I mean it's not like I have advantage over anyone else. I intimidate men for no reason. Girls hate me for no reason. I am prejudged by everyone just because of my looks. Life is just as hard. I am alone because no one approaches me, just stares and checking me out all the time. So yeah, what is good for seriously?
I am smart and am really fun to be with. Sweet as candy. But people don't get to know that because of all the judgement from my looks. *sigh*
2007-01-21 11:39:42 · 22 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i feel the same way!! in fact my bf told me took him over a year to actually even talk to me because i was intiminating. i asked him why and he said just because i'm a confident person and i beleive in myself and he was afraid to say something wrong. so what i think is you should let your personality show so that people pay more attention to that. maybe nobody approaches you because your shy and u don't talk much and because your so pretty they atomatically file you into the snob catagory. my bf also told me that. then our soccer teams combined and he got to know me a little better. if you want to meet new people try getting involved into other activities and meeting people that like the same things you do. also don't be afraid to talk to people. you don't have to have a deep conversation, just saying hi to somebody you don't know could start a great friendship! it lets people know your open to conversation and not afraid to talk to them. and if you know their name then say "hi joe". even if they don't know you it still makes progress. did you know that some psychologists say that the best sound to a person in this world is their name? i think maybe you should stop focusing on how you look and more on how you approach people. they can tell if you obbsessed about your looks or not. i'm not saying you are, i'm just telling you some things that people have told me. well i hope it works!
2007-01-21 11:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do come off as a little concieted, but I know what you mean. Attractive girls have a harder time making female friends, cause other chicks are usually jealous or feel inferior. And it's true, people assume you don't have any brains if you're beautiful. But you're gonna find it hard to get sympathy on this issue. You also have advantages for being beautiful. And when you get older, the guys will be more willing to approach you--trust me. Young boys just don't have the confidence yet to talk to hotties.
2007-01-21 11:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cali Snow Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same boat. Hey, it is far better to be beautiful then it is to be ugly. If you were ugly, you would be complaining on why no one wants to date you, why you don't have friends, why no one will service you at customer service, etc. Count your blessings. You will have nice looking kids. As far as the other women, forget them. It's just their own low self esteem that they can't get past and you don't have time for that or them. It's ashame and I totally understand it where you are coming from since I have had the same problem all my life. I finally came to realize that the only person that I can satisfy and be happy is me. You can't make everyone like you. It's sad and all the above I can relate. Everyone prejudges you, afraid to approach you and it makes you sad because you really know who you are and they won't give you the chance. It's their loss. That is what you have to remember.
2007-01-21 11:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is good for whatever you use it for. Now, will you stop telling everybody on the net how beautiful and sexy you are? You keep repeating that everyone prejudges you based on your looks....well, the internet is one place that you COULD HAVE been judged based on your intelligence and wit. But what do you do? You tell the world how sexy you look, and so we are forced to draw our conclusions about you solely on that one aspect of your person. You're smart and fun to be with? Prove it.
2007-01-21 11:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jason Adams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont worry about those people if your smart thats better then looks because looks arent everything and there just jeaulos the they cant be as smart as you dont worry your not the only person with that happening to you everybody does that to me and think of what you can do with your smarts oh yea and if you really do want a bf email me at my_name_is_anthony@hotmail.com
2007-01-21 11:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be real pretty! (smile) I use to work with a girl that was very pretty! No one would approach her (guys) and the girls hated her lol! You will be alright ignore the jealous ones and if you see a guy that you like checking you out smile back.
2007-01-21 11:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, get over yourself. Your asked questions all seem to revolve around your looks.
Apparently your looks are good as a conversation piece. They also cover up the big pile of nothing that exists inside you.
Basic astronomy, first lesson free:
The earth revolves around the sun, not around you.
2007-01-21 11:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by greenwald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no beauty, but I'm definitely cute. I don't fare any better than you. And I have personality and all the rest. Maybe we just don't put ourselves out there. I really don't know, but I'm hoping someone has some input. *sigh*
2007-01-21 11:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wendi lu who 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know gurl.
It's a curse.
Haters are everywhere!
It will get you free stuff, you tires changed, your doors opened and lots of opportunities that ugly people don't get.
So just sit pretty, shake them haters off and work it for what its worth while you got it.
2007-01-21 11:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋