We are looking for ways to spice up our marriage a little bit. He is in the military & so he spends a lot of time away from home. When he's not out at sea, he works about 14 hours a day....by the time he gets home, he's ready to crash. He & I have both agreed that we'd love to have more sex. I was thinking that maybe I could start sending him dirty messages & then maybe once he got home, he'd have no choice but to stay awake!!! Any suggestions????
2007-02-01 10:18:20 · 11 answers · asked by Kaydi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did this one and got a great response from my husband. I was at work and for some reason I got the idea to go to the bathroom and take a N-de pic on my cell and send it to him, What was his answer? He sent one right back to me and said I will be home on time and so should you. It has been so much fun having cell phone sex with him. Great fun and if you do not have a camera phone, go get one it is worth the investment in the relationship.
Your Great! LOL
Tracylyn S
2007-02-01 10:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off simple. Say something about how you want to touch his *insert your favorite part of his body here*. Then progress to get more and more detailed. I agree with everyone else, if you both have camera phones, naughty pictures would be good. Just be sure that he will not be looking at his phone at a bad time and get caught. You don't want other people to see what is his only ;)
Also, if there is a "scenario" that he has always wanted to play out, try to fulfill that for him. Get a costume online and set up the house for him to get into it. Start to get his mind on it by sending text messages or leave voicemails.
Last idea- when he gets home, leave a series of dirty notes that he has to read on the way to your bedroom. Sort of like a long sex story but on index cards. On each card, he has to take off some article of clothing. Then by the time he gets to you he is naked and all riled up.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 11:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres plenty of ways you can spice things up in your marriage, and a little thing i like to call text sex is a great way to start. first start with sending hem a text that says ( wanna play? ) and if he knows you are geting frisky then he should understand what you mean but if not then you may have to help him by going in to something like ( i'm getting wet waiting for you! ) and keep it going from there if you like to tease then tease a little and if his mind is on the same track then he should start responding with his own dirty little thoughts. and if it all gos well he'll be rushing home to rip your clothes of ,carry you to the nearest covenient place and take out all the fustration of getting all turned on and not be able to get to you. and when your done there it will be a matter of mins. and you two will be off to the bedroom for round two ! and after you wake up you can tell me how great it was i would love to hear about your first exsperience with text sex!
2007-02-01 11:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by daniel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch this video explaining how to use just 3 texts to turn any woman on, and get her out on a date: http://www.magneticmsg.com it works, it's crazy what basic psychology can do.
I've used this on a few hotties and it worked everytime. Thing is I don't look that good. Crazy..
2014-08-01 07:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a camera phone send him a couple of dirty pics and he'll be ready to get it up when he gets home because he'll be looking at it all day.
2007-02-01 10:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great idea! Just make sure they are on a cellphone he uses with a passcode so no one else can hear them!
2007-02-01 10:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Star yourself in his favourite fantasies, if you know what they are. Text him parts of the story individually throughout the day :)
2007-02-01 10:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Carol G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats HOT!!!! Great idea. Just know this- when guys get naked chick pics, we go crazy. We just have to show our buddies!
2007-02-01 10:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by budhagan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start with "hey, sexy, how are you? I can't wait to get you home and tear you clothes off..."
2007-02-01 10:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by picking up the phone and calling him!
2007-02-01 10:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋