Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

I'm 18 years old and everytime my girlfriend and I lay on the couch or kiss and have intimate contact, I get an erection. I try to control myself, but I find it impossible sometimes. I get embarrassed about it and try to hide it from her as best as possible. Sometimes it's even to the point where I get one when I hold her hand or when we hug. I just feel like it's excessive.

We are not at a point where we can express ourselves through touching or intercourse. Often by the end of the night, I have unbelievable blue balls.

Is it normal to have these erection so often and so easily? And, are there any methods that any men can give me to try and control myself? I would just like to lay on the couch with my girlfriend without having to worry about hiding my erection.

Thanks in advance.

2007-01-21 11:44:13 · 8 answers · asked by radchad25 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been dating for 9 months and i love him to death. He isnt the most romantic type so i know he wont plan anything to extravegant but i want to do something for him. I want it to be special, i want it to mean something and be something he'll never forget. Any suggestions?

2007-01-21 11:43:52 · 6 answers · asked by nikkilanger 1 in Singles & Dating

6 years ago i went out with this kid who i met through a friend and we only met once but i really liked him we went out on/off 4 years i havent spoke to him in 6 mon. but 2 weeks ago i left a mess. on his cell sayin call me (he never callled back) should i call back and talk dierctly to him or forget about it since we only met once. if i do call back what should i say

2007-01-21 11:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-21 11:43:47 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I really wanna act, but can't tell my parents!

BTW: This is NOT my account! It is my friends! She knows I am using it! SHE NEVER USES YAHOO! ANSWERS! ONLY I DO! EVERY QUESTION IS MINE! SOME OF HER FRIENDS SEND HER EMAILS ABOUT THESE QUESTIONS AND I AM TELLING YOU, THEY ARE NOT HERS! MY NAME IS CASEY AND I AM 12!!!

2007-01-21 11:43:15 · 4 answers · asked by Julie P 2 in Friends

There is this girl in schol who always flirts with my boyfriend when i'm around and i'm starting to think that he likes her what should i do?

2007-01-21 11:42:33 · 4 answers · asked by Hattie 1 in Singles & Dating

Things will work out as they're meant to be. Is it saying it will work as it's meant to. Or that it will work out because it's meant to be? Do u get it?

2007-01-21 11:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by samantha wilson 5 in Singles & Dating

It seems like noone these days believes in it! Divorce rate is higher than ever and it seems hard to ever find anyone who seems happy in a relationship. What gives? Was finding "The One" just a fade? And how do you know when he/she is The One?

2007-01-21 11:42:21 · 12 answers · asked by staci 1 in Singles & Dating

is that means you are good looking guy ? ...the thing is that i couldnt justify my level of attraction to girls ...i go down the street and barely get aglance ...so i refered that to unattraction thing ....as far as i concern the attractive guys almost get a respond if they started kind of eye contact with other girls ..however i couldnt even recognised by those thousands out there ..i cant figure out whether its unattraction or this is anormal thing

2007-01-21 11:42:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this seems to be a popular response from women on talk shows when explaining why they stay with a man who cheats on them, abuses them, neglects them, disrespects them, etc...

2007-01-21 11:41:21 · 44 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's 8, loves video games and sports. Would it make sense to give him a gift he likes now or something he would appreciate later? Also what kind of gift ideas?

2007-01-21 11:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by tannedknight45 5 in Weddings

I was married in the Philippines to a Philippine national. I am a Philippine national too. But it did not work out. I have moved to the United States, and have met someone. I now am legally divorced in the United States and married to this man. How can I get my Philippine marriage annulled or voided without having to go back to the Philippines?

2007-01-21 11:40:29 · 4 answers · asked by Pixie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of my groomsmen have been in several weddings. I'd like to do something a little unique. I thought about a wine opener kit, cuff links, etc. However I just haven't found an idea I'm crazy about yet. Does anyone have any cool ideas for gifts?

2007-01-21 11:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by tannedknight45 5 in Weddings

I mean it's not like I have advantage over anyone else. I intimidate men for no reason. Girls hate me for no reason. I am prejudged by everyone just because of my looks. Life is just as hard. I am alone because no one approaches me, just stares and checking me out all the time. So yeah, what is good for seriously?

I am smart and am really fun to be with. Sweet as candy. But people don't get to know that because of all the judgement from my looks. *sigh*

2007-01-21 11:39:42 · 22 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 11:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-21 11:39:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I was drinking something and I turned my back and when I turned back this girl that I really like was drinking from it. She also hugs me whenever I say bye to her.

2007-01-21 11:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jake L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 11:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by blueyedtrumpet18 1 in Singles & Dating

I did something that hurt him very badly and I know he still cares about me.
I can't undo the one lie that I told him but everything else that we shared is and will always be the truth.
Do you have any suggestion that will help me to make things right?

2007-01-21 11:35:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-21 11:35:36 · 7 answers · asked by philly69 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 11:34:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thoughts about every person u c? think about when things r over like class anything? bad movies dates

2007-01-21 11:34:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 11:34:04 · 7 answers · asked by ghostwalker077 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my son was married they had a daughter they devorced. my son got into some trouble with the law. his x wife is married to the jailor.he is harresed into signing his parental rights away. for 4 years we have no contact with the child.then by accident we find out the paper he signed isnt legal. i ask if we could see the child and was allowed 6 hours with her during which time she met her half sis, they could pass for twins. now the child is not allowed to see us again.we had only 6 hours with her now her step dad an mom is pushing for us to not see her again step dad wants to adopt. the mom is very angry says that i only want to see her because i feel guilty for abandon her. do you think the mom is doing what is best for the child.by not letting her see her dad, grandparents not to mention her half sister.she is using the back unpaid child support as a weapon to try to get him to sign his rights away.this is going to court,my son is going to fight for his child. i need unbiased opinon

2007-01-21 11:33:26 · 5 answers · asked by eddie m 1 in Family

I have been dating a man for almost 4 months. We've been living together for about 2. I told him from the very very beginning that I require complete openness and honesty in a relationship if there is to be ANY trust. I've told him everything important about me. Yesterday I came across paperwork that said he was the biological father of a girl. When I mentioned the name, first he tried to lie and say that was the name of the girl he slept with a long time ago. I said "why does it say you're the father then?" Well it turns out that girl he slept with had a kid and didn't tell him. Years later he found out and did a DNA test to determine if he was the father. He claims that before the kid could be tested, the kid and mother were both killed in hurricane Katrina. (Yet the legal document I saw said that it was determined by genetic evidence that he WAS the biological father). He doesn't think he should have had to tell me. What do you think? How can I ever trust him?

2007-01-21 11:32:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i m seeing a guy for 3 n half yrs. now i m away from my home country n still in touch. he loves me, bt jus dnt trust me at all. evrytime i tak to any guy(mostly my classmates) n tells him abt dat, he gets bugged with me, n says he cnt trust me, n cnt wait for me. he shares every detail with his mom (which i dnt like at all), n nw wants to finish off d relation coz his mom is also of d view dat the relation cnt stand without trust.. is there any way to get back him? i really love him n jus dnt want to end it up coz such distrust n dat also coz of d distance. any advise??

2007-01-21 11:32:21 · 12 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Singles & Dating

so i lked this boy last year and i thought (and was pretty sure he did) lke me back, but this year he never tlks 2 me and my friend whos in his math class told me he sometimes tlks bout me but not in a good way and he cant look at me lke when i walk down the hallway between classes and see him he'll look straight forward and if i tlk 2 him he'll tlk back but look me in the eye but will look 2 the side! also last friday i was w/ my friend during hrm and we were walkin upstairs and we saw him and i wasnt goin 2 say anything 2 him and when i tried 2 wlk up he lke purposely bumped into me! then wlked away lke nothin happened and i yelled "EXCUSE YOU!" can u guys tell me whts his problem? does he still lke me or is he just being an asshole?

2007-01-21 11:32:06 · 17 answers · asked by mrs.jack sparrow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He always talks right into my eyes. Listens to everything I say. Occasionally has touched my knee. We hang out.

2007-01-21 11:31:59 · 17 answers · asked by Femme 2 in Singles & Dating

Now, being a caddish chap-about-town, I've seen the world in all its colours and tastes. But that said, dash it if I'm not a little peturbed that my betrothed wishes to find some form of 'employment'. My view is one of tradition, that a lady remains at home, looking after domestic concerns, making lace and cooking pies whilst idly dreaming of failed aspirations. Meanwhile, my duty is to socialise at the gentlemen's club and maintain a standard of dignity that reflects the power of my family fortune. Sadly, my choice of lady has proved tempestuous to say the least - quite determined as she is that she will go 'out to work' and, even worse, that I might consider the same for myself! Dash it and blast, how can I make it clear that this simply isn't on?

2007-01-21 11:31:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he doesn't sleep around alot, like one night stands and things. but he has lots of girls who become 'friends' that he has a relationship with and sleeps with them, or has slept with them in the past. why would he want to hold onto these kinda relationships if he has a girl he wants to marry.

2007-01-21 11:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating