ok....my friend met a guy online and they started chattin pretty often. ultimately they started talkin over the phone and one fine day he proposed to her and she accepted coz she was absolutely head over wheels for him! but now after they have been together for about two months he has started avoidin her...he doesnt answer her calls and he dint score well in his exams and so told her that he broke his mobile's chip!! she has completely freaked out and is acting wierd! she cant stay without listening to his voice once everyday!! i could have killed that guy if i could! but im feeling helpless! she has stopped calling any of us up! she even said once that she may do something to herself!! im feeling damn helpless...and talking to her hasnt helped!! what do i do??!!
2007-02-06 15:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by ravishin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any good friend would wanna beat the crap out of this jerk!! and I don't blame you, Firts of all right now although she seems to be avoiding every one she really needs all of you FRIENDS, shes hurt mad upset and sadly she sounds sucidal if shes still living with her parents or friends please have them keep an eye on her. and talk to her too open up, and when she does just be there and listen! or if the only way to get to her is the guy, get to him and have him talk to her to resolve it.
2007-02-06 15:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by xoxo-gina! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better u try to know about him and his background take any other friends help and inform them to chat with him. Talk with him as a stranger and then if he tries to do same thing which he did to u r friend. Then convince u r friend saying about his behaviour then she will understand
2007-02-08 03:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by sneha y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So they have never met in person?? ain't she then the stupid one, i know it is a dream to want to meet Ur life partner in a unique way but on-line is quite ridiculous.
he could have met someone else on-line, or be a total freak
Let her see how naive she is being: she needs a sense of reality.
2007-02-06 23:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is a big deal. If tlaking to her doesnt work than i know this is gona suck to hear but i think u should call someone with authority, cuz she could end up hurting herself.
2007-02-06 23:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wat can i say to this..just let time to b the best healer..b wth her always & tk her for outings & mk her go for her hobbies..
i myself a victim of this...me a brahmin liking shahzeb a muslim guy...he made me crazy by his talks & now ven i am dying for him he says he is getting married & cant b in touch..he has changed his postal address & contact number wth mail id...so just as i am staying wth all the pain hoping for the best...is all we can do..
good luck..may ur friend recover soon
2007-02-07 01:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy.
2007-02-06 23:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by CANDY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to go to the guy, if possible and see what is up with him....I dunno. If possible talk to her parents about it. Good luck. Take care.
2007-02-06 23:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the police she is suicidal. get her some help.
2007-02-06 23:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by L G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this the story of you or your friend dear...?
2007-02-07 07:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by aaryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋