I just recently broke yp with my boyfriend. He said on the phone with some one that i did matter to him so i dumped him. Even though he said that i really wanna go out with him again. So i wrote him a note asking if we were still going out. He said "No Sorry!!!" I got kinda heart broken and after a couple days i knew he wouldn't ask me back out. Just today i found out at school that he is going out with a girl already. I some what get jealous of this.well what really made me mad today was that she is semi-popular and he used to follow her around at the dances when i waz still going out with him. and she is my friend but not 1 of them friend you always talk to. i barely talk to her so she isnt really called my friend. But i really wanna go out with this guy again. He wont break up with her. but she might break up with him but when will she? she really likes him and all. What should i do?
2007-01-10 10:01:45 · 16 answers · asked by klk17 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are all 13 years old
2007-01-10 10:02:05 · update #1
awww im reallly sorry about that, but its life, and if he really loved you, he would probably want you back...
i have a really sweet boyfriend and i can tell him anything, even stuff about how cool some other guy is, and he will be there for me, answering questions and always telling me stuff and how much he loves me.
you should TRY to let go...be yourself and never let go of life
2007-01-10 10:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're too young to have become this obsessed with someone. I don't even think you should be dating at 13.
Second, it seems as though you are setting yourself up to be mistreated. It's over. Let him go. Move on. You're only 13. This isn't the be all and end all of your life. Don't dwell and don't date him again, even if he and this girl breakup and he asks you out. If you do, you'll just become his rebound girl, the one he can date when no one else is available, and your self worth will be destroyed.
Take a step back, take a deep breath and look toward the future. And don't date again until you're 16 or 18 or so.
2007-01-10 10:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes just the other day I dumped my BF and now I want him back...I know this is going to be hard, but try to forget about him, if he really wanted to be with you he would have already asked you back out. I know I sound blunt but my ex boyfriend was a jerk who didn't like me in the first place. I know your heart is broken but you should just start hanging out with friends and time will heal your wounds even though it doesn't seem like it right now...I hope things go well with you though and Good Luck! =)
2007-01-10 10:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by pebblespunk2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing hes gone move on and leave the 2 of them alone they like each other besides you will find someone better that wont talk about you behind your back and he will care about you and you will matter to him. it sounds like this boy has liked her for a long time if he was following her around even when you 2 were dating. dont let it hurt your feelings you will find some one else probably when you least expect it. i know it hurts right now but it will get better.
2007-01-10 10:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone and move on. There are more fish in the sea and you shouldn't be worried about dating for a few years yet. This is how boys and girls act as they learn social skills and interaction...dumping one another occurs frequently, each time they see someone else that catches their eye.
2007-01-10 10:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nothing. Take it from me the best thing you should do is let things play out as they play out. Don't get involved just stay a comfortable distance. Chances are if his romance is short with his new squeeze he'll come back to you as his back up plan. then the ball is in your court take him back and you have what you want. don't take him back he looks like a chump and you improve your status as not just another pushover. Girls give sex for affection while guys give affection for sex
2007-01-10 10:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by GoodWillHunt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. You deserve someone better, who will say you matter. You shouldn't want him back if she brakes up with him anyway. Hold your head high. Even though your sad to see the door close, another one will open and this time it'll be so much better.
2007-01-10 10:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy doesnt seem tot take a real intrest in you
he seems to like tht other girl alot
you shouldnt come in between them
jus giv it some time and hopefully you will get over him you have to
if they break up he will come to you but then i suggest tht you dont become his gf as your his last choice
whatever you do, DO NOT interfere in their relationship they might like each other alot
2007-01-10 10:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
13 yrs old is not a time to be worrieing about all of this
2007-01-10 10:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya pretty much what the others ahve said. theres more fish in the sea for you!
2007-01-10 10:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋