Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

I usually have an open door policy (friends/family/neighbors feel free to drop by without calling first). However, these past few months, I've been sick and not wanting so much company. If I'm going to take a nap or just feel really lousy, I put a small dry erase board on my front door so people can leave me a message instead of ringing the doorbell (they leave a message AND ring the doorbell, and wake me up). One new acquaintance has been saying behind my back that I'm "avoiding" her, ever since I put the board out, although she is aware of my illness. She would come over, ring once, knock once, and spin tires out of my driveway and speed down the street. By the time I could get my body moving and to the door, she'd be speeding off. Would you be offended by "the board", and why?

2007-02-06 15:27:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been dating about 9 months now. I am really in love with him, but he sleeps around. I know this sounds crazy, but everytime we would end up hooking back up. After a while, I accepted it. I love him the same...but our sex-life and came to a stand-still at a point (I'm talking like 3 months without). I asked him why'd we stop...I even tried to initiate (which is odd for me)...but to no avail. Anyway, a few months ago, I acted out on my urges...with an old friend. It's just sex (of course protected). My boyfriend found out. One day when I was with my "friend", I accidently called my boyfriend and he heard....it all. What are the chances of that!! But okay...my boyfriend was in RAGE...but he realized what he was putting me through. Ever since he found out...he's been taking me out to eat daily, buying flowers, and just paying alot more attention to me...like it used to be. I told him that my fling was over, but how do i make him understand that i don't want it to be....Help!

2007-02-06 15:26:54 · 6 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Singles & Dating

one of my best friends came up to me yesterday and told me that the guy i like said that he would never go out with me because I'm ugly. i was really sad so i asked his best friend if he really said that and he said that he did. Then today when i was walking home he called me and asked why i didn't talk to him at school and i told him that i didn't think he would want to talk to the ugly girl and he told me that he never said that and now his friend is saying that he was just joking when he said that it was true. so who should i believe, my best friend or my crush and his bf

2007-02-06 15:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Kyana 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:26:36 · 3 answers · asked by dumbblonde13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been daating this girl and shes the most important thing to me and I want to do everything right I can for her. So could u please tell me whats the most important things a girl wants from a guy.

2007-02-06 15:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

long story short. this guy wanted to be my friend. kept bugging me. ive known him for a while. thought he was a nerd from his picture. abt a year or year and half later i met him and he turned out sorta cute. anyways, he ignoring me now and i dont know why. its bugging me cuz i cant think of anything i did. which bring me to my question... is he playing hard to get or he just lost his interest in me? or anything else? got any insights?

2007-02-06 15:26:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that I approached on an online dating website almost three weeks ago still hasn't asked me for my number or to go on a date. So I told him after day 12 what is his purpose on match if he is not going to go for it-he told me that he was going to take his profile down-then once January got here he said women started winking and emailing him--So even though he knew that he was going to be extremley busy in Jan and Feb--he left it up anyway--I kept talking to him--I think I am into him--then yesterday--I started reading 'he's just not that into you' and everthing about this guy went against anything the book had to say about men--so I emailed him and told him the following--I take back being your friend again, What was I thinking? I thought you had potential with me--too bad--good luck--then he sends me this email saying that he was going to ask me for my number that day--and blah blah, I told him-yeah after you got my email you say that now--then we ended up talking on instant

2007-02-06 15:24:48 · 8 answers · asked by heynow 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying he is hidious! But why do I like him,even tho he isnt attractive?

2007-02-06 15:24:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

without actually meeting each other. Nonetheless, they profess their love for each other like it was the real thing.

My question is: Is that really possible? What happened to Love as I knew it?

2007-02-06 15:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by Jerry 6 in Friends

me once did not like it am I gay if I only did it once I,m back to girls

2007-02-06 15:23:41 · 9 answers · asked by KJ 2 in Singles & Dating

Probably the hardest thing for me...

2007-02-06 15:23:31 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

So now, I text him and I dont really get a reply? He answers,but not much to his answers.
What is up?
Is he playing games?

2007-02-06 15:22:31 · 20 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

Does anybody know the number that you use to change your number on someones caller id...
The number that you call, then you dial the persons number that your calling, then you dial the number that you want to appear on there caller id... I had it but some one recently stole my phone along with the sim card unfortunally... if you know it or where to get it id really appreciate it. By the way i am aware that this is the dating Category, i picked it because a lot of ppl like to play with their boy/girl friends with this number.

2007-02-06 15:22:15 · 1 answers · asked by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by Congi 1 in Singles & Dating

how does a man know your limits?
do you know your own limits of what is too dirty and what is too mean?

do you like to have your limits tested?

2007-02-06 15:22:03 · 10 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm happy outside, but I'm sad inside.

2007-02-06 15:22:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My aunt just passed away on sunday . Her next of kin are legally her three sons. Despite the fact they were aware of her condition they were not present at time of death. One has stated he does not want to have anything to do with her , the other has not contacted the hospital and although the third has been in contact from time to time, he is homeless and mentally ill. My mother just wants to give her sister a proper memorial and bring her ashes to her family in Mexico the family as a whole is willing to help with the cost . what is the best thing to do?

2007-02-06 15:21:54 · 1 answers · asked by roxy_girlx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last year I used to like one of my friends but this year he moved to another school. But this year one of his brothers is in one of my classes, he has long, pretty hair and he so cute (I have always thought that he was cute) but recently he has started to talk to me and when he talks to me I turn red but the only other person that I remember turning red like that was when my friend talked to me but I don't remember if I am remembering his brother or if I like him? I am in the (9th grade and he is in the 11th grade) what do you think? Or do I just think of him as a friend?

2007-02-06 15:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend's birthday is on Sunday. We're only in highschool and she's turning 16. What do you guys think is a good present? She's not into sports or anything like that. She's religious (Catholic) and she lieks to play the piano. I was thinking of getting her a bracelet of some sort or maybe a necklace or maybe that's something piano related. I'm on a $20 budget because I have to get her another present for Valentine's Day. Thanks.

2007-02-06 15:20:30 · 4 answers · asked by Lorenzo! 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and his new gal have lied to family members regarding our divorce and finances, ruining my reputation with family and friends. Can I sue either of them for slander?

2007-02-06 15:20:15 · 21 answers · asked by yamanna13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok....my friend met a guy online and they started chattin pretty often. ultimately they started talkin over the phone and one fine day he proposed to her and she accepted coz she was absolutely head over wheels for him! but now after they have been together for about two months he has started avoidin her...he doesnt answer her calls and he dint score well in his exams and so told her that he broke his mobile's chip!! she has completely freaked out and is acting wierd! she cant stay without listening to his voice once everyday!! i could have killed that guy if i could! but im feeling helpless! she has stopped calling any of us up! she even said once that she may do something to herself!! im feeling damn helpless...and talking to her hasnt helped!! what do i do??!!

2007-02-06 15:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by ravishin 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to know about some interesting sex behavior.

2007-02-06 15:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Marvin 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 4 months and we've
been awesome together. We r both sophmores in highschool.
She broke up with me a week ago and is going out with a 18 year old
guy but i want her back. I really love her and want to stay with her.
what can i do to show her i love her and maybe get to keep her?

2007-02-06 15:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by MMA"TILL"I"DIE 2 in Singles & Dating

do you feel depressed whenever a period starts?? would this normal for me to think of breaking up stuff if my period started?
my period started yesterday and i feel totally depressed
i argued with my bf and i'm thinking to break up with him
just feel sick and tired of getting hurt, being broken.

2007-02-06 15:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by heyheyhey 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 15:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by nachtrieb2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please tell me your thoughts, experiences and stuff. we're in high school. and i'm wondering what my bf feels about it. thanks!

2007-02-06 15:17:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just wonering

2007-02-06 15:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by more than words 1 in Singles & Dating

i know a girl from 5 years. she is not good looking but has a good heart, nice voice. sometimes i feel i am attracted towards her but then i think i will get a beautiful girlfriend after sometime. i feel jealous when she talks to some other boy.sometimes it looks she avoids me .i dont know why i think of her?

2007-02-06 15:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by himanshu j 1 in Singles & Dating

We've hung out a few weekends in a row and went to a school dance together. It was a great time, but all I got was a little tongue action and a simple feel-up. I've called her quite a few times (about every three days or so) and she has called me. She told me many times that she had a great time at the dance. I can't hang out with her this weekend though, and since I haven't known her very long, I'm not sure what to do. She is constantly smiling and hasn't tried to end the calls. The only thing is I run out of things to talk about over the phone and it's awkward. What would be a good choice for a date where we can be together alone? I'm also kind of afraid to make a move because I'm uncertain, but I do think she likes me. When should I make the move at this dating place? Anyway, sort of confusing, but thanks for the help. Oh and she has been talking about her guy friends lately too, which I'm not sure if that's a bad thing or not?

2007-02-06 15:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by jinglebellz 1 in Singles & Dating