ok so i have this boyfriend i have been with for 3yrs and i found out yesterday that he was transfering to another school or moving back to newyork! i was so hurt, wanna know why? beacause i found out from my friends. he didn't tell me he was leaving and that hurts my feelings that he did that. what do i do now? we promised each other that we were gonna start the year off right and get back to what we use to be like. plzz help me, im so hurt
2007-01-10 10:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can't see the forest through the trees hun? There is no help to be had. You've just be sent a sign. A sign that seems pretty clear to me.
2007-01-10 10:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably had no idea how to tell you, and kept putting it off until it was too late.
Either that, or he was going to use it as his chance to break up with you. Just disappear and never talk to you again. Either way, he sounds immature and mean. And you are too young to be with the same person for 3 years.
2007-01-10 18:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just scared to tell you...maybe because he wants to end it. Doesn't sound like he wants you to come along afterall because if that were the case, you wouldn't be the last one to know.
Also, maybe he's not sure if he's going for certain yet so didn't want to start any drama with you until he knew for sure. Hope that helps! Good luck girl!
2007-01-10 18:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by ttyumyum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he did not wanna hurt you and have you worrying 4 weeks so he was goin to tell u at the very last minut so there is no worrying just done and over with....i dont kno him but i think he loves you and just dod not wanna hurt u....but u ended up getting hurt and that sucks!!! sorry :(
2007-01-10 18:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didnt tell you because he was worried about how you would take it. or he just didnt know how to phrase it without hurting you. he probably figured tht it would be easier to let you hear it from them instead of him. ask him about it but dont put him under any pressure. if things turn ugly then drop it till they fix.
2007-01-10 18:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by georgiachick223344 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww..maybe he just didn't know how to break it to u. Just tell him you know..and tell him how you feel. Then see what he has to say
2007-01-10 18:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋