I did something that hurt him very badly and I know he still cares about me.
I can't undo the one lie that I told him but everything else that we shared is and will always be the truth.
Do you have any suggestion that will help me to make things right?
2007-01-21 11:35:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have said that I was sorry, but he still won't talk to me. I can't communticate with him by phone, email or even snail mail. I am so heart broken and a shamed about what I have done and he won't give me the chance to fix it.So how do I make things right?
2007-01-21 13:07:54 · update #1
I have forgiven...but we both know...and I mean we BOTH know that we said our good byes, we go back to make our lives that we live in better, and that it just isn't right...
Whether I care or not....is not the factor....there is nothing that needs to be done to make things right....it is just better for everyone in the long run including everyone that surrounds us...to stay true to our "good-byes" and wish each other the best in life...so I do wish you the best in life...
I also don't have time nor want to get on Y!A anymore, so baiting me with questions will not work as this is pretty much it...and my last time to see that you are alright...because I do care and hoped that you were alright...physically and mentally...take care
2007-01-21 23:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hurt him real bad, it will take him some time to be able to trust you again. Belive me I am going through this right now, and I am normally a pretty forgiving guy but I am so ticked off right now. I just hate even talking to her right now.
You have to tell him you are sorry for hurting him. Maybe he will forgive you.
2007-01-21 19:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A letter is always good since they read it on their time and can think about what you actually wrote. It works most of the time. It lets the reader intake what he actually read and will think about what you are feeling. Follow up with a time/date to meet and talk about it again. Hurt takes time to heal the wounds. In time......Good luck
2007-01-21 19:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him tell him how sorry you are. reassure him it was ONE lie and you will never lie again. Explain why you felt the need to tell the lie and hope he forgives you! We are all human and make mistakes.
2007-01-21 19:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over to your place. answer the door wearing nothing but a bow strategically placed and a big smile. I am sure you will disarm him of everything bar his lance.
2007-01-21 19:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Flab 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize apologize apologize. Then, do something special for him. Then, promise him you'll never do said bad thing again, and make good on that promise.
2007-01-21 19:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl chill, talk to him gain his trust back or if he doesn't talk to you forget it it was the past, and if he can't except that he 's not for you anyway
2007-01-21 19:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by stacie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋