The problem is, I’m married to a man who can’t understand why I react to his anger the way I do. When we have arguments, he often accuses me of playing games or trying to manipulate him, when most of the time, he’s angry over something that he has blown completely out of proportion. He gets angry over the initial event, then he lets it fester until it something completely different than the original event is on the surface. When this happens, I lose control, instantly, before I can even think about what is going on, and end up getting hysterical and thinking I’m the worst person on earth. Does anyone know of a resource where I can download information for spouses of sexual abuse? He needs to understand the dynamic of sexual abuse. It is not something that I can just tuck away and pretend it never happened…oh I wish it were. Maybe, if he can see what it is actually doing, he will get some help himself. Maybe….
2007-02-01
10:09:50
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