Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

Does any one no of any people who do in home weddings? The wedding is this winter

2007-01-10 10:07:29 · 3 answers · asked by UNFORGETTABLE 2 in Weddings

Hey there...Husband abandoned me when he took a 36 month statation in HI. (He's whoring around with one of his soldiers) Anyway...he's left us desolate. I haven't been able to eat a meal (can't keep one down) and have only slept a total of maybe 13 hours in 12 days.....I don't know how I can support these lil men or catch up when I do start working again. (Yes, I have interviews...and talked to lawyers, JAG, his Chaplain..everyone and I am NOT wallowing) I am just at a total loss. I haven't told the boys, haven't talked to him in 9 days...I do not know what is going through his mind...I need to get some sleep but I even dream about the bills and it wakes me up. My tummy is in such knots that I vomit after i try to eat...my throat is so swollen that I can't swallow....the doc said "It just takes time"....so....ideas???

2007-01-10 10:06:36 · 3 answers · asked by Smiling Belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she thinks i should do more, like come home from working 60 hours a week and then do housework. i do watch the kids and stuff but she does way more, since i am not home. we have 3 kids, and she is on what she calls "maternity leave" for over a year. she does a good job in my eyes but she always says "i work my a** off i need a break".... i feel that when i come home i should be able to chill out for a while.

2007-01-10 10:06:27 · 15 answers · asked by Import Car Salesman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have custody of my 2 children. Their Father only has visitation. We both live in the state of Arizona. I am looking at moving out of state. Would this be allowed?

2007-01-10 10:05:42 · 13 answers · asked by tee tee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im probably going to ask this girl out to lunch. Thing is the lunch break has to be under 45 minutes. Any good places to take a girl I just met out for good food served rather quikly.Never been to Applebees...how fast can I expect to be in and out. No McD's or other fast food chains. Would Subway be a better choice?

2007-01-10 10:04:35 · 20 answers · asked by Mr Mister 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here's the story summed up... for the past year and a half, ive been struggling with anorexia. in the past month or 2 ive been overcoming it and recovering. here's the thing, my dad never really understood my reasons for being anorexic and never even made the attempt to be the loving dad i needed to help me through it. he and i were always close when i was really little, but as i got into my teen years, i started loosing my respect for him for a number of reasons. i am 15 now, and i am REALLY having a hard time dealing with the things he said and did to me during my anorexic period. he would SCREAM at me, call me names, say i was just being immature, and never supported or comforted me. now, i find it hard to even be in the same room as him becuase i am so afraid of his outburst and cant forgive him for his actions and words that hurt me terribly. i WILL NOT forgive him ever, but i am willing to let it go. but i want him to be the first to apologize. what should i do????

2007-01-10 10:04:10 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetie 4 in Family

we have been married for 7yrs and have 2 young kids, i found out he was cheeting on me before xmas with my friend, he is sorry and wants me back, i love him but should i trust him?

2007-01-10 10:04:03 · 36 answers · asked by Caz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i was little there was a boy and he wanted to kiss me and i dont know why but i said yes and well he also asked more stuff-you know-and i was little and dumb so i said yes now still when i see him i get shivers down my back and sometimes he tries 2 talk 2 me and i dont know if i should 4 giv him and actualy talk 2 him

2007-01-10 10:03:23 · 2 answers · asked by Kallee n 2 in Singles & Dating

WHAT IS GOING ON??????????? I'M SERIOUSLY SICK OF ALL THESE DADS WHO ARE CRYING THAT THEY ARE BEING DENIED ACCESS TO THEIR KIDS BY THEIR FECKLESS EX'S AND WHERE HAS IT GOT YOU EH???? YOUR STILL IN THE SAME BOAT AND LIGHTER IN THE WALLET. WELL UNTIL WE ALL SAY RIGHT THATS IT AT THE SAME TIME AND STAND SHOULDER TO SHOULDER AND REFUSE TO DEAL WITH THE CSA AND ALL CLUB TOGETHER TO GET THE BEST HUMAN RIGHTS LAWYER TO BITE THIS BULLY BOY SYSTEM THAT THIS GOVERNMENT SPENDS MILLIONS ON ON THE BACKSIDE YOU WILL STILL BE HERE IN ANOTHER FEW YEARS EVEN LIGHTER IN THE WALLET AND YOUR CHILD BE A FEW YEARS OLDER. IF THIS GOVERNMENT MADE THE CSA FAIRER FOR BOTH PARENTS FROM THE START IT WOULD NOT BE THE SHAMBLES IT TURNED OUT TO BE. WHEN THESE GOVERNMENTS REALISE THAT A FATHER IS AS IMPORTANT TO A KID AS THE MOTHER IS, THEN THAT WOULD BE A START IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. WHY ARE WE STILL BEING TREATED LIKE THIS IN YEAR 2007? BECAUSE YOUR ALL SPINELESS.... CONVINCE ME I'M WRONG...........

2007-01-10 10:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by SuperDAD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We need something fun and entertaining to do in the pittsburgh area? Any suggestions?

No mall or going out to eat.

2007-01-10 10:02:59 · 2 answers · asked by KT! 4 in Friends

Im white and i have a good friend who is black. She always gets picked on by other girls... She is very pretty and she dresses like a prep.....girls have stared her down pretty bad and she is a very NICE person...whats up with that??? im just curious...im pretty bored lol

2007-01-10 10:02:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can you get your parentsto playa monopoly with you? all they won to do is watch t.v in the room and take care of my baby sis. but shes not a prob.

2007-01-10 10:01:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just recently broke yp with my boyfriend. He said on the phone with some one that i did matter to him so i dumped him. Even though he said that i really wanna go out with him again. So i wrote him a note asking if we were still going out. He said "No Sorry!!!" I got kinda heart broken and after a couple days i knew he wouldn't ask me back out. Just today i found out at school that he is going out with a girl already. I some what get jealous of this.well what really made me mad today was that she is semi-popular and he used to follow her around at the dances when i waz still going out with him. and she is my friend but not 1 of them friend you always talk to. i barely talk to her so she isnt really called my friend. But i really wanna go out with this guy again. He wont break up with her. but she might break up with him but when will she? she really likes him and all. What should i do?

2007-01-10 10:01:45 · 16 answers · asked by klk17 3 in Singles & Dating

why do you think she is doing that? She is not willing to negotiate. She is serious about it.

2007-01-10 10:01:14 · 14 answers · asked by rrutia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have this boyfriend i have been with for 3yrs and i found out yesterday that he was transfering to another school or moving back to newyork! i was so hurt, wanna know why? beacause i found out from my friends. he didn't tell me he was leaving and that hurts my feelings that he did that. what do i do now? we promised each other that we were gonna start the year off right and get back to what we use to be like. plzz help me, im so hurt

2007-01-10 10:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 20 and generally spends each evening drinking and never has any money. I am 36, financially stable and not a great drinker. But since I've been with her I have had lots of fun-something that was missing when I was married, I feel ten years younger for being with her and I do have some feelings for her but I am reluctant to get too involved as I don't want to end up hurting either of us. There is another girl who is interested in me that I think would be a better match and more likely to be someone that I could be happy with in the long run, but before I say anything to the girl I am currently with I would like to know if it is likely that we can ever find a suitable compromise given our largely differing lifestyles.

2007-01-10 10:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by Very happily married. 7 in Singles & Dating

i been with this guy for 4.5 years and though these years we been ups and down like me cheatin on him and him cheatin on me but we were younger then and hav grown to better people i havent cheated on him in 1.5 years but i think he is still cheatin on me with a female that he said he never messed with... i found phone records with him callin her and her callin him, i found love letters and even a female answered his cell but he said it was his sister and i'm actin crazy and only see what i want to see... should i leave the bull behind and go on or try again

2007-01-10 09:59:38 · 2 answers · asked by chica69 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and I am causing myself to believe that I have fallen out of love with my wonderful boyfriend.

But when I have a few drinks and feel on the more intoxicated side everything is fine and I dont even think about the anxiety....

Are these my true feelings cause I am intoxicated and letting go of the anxiety issues?

2007-01-10 09:59:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you have broken up with someone who meant a lot to you and its was serious or just something short and sweet but you were head over heels in love

and when you split you were obviously hurt did you get offers from people to go out with you inside a month and they were all really hot but you still loved your ex but now you are over them it seems like you are the plague and you seem to have lost some of your pulling power?

is it just me? lol

2007-01-10 09:59:06 · 1 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex sent me an email that said"Do you think I still like you?" I put back"I dont know,do you?" He put back,"Maybe". Does this mean he still likes me?

2007-01-10 09:58:40 · 111 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but the problem is that she ight not. I talked to her and she keeps thinking im playing.... This is what I told her:
u r the angel to my heart and only u posses the key to it.
please help me. O yeah shes brazzilian

2007-01-10 09:58:21 · 46 answers · asked by The Surginator 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 09:58:17 · 32 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 09:57:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 12 year old friend who is of average weight was told by her crush that she is fat and now I think she's bulimic! This is all that guy's fault. I mean, she isn't even fat! This just seriously upsets me. Plus, I'm older than her so it's not like I'm little or anything. I've heard a lot of stuff about anorexics and bulimics and I'm a PEER LEADER! Just, why are guys like this? They tell us they don't want us eating rice cakes, but if we eat a hamburger, they freak? What the h3ll!?
Thanks,
What's your oppinion?
P.S.-In one magazine, they talked about how MaryKate is too skinny and ON THE NEXT PAGE commented on Britney's weight. It seems as if they want us to be too skinny or fat or something. uhg!

2007-01-10 09:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by thissilentangel 1 in Singles & Dating

and he tells my boyfriend lies about me,and claims that he don't like me,but I think he's lying,and want to know why he's doing this?

2007-01-10 09:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm not an ugly person...... so y does my boyfriend feel the need to look at porn mags and watch movies? our sex life is fine but he has a problem. he's always asking for head. like 10 times a day. he makes up songs about it and sings obnoxiously loud throughout the house. i personally think he has a problem. can someone tell me if i'm crazy or not?

2007-01-10 09:56:16 · 26 answers · asked by trouble in paradise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We teach (at least some of us) our sons to take responsibility as they grow up: provide financially and emotionally for their lady (wife), protect her, open her doors, treat her like a lady, all the gentlemanly courtesies.

And don't stop after you are married either.

Now, here's my question: what are we to teach our daughters to DO for their gentlemen (husband)? What are the expectations of a lady in terms of what she is to DO, not just what is to be done for her?

What courtesies do we teach that should be expected of ladies? What should we teach our girls to to DO for her future husband?

2007-01-10 09:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Family

there is this girl on my volleyball team and she is such a jerk and says junk when i mess up and only does it to me...... i want to say something to her but i mite be kicked off the team ....wat should i do ?

2007-01-10 09:55:59 · 2 answers · asked by vollyballgal309 1 in Singles & Dating

what can I do?

2007-01-10 09:55:22 · 11 answers · asked by ******* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, so if there were a girl that you knew liked you but you hadn't done anythign about it yet. Imagine you were him if you could and try to tell me what he is thinking maybe...
This happens like every week at least once:
Ok so one day he'll do everything he can do get my attention, whether it is staring into my eyes or walking right towards me in the ahll and smiling at me when he walks past.
The next day, he will avoid my gaze if I look towards him, or he walks a different way in the hall to avoid me.
What does this mean? Does he like me?

2007-01-10 09:54:14 · 4 answers · asked by Doz 3 in Singles & Dating