Family & Relationships - 31 December 2006

I just want to know how i can keep our relationship good.any i know not alot of young people stay together but dang i love this girl!!=) cause of us having sex would that ruined our relationship in the futere? how can i keep it going?pretty much what im asking is how to keep a young couple together? thanks

2006-12-31 12:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by jason 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 12:11:09 · 8 answers · asked by db 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i talk to a gir i frezze up n i dont have any thing to say wat should i say

2006-12-31 12:09:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well the thing is...i am sick and can't go out....i told my friend this yesterday afternoon and she told me that i should come out...i said i can't. but she talked to my other friend but the thing is i am going to my other friends place...i already told her sorry but see...the friend i said yes to...she is more low key and i'm spending the night...nothing huge...i felt bad so i told her on the phone last night that she is invited...but my other friend didn't want her over at her place...so i called her back this afternoon and said sorry....i was honest and she said it was fine but she left an angry voicemail...so i dunno....should i be guilty???

I mean I said no because I didn't want to do the crazy club/bar thing when I sound so haorse and feel sooo miserable...I told her this...and now she's upset but I don't think she would be if I said no to my other friend just to stay over at her place...not even really go out out... but the message made me kinda sad she said your ***** up!

2006-12-31 12:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Friends

I have larger than average breasts. I've been flirting back and forth with this guy I've known for a while and I think someday we'll get our act together and date. Here's the kicker, several times he's made comments about not liking large breats. The first comment was general around many of our friends where he commented that large breasts just get in the way. Another time he and I were talking about our mututal attraction and he said "well, I'm not into boobs so you don't have that going for you.".

Whatcha think? He's just not that into boobs or he's really into mine and just trying to cover it up? They're only a D cup.

2006-12-31 12:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 12:08:57 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy you're friends with is the guy you had a HUGE crush on and all your friends kept telling you that you should tell him that you liked him cuz everyone thought that he might like you too. and eventually you tell him and he gets pissed about it cuz a bunch of girls like him and he doesn't want to talk about it to get the whole mess behind us both. then he hurts your feelings by saying he's sick of you calling him to talk. and you can't get him to talk to you??? i know he's being an ***, but he was a really good friend of mine and i REALLY DON"T want to lose him as a friend....is there any suggestions as to saving the friendship??

2006-12-31 12:08:49 · 5 answers · asked by funkifiedfreak 1 in Friends

My wife has a fantasy of doing a 3 some with another man and she has been convincing me into it.I am extremely uncomfortable with the idea although,it is one of my fantasies too to do a 3 some We have a great marriage otherwise its just that she wants to explore her fantasies to make the marriage exciting.She is open to the idea of me exploring my fantasies too.Is it normal to have such fantasies?Should we go ahead?My worry is that it might ruin our marriage but,she is too adamant to try it out.

2006-12-31 12:08:27 · 4 answers · asked by george s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22 years old. I'm a full-time senior in university. I work part-time. I'm a quote on quote good child. However, my parents do not respect my privacy and they do not fully support my pursuit of independence. Consequently, this has had a negative impact on my life as their complete control of my life has made it very difficult for me to maintain friendships and to embrace an adult life. I have missed out on so many things with my friends, including trips and parties, largely because my parents think they need to "protect" me from my friends. My friends are very much like me in that they go to school, work, etc... Furthermore, they refuse to let me drive the car at night to go out with my friends. I live a distance from my friends and it is difficult for me to hang out with them without a vehicle. As a result, I have slowly grown apart from my friends. They do not call me anymore and when I call them they rarely answer their phones.

2006-12-31 12:07:48 · 11 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Family

my bros had this g/f for like 3 years...prob is...i hate her...what do i do...i dont want to hurt him

2006-12-31 12:06:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im outta town and shes going to a party tonight any tips on how to get her not to go???

2006-12-31 12:06:29 · 38 answers · asked by Travis S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 12:05:33 · 5 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

Anyone have a good experience with them? What sites worked? I'm on eharmony & it is not worth my time or money.

2006-12-31 12:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by spuffgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I grew up with a father as an abusive, violent Alcoholic, my mother finally left. we went to her parents and her father was a kind calm Alcoholic (Drank several times a day a lot so not just social drinker), I married my wife and her mother and father I found out just gott back together from a seperation after violent abusive Alcoholic behavior from her father and her brother has been arrested for his 10th DUI this year. her mom still drinks and her father started again recently. I have not drank for over 3 years out of fear when my mariage started to decline. Now that I am separated and getting counseling and trying to heal, my sponsor wants me to go with my family tonight, New Years Eve after I repeatedlty told him I can't and I realize I just don't want to because everyone will be drunk. I am very uncomfortable with it. He says now is the time in a safe environement with my brother since he is not an alchy. I WILL try but AM I WRONG to WALK OUT on drinking ALCHOHOLIC FAMILY?

2006-12-31 12:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by bSquirrel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 12:04:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-31 12:04:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to want to be on good terms with your exboyfriend, to be at peace with him? I mean, if you spent all that time together it doesn't make sense to just have a bad break up and never talk again, I think...I don't want him back because there is no future with him. But I still care about him because I am a good person and want to be at peace with him. Is this normal? Can I do this while also moving on at the same time?

2006-12-31 12:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by friendlygal 2 in Singles & Dating

know she is jealous and makes rude comments...and you just keep saying.."I am sorry, you feel that way..",...and that is what you usually always say...because you do not want to finish it up...SHE IS CAUSING THE PROBLEM ...but you are not the type to fight???what can you say to make her stop!!! NO ONE SAYS ANYTHING...THE OTHER RELATIVES,...WILL JUST SAY..."wow, that hurts...or gee whiz"...or "gosh"...and the mother in law just goes about her business as if NOTHING HAPPENED??? what can you say???Your husband just says.."well, that's my mom, i can't say anything..i know she is wrong to do that."...

2006-12-31 12:03:34 · 21 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family

im 12 and there is a guy in my class that i really like. we seem to talk every now and then but the only problem is that every girl i know likes him. my friend keeps telling me that we make a good couple but i keep telling her that too many girls like him and im just one of them that her doesnt care about. i just want him to ask me to the spring danceand we could be a couple. please

2006-12-31 12:03:04 · 32 answers · asked by Eliza Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is any Mexican food ... love burritos, and I also loveee italian food, and love to eat at California Pizza Kitcken bc their pizza's are yummy, and I also LOVE to eat greek salads with feta cheese... yummmmy!!!! :) How about you?

2006-12-31 12:02:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 12:02:45 · 2 answers · asked by pirateron 5 in Friends

2006-12-31 12:02:27 · 10 answers · asked by Captain Morgan 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad and i don't talk I can't even remember the last time we had a conversation. He drank and did drugs. When i was about 5-6 my parents broke up their still married to this day and i'm 18. I lived with him when I was 12 and it was horrible he always drank spent all the money at the bar and the pool tournamants... I was always at my mom's so she asked me if i wanted to move back in shortly after both my sisters did as well.... When i was little I always wanted them to get back together then after living with him I realized why him and my mom broke up and am glad.... He never remembers my birthday but remembers my sisters. Tells my sister he wants to see me and such and sometimes i want to see him to but then i think about it... if he really loved me he would come talk to me. The only reason he quit drinking is because his g/f wouldnt take him back unless he quit... my mom told me it's up to me but she understands why I won't (he's never tried to be in my life). Is this wrong?

2006-12-31 12:01:48 · 20 answers · asked by hazeleyed.beauty 1 in Family

It is said that EVERYONE does at some point in their lives...?

2006-12-31 11:59:41 · 23 answers · asked by Chris L 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend ended it almost a year ago but last week he called me and asked me to see him. He took me to a movie then he took me home. But I felt kinda hurt cuz he didn't open any doors, I felt like he rushed it cuz he wanted to go home quickly, also at the end of the night, he didn't even walk me to my door & he just said merry christmas. I went home and told him on msn that I didn't wanna see him even 'every once in awhile' and I also told him 'not to bother me' & I basically said bye forever to him. He kept saying sorry but then I just logged out on msn. Then I felt really bad & felt like I needed to talk to him. A week after I said bye to him on msn, I went on msn again & I said to him " I didn't want to end things like that on a bad note, and I'm sorry for logging out on msn so quickly". He said "it's ok and that there are no hard feelings". Then I told him to have a good new year, a safe trip, & I told him to let me know about his trip when he comes back.

2006-12-31 11:58:40 · 5 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a wonderful person and did so much for me and it breaks my heart that I ended it and hurt him, but in my heart I felt like something wasn't there and I couldn't give him my all because I wasn't feeling it. Even though I really care about him there was no spark. Please help me, am I a horrible person? I don't know what to think. Did I do the wrong thing? Even though it doesn't matter because he said that when we are done we are done for good. But I would really appreciate any helpful feedback. Thank you!

2006-12-31 11:58:24 · 20 answers · asked by . 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Mum passed away on New Years Eve it was a shock but a happy release for her - I should feel happy that she is at peace as she suffered from dementia but I feel so down

2006-12-31 11:58:09 · 25 answers · asked by Kirks Folley 5 in Family

2006-12-31 11:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by asiaroxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a female in my mid twenties and am currently working. I have known this male colleague of mine for almost 5 years. In fact, we even attended university together when we were younger, and became fast friends.
When we were still studying about 4 years ago, I told my room mate that I really liked him, but told her to not to tell him as I did not think that i stood a chance, as I did not feel that he had any romantic feelings for me. However, my room mate told him and he found out and things were rather awkward when he told me that he just saw me as a good friend. I was disappointed but I did my best to hide it and I told him that I did not mind if we both continued as friends for many years. This is rather silly of me, but I still continue to hope that one day we could get together. I continued to have this feeling even when both of us were dating other people. throughout the years, we frequently meet up to go out together, just the 2 of us. Should I tell him that i still like him?

2006-12-31 11:56:58 · 5 answers · asked by gal 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it a bad thing? how do i deal with men who are like that?

2006-12-31 11:56:18 · 5 answers · asked by Rita 4 in Other - Family & Relationships