2007-02-01 10:14:57 · 31 answers · asked by notbad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes married
2007-02-01 10:19:24 · update #1
Are you daft?
2007-02-01 10:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by laughingspam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for u coz am there but will let u know how i handle it:
Told them but unlike you they are not married (and am not saying that closes the door), then they neither said no or yes as they are still trying to get over another heart break and a big distance btn us. Anyway i mail and don't push them just be a friend there when they need you plus all the usaul, Every so often i get mail from them which i so often look forward to more than they know and if thats how much am gonna have from them then i settle for that (although still hoping) coz i figured i couldn't do not having alittle bit of them in my life it was hurting so bad (i say this coz some said forget it). So wat am i saying, basically tell her, hear what she says, then follow your heart_thats what i did/doing_
Good Luck
2007-02-01 11:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by JAM - Emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should figure out why you cant have them first. If its because they are married..., run like hell the other way and dont slow down. If its because they are seeing someone else, then you may need to express your feelings to them and change thier mind. Its not a done deal untill the wedding is over!! Good luck!!
2007-02-01 10:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by scarlett11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is married leave well alone cause if by chance she did go out with you, would you ever be able to trust her to not do the same to you and move on to someone else.
2007-02-01 11:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't I'm afraid. It would be cruel of you to mess with their marriage and if you really loved her then you wouldn't want to hurt her in any way at all. I'm rather mad about a married man (saw him this evening actually) and it sucks, but that's life!! You'll get over it, I did.
2007-02-01 11:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Paradox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not happily married you might have a chance. If she has feelings for you and you persist long enough to show her that you will stick by her, will be there to support and take care of her, you could definitely have a chance. Life is short! Be Happy!:)
2007-02-01 10:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's married, forget it. If she's free, just be a good friend to her and treat her well, make her laugh. Eventually she may realise how special you are.
If she makes it clear she doesn't want to know, you have to leave her alone. The feelings will pass, with time.
2007-02-01 10:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should start by talkin to them and get to know them a bit betta and they will get 2 know you betta then start takin them out and see if they like youthen goin in and say you have had fun with them and then you will fined out the truth and if it is a no then its ok cos you will always be friends and ther are a load of ppl out ther for you to meet and click with so go on and take your chances cos you worth it xxxxx
2007-02-01 11:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by flaverxkisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really in love with her then heres what you do , call her on her phone and tell her how much you love her, explain why you feel this way, tell her your the one for here, now dont get pissed or mad when she says i love him instead of you, thats the hard part if you love her you will understand ....if you truly do
2007-02-01 10:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by crimsion_rain93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts so much..you wonder if you could come, waiting by the phone hoping there call..unfortunaty u cant make some one want you if they dont want u
2007-02-01 11:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love with someone married? if she's happy in the marriage then obviously she is in love with someone else...just forget and move on .....love happens again
2007-02-01 10:22:43 · answer #11 · answered by PhiLLyGurL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋