my ex-boyfriend of two years finally called me after a really bad breakup. but now im about to move out of state. We talked about him coming but he is still very "wishy washy", so there's no telling if he will come or not. I want him to but i dont want to pressure him. i only have 3 weeks!! what if he doesnt go? im afraid it will be over for good. how should i handle this?
2007-02-07 13:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by sTreSSLEss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it day by day.
If it doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be
2007-02-07 13:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is an ex----why feel the way you do??? He left once--he will probably leave you again---there is no way of thinking or expecting him to stay with you after you move. He just can't come and go after a break-up----what are you ---a second team player???---go find a nice man who is mature enough to have a real relationship with you. Enjoy your new location--should be fun meeting all those new people and seeing new interesting places. Remember to be yourself and stand tall---smile and Good luck
2007-02-07 13:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say do what you are going to do regardless of what he decides.You can't live your life around the possibilty of things happening.I know you want this to work out with him,but don't give him that much control.Express your wishes about him coming, but don't base your life around what he's doing.It might wake him up and get him to realize he has to make a decision now or risk losing possibly the best relationship for him.
2007-02-07 13:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by AJ78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself why you want this relationship to continue. Does he treat you well? Is he kind? Why did you have this big fight? With just 3 weeks left, I don't think I'd count on him. He has lots to do to make this work, and he's not doing it. Think of this as a "Clean Break" and move on. I wish you well.
2007-02-07 13:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep any thing in mind ask him frankly never let loose your wishes tell him what you wish from him. Nothing can be more painful than past bad break up.
2007-02-07 13:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go by yourself, you will find some one else, plenty of fish in sea baby. and get over it both of you, it sounds like it was never meant to be. you know that saying enjoy the freedom while you can.
2007-02-07 13:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plan on going without him, that way if he doesn't show up at departure time, you won't be disappointed. If he doesn't go then you know it wasn't meant to be and you can move on to bigger and better things.
2007-02-07 13:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only have 21 more days there do you really think that you could have a good relationship in that small a time?
2007-02-07 13:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up. Surely there is someone better for you out there.
2007-02-07 13:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋