i m seeing a guy for 3 n half yrs. now i m away from my home country n still in touch. he loves me, bt jus dnt trust me at all. evrytime i tak to any guy(mostly my classmates) n tells him abt dat, he gets bugged with me, n says he cnt trust me, n cnt wait for me. he shares every detail with his mom (which i dnt like at all), n nw wants to finish off d relation coz his mom is also of d view dat the relation cnt stand without trust.. is there any way to get back him? i really love him n jus dnt want to end it up coz such distrust n dat also coz of d distance. any advise??
2007-01-21 11:32:21 · 12 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usally when a guy can trust you is because he is doing something wrong and he'll tell you that he can't trust you so you'll be thinking about that proplem andnot thinking or asking him if he is being faithful. I've been there 5 year I was with him and one day I found out he got married to someone else
2007-01-21 11:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥LOVED♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think your boy friend has a very low self esteem. He is not sure of himself. So he gets upset over you talking to other guys. Besides yours is a long distance relationship and statistically long distance relationships do not last. The physical attraction and the hormonal urges take over and kill the romantic relationship you have. Your boy friend also feels this and he knows you will slip away.
Only way you can solve this by proper communication with your boy friend. Make sure it is not a fight but a talk. Open your heart and let him know how much you love him and do no want to lose him. Good Luck
2007-01-21 14:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys dont trust their girlfriends because of lack of self confidence. And in your case his mother interference have just made it worst. We all love our mother, nothing wrong about that, what he is doing is not wrong at all but at the same time he knows you better then anyone else.He have his mother, who do you have to fall back on? Its not fair for you at all. So, If you want this relationship to last, try to educate him about love, show him what is true love is all about and Open his eyes, mind and heart dont argue or fight with him. It is not about letting him win or letting go your freedom and friends, but to make him realise the beautiful soul that you had that make him fall in love with you. If he really loves you for what you are in total he will understand you, but if he loved you all this while just because you are pretty, or because u have a nice body or maybe because ur family is reputable he wont be able to understand a single thing about you. Then you are better of without him, it might hurt you, make you sad and all that but you will be a better and wiser person in life and I am very sure u will meet ur prince charming one day. Anway I really hope you can work things out with him.
2007-01-21 18:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by kayy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a liar and a serial cheater. he will (and curiously like, he's) cheat on you. he's extremely undesirable information. i'm sorry, yet he won't exchange, issues will never be the way you like them to. you're next in a protracted record of ladies he's putting into his harem, and there'll consistently be greater. you mustn't merely depart this relationship, you're able to desire to RUN from it. those are no longer "subject concerns" you're having with this guy; that's a heavily disturbed and unacceptable relationship which you're throwing your existence away on. Please seek for psychological help as quickly as obtainable. that's the main needed element so you might do remarkable now, till now doing yet another element.
2016-11-26 00:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by greenwald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ,trust is the basic backbone of any relationship..
& guys tend to be overpossessive ,as a result they tend to suspect their gals..
but its also a fact that if he loved U truely then he wouldnt have suspected..i kno it sounds hard,but its a fact..
i guess U just need 2 be strong dear..& face the facts of life..
that he'll leave sooner or later..cz he has already made up his mind++also he's a mamma's boy..
just forget him ..& stop feeling gloomy,there 's lots of good people around & for whom distance is nt a factor..
2007-01-21 12:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by dincpurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetu liston you know wht love? its all about trust once it goes above it then it becomes a learning curve u kno wht i means to say there r lot of way to get ur b/f back but the fact is that he dont trust you..... i dont kno the reasons that wht went wrong and where it went wrong with u guys but better to talk about it and try to sort it out but if he try to be hard enough then please dont go urrself let down .... bcoz its him who dont kno wht he is loosing .. might be u deserve better then that .... i kno u must be thinking that how ******* idoit i am is but this is fact darling .... be practical u kno .... i can explain u better if u undersatnd hindii anyway ...... try to contact him and sort it out asap better for u ..... bcoz stress fucks offf everyone.... and try to get out of this .........see u and good night
2007-01-21 12:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any relationship is on trust,i think he don't be live himself and his love so he Belem u.try to speak with him about this,if u want him relay then tel him to be live his love fist ,Ur for him for ever.then also he say u r wrong then u go with some one how relay love u and trust u being far r near.
2007-01-21 17:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by aruna r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships don’t usaually work…they end pretty fast..soo just forget bout him..n look for some1 new…
2007-01-21 14:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by i*love*u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is relly sorry that u luv him.........but dear, trust is the basis for eny reln........ u jus cant continue vit his behavior.............also discussing vit his mother may be making things worse..........if he wants the reln to be over, be it........ try to move ahead.
all the best.
2007-01-21 15:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him!
2007-01-22 00:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Neeraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋