Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

I can not take a stand and make my own decisions. I tend to listen to others viewpoints too much.

My parents, uncle and cousin say one things and I believe it. Then, my daughter, ex-husband and mother-in-law say another thing and I believe it.

How can I learn to be my own support and believe in my decisions so that I don't get swayed and follow one path only?

2007-02-06 15:15:45 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

So here is the scenario , I have these classmate/group mate that I was chatting w/ because we are doing a report . When were done doing the report , suddenly we got to a different topic(she started it) which is about love life and I thought that she has a boyfriend already because I ask her about the guy she was with often but that guy is just her good friend . And She told me that she is so single that and she said "I am single by choice" .Thanks and she is kind of my type :D but she's 3yrs older and she got a boylet already ...

2007-02-06 15:15:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:15:24 · 4 answers · asked by murder.death.suicide 1 in Friends

When she gets home, I have to have a glass of wine ready for her, and give her neck and foot massages, and serve her dinner as well,
If I talk back to her, she locks me in the basement until I change my attitude, and if that doesn't do it, out comes the vvhip.
She's not the boss of me?

2007-02-06 15:14:30 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 15:14:21 · 10 answers · asked by david r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it when you DO or when you DON'T have your period is it more likely to get pregnant?

2007-02-06 15:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:13:49 · 9 answers · asked by ♥brasilian chick♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:13:20 · 12 answers · asked by Leo L 1 in Friends

Aside for the normal hair and clothes issues, has does one go about regaining their self-confidence, which shows in her appearance.
Without too much detail here, I had alot of setbacks in the past two years and have lost so much "sparkle." Yeah, that's the only way I can describe it. Thank you in advance for your replies.

2007-02-06 15:13:14 · 7 answers · asked by soozemusic 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-06 15:13:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should couples have a lot in common, or do you believe the "opposites attract"?

2007-02-06 15:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

people you meet online. i mean harmless flirting, not let's get together and have sex, flirting.

or do you think that they would get the wrong idea, and think that you are just playing them, even though you put it out there from the begining...

2007-02-06 15:12:43 · 7 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Singles & Dating

I'd say maybe 15

2007-02-06 15:11:11 · 14 answers · asked by disintegrationisthebestalbumever 2 in Singles & Dating

is it totally wrong?

2007-02-06 15:10:59 · 8 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Girls you know whats its like in Jr. High all the groups-the popular the cheerleaders(im part of),the nerds,the rockers,the emos. What do you think of them.

2007-02-06 15:10:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is a very good friend of mine. He has alot of problems and he always complained about it to us and just didnt really get it how badly his problems were bodering him. He has few problems first of all he has alot of acne in his face mostly. His parents are divorced, he is pretty short, doesnt like his step sisters, and he had all of these tough classes. Thanks god he told his dad about his problems and he was in Hospital for couple of months. Now he is getting out the hospital and We decided to meet in some restaurant. I know what exactly I should tell to make him feel great about himself. I mean I already told him stuff like alot of people have worst life than him and he says he knows and I am even confused. Please give a good advice, because I really dont want him to try to kill himself. I care about my friends alot.

2007-02-06 15:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Friends

let's say a guy and girl have sex. the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is. the guy knows beforehand that the girl is a virgin. what does it mean and is it normal if a guy does not really talk much the first time, but the second time he constantly asks the girl if she is alright and tells her to tell him when to stop and when it hurts?

2007-02-06 15:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by lauren c 1 in Singles & Dating

I was eating dinner with my father once when I was a little guy oh about when I was 13 years old at the time. This gentleman walks by me and all of a sudden a wad of cash falls out and one of the bills was a hundred. Everyone just staired at me as if to say "Idiot, pick it up, finders keepers buddy!". I looked at the guy, then down, I didn't hessitate, I picked up the cash and ran after the guy giving him back the money. He had this sudden look of shock and thanks all over his face! He said "Oh thank you soooo much young man! Pheewwww!". A few minutes later He walks over and picks up our bill for the dinner my father had treated me to and the man sais; "This is for being honest. Thank you so much young man. I felt sooo good that day and man was my dad ever so proud of me. :)

2007-02-06 15:10:07 · 35 answers · asked by John S 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, this probably sounds needy, but seriously, i just can't figure it out. People tell me im pretty, i work out tons, im nice to just about everyone, im pretty confident usually, though shy and not all out flirty like some. Plus im a good dresser :). What is it that im missing here? I've never had a real bf, never get asked out or even hit on.

2007-02-06 15:10:07 · 10 answers · asked by hippiextrissa 1 in Singles & Dating

I need a short story to orate for my speech class and I remembered reading this guys' posts and they were hilarious. They were about his misadventures with women. He's a young guy and I think he's based in Miami. Please help ASAP!! Thanks

2007-02-06 15:09:59 · 3 answers · asked by brex25 1 in Singles & Dating

I have politely said to him, in the past, that even though I don't mind the occasional porn, some of the stuff he sends is really sick! Probably some of the most disgusting stuff I've ever seen!
He finds these things hilarious and looks forward to my reactions.
Help me.....I think I'm in porno hell!! He's one of my best friends and I don't want to offend him or be too harsh. He'll never buy that I've gone and given up liking porn.

2007-02-06 15:09:40 · 8 answers · asked by Lynn 3 in Friends

i realized that i wil always cover for ma best frens.. if they cheat or out wit their other flings, i'll pretend to their bfs dat their girls was out wit me.. is this really a good role of a best fren?

2007-02-06 15:09:19 · 4 answers · asked by fizadora 5 in Friends

A friend many years ago! Would love to hear from her. Think of her a lot. Just like to know if she is well and surviving!

2007-02-06 15:08:25 · 4 answers · asked by scoodlelou 3 in Friends

do you all like in a girl? What do you all think? Sometimes it is so hard to tell if a guy likes you or not. Why dont you boys just come out and say that you like some girls? What is it? Emberrassment? I can see that it is hard to get into a guys mind, but give me some pointers guys.

2007-02-06 15:08:16 · 12 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5 in Singles & Dating

let's say a guy and girl have sex. the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is. the guy knows beforehand that the girl is a virgin. what does it mean and is it normal if a guy does not really talk much the first time, but the second time he constantly asks the girl if she is alright and tells her to tell him when to stop and when it hurts?

2007-02-06 15:07:12 · 12 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I happen to know that he likes me too. His sister told me. The thing is that both of us are shy even though we're close. (not "best friends" close but more than just acquaintances)

Anyway, lately he's been acting really strange around me and I can tell he's trying to hide his feelings. Sometimes, we sort of send out little signals and I think he knows that I like him too. The thing is that neither of us is brave enough to take the first step and admit it. But despite all this, he's sort of acting like a boyfriend to me and I'm sorta playing the role of the girlfriend. How will we know when it's official?

2007-02-06 15:06:29 · 11 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay this is a huge huge problem in my relationship with my boyfriend of a year now. I don't know if he's jealous or what it is. I have a friendthat i have been friends with since I was 7 years old, he lives an hour away and I only see him maybe once a year when he comes to visit friends here. We talk pretty much everytime, he'll call sometimes during the week, but I do not by any means think of him as more than a friend. I am absolutely crazy about my boyfriend and love him so much so it bothers me that he is so upset about this. He suspected my friend liked me sicne we talk alot and becuase he would say alot of times he thought I was hot ect. He does seem pretty down about my boyfriend too and usually insuslts him-though neither have evermet each other-but i tell him not to and he has stopped. Anyway my friend did admit he thinks he's "in love" with me, but I told him we could only be friends, and he's stopped all that. But this has not helped the situation with my boyfriend.

2007-02-06 15:06:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl alot. Its more than just a sexual thing. I care for her alot, and i think i might actually love her. We were good friends for awhile, but she turned me down. So i backed off for awhile, and now she wants to talk to me, and says she somewhat likes me, but doesnt want a relationship. Should i still pursue her, and keep getting heart broken?

2007-02-06 15:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Michael P 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently met someone new and went out every weekend with her for the past 4 weeks. We've spent afternoons together to bond and eat meals together at interesting places. She and I have both made meals for each other. It's understood we're becoming good friends and we feel really comfortable with one another. I enjoy the moments being w/ her and she's felt the same. We've never designated the 'outtings' as 'dates', which undoubtedly relieved the pressure and allowed us to just be... time's passed and she's mentioned that another guy's asked her out on a 'date' at night during the workweek and went out with him... she's been open to talk to me about it and I'm not jealous about it. However, I'd like to ask her out on a 'date', too. I guess what makes this different is the level of attraction and perception of bf material.

Am I at the point-of-no-return?

2007-02-06 15:05:23 · 5 answers · asked by Ebones 2 in Singles & Dating

like every night in the past month this has been happening to me i wake up thinking about him. what does this mean?

2007-02-06 15:05:13 · 2 answers · asked by katana b 3 in Singles & Dating