My ex-boyfriend ended it almost a year ago but last week he called me and asked me to see him. He took me to a movie then he took me home. But I felt kinda hurt cuz he didn't open any doors, I felt like he rushed it cuz he wanted to go home quickly, also at the end of the night, he didn't even walk me to my door & he just said merry christmas. I went home and told him on msn that I didn't wanna see him even 'every once in awhile' and I also told him 'not to bother me' & I basically said bye forever to him. He kept saying sorry but then I just logged out on msn. Then I felt really bad & felt like I needed to talk to him. A week after I said bye to him on msn, I went on msn again & I said to him " I didn't want to end things like that on a bad note, and I'm sorry for logging out on msn so quickly". He said "it's ok and that there are no hard feelings". Then I told him to have a good new year, a safe trip, & I told him to let me know about his trip when he comes back.
2006-12-31 11:58:40 · 5 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(He’s going to Asia for a month). He told me not to worry about it and then he told me to “keep in touch”. What is he REALLY thinking now. Does he think I’m crazy? I’m just really sensitive. Why did he even ask to see me after one year, when HE ended it, and why did he treat me that way IF he missed me? By the way, we never had sex when we were dating cuz he knows I wanna save myself for marriage. Is he relieved now that I’m not mad at him? Do you think this was bothering him, me saying bye forever? Does he wanna be friends or just see me sometimes? Do guys do this to all their exes?
2006-12-31 11:59:30 · update #1
i tried dating a girl one time that could not make up her mind what she wanted. i am glad that i have not seen her for years.
2006-12-31 12:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by vern7us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but you sound trifling and silly. If this is your biggest problem, that a guy didn't open every door for you, then you haven't lived much yet. I don't mean to be nasty, but you are pulling such chick stuff on this poor guy I'm glad he's running off for his sake.
2006-12-31 20:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many more times are you going to post that same story about the doors that didn't get opened?
2006-12-31 20:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think he wanted to take you out and see what you were like now. While he was out with you, he realized why he doesn't want to be with you.
When a guy says "keep in touch" they don't mean it.
Move on.
2006-12-31 20:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your overreacting to nothin. who know why men do what they do. their all jerks if you ask me.
2006-12-31 20:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋