What if the Next of Kin Is absent and does not have the resources to claim the remains of a loved one?

Question

My aunt just passed away on sunday . Her next of kin are legally her three sons. Despite the fact they were aware of her condition they were not present at time of death. One has stated he does not want to have anything to do with her , the other has not contacted the hospital and although the third has been in contact from time to time, he is homeless and mentally ill. My mother just wants to give her sister a proper memorial and bring her ashes to her family in Mexico the family as a whole is willing to help with the cost . what is the best thing to do?

Answer 1

Your mom needs to make an effort to ask at least the first 2 sons if they have any objections. Unfortunately things could get sticky if she just goes ahead without some OK's from her sister's children.