happened you think only women are crying in the corner?

Answer 8

No, that doesn't mean he's weak. My boyfriend cried in front of me once, and it showed how much he cared.
I think it's a strong sign, not a weak one.
FO REAL

Answer 9

I don't think they are weak for showing emotion, and I think that the only women who do are shallow and probably don't deserve to be loved anyway.

Answer 10

Not at all. I believe crying is human, and sometimes if you cry before someone it can make you seem strong, because you are not afraid to show your emotions.

Answer 11

no
lots of girls like guys to show them their feelings
sometimes ppl break up b/c of no communication
im not totally sure bout this myself cuz every girl is different
depending on the girl ull kno if its a weakness
and y ur crying