I have larger than average breasts. I've been flirting back and forth with this guy I've known for a while and I think someday we'll get our act together and date. Here's the kicker, several times he's made comments about not liking large breats. The first comment was general around many of our friends where he commented that large breasts just get in the way. Another time he and I were talking about our mututal attraction and he said "well, I'm not into boobs so you don't have that going for you.".
Whatcha think? He's just not that into boobs or he's really into mine and just trying to cover it up? They're only a D cup.
2006-12-31 12:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different men like different things. I read a survey that many men like "Miss America" type of figures rather than full figured, and there are 5% of men who like their women really fat. if you have large breasts, it might be smarter to look for a guy that likes them that way.
2006-12-31 12:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Different men are attracted to different things. As for physical, some go for breasts, some figure, some face, some legs....whatever. No woman can have every single thing any man wants, any more than he can have everything she wants. The fact that he's still interested means that the big breasts are not an issue with him. He's attracted to other things about you. I would think you should take that as a compliment.....you're probably a very good person, and he sees that. Go for it!! :)
2006-12-31 20:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by LSF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants you to know that he isn't going out with you for your breasts. As you know there are some guys who were bottle babies and have a total breast fetish. He also might be afraid of having to look at the effects of gravity on a 40-something woman with big breasts.
2006-12-31 20:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Baddest_Bandulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who has made it known through nuances that he doesn't like your breasts is thinking with his hormones. He should be learning to love the real you inside. Big breasts, small breasts what is the difference when you really love someone.
If your boyfriend has negatively commented on not liking large breasts I'd move on. Find someone who will love you for who you are inside.
2006-12-31 20:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Drwho 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
D is pretty big hun,some men feel that " a handful is enough". Some men when they are intimate,and I've heard this myself,want to actually be closer to people while being intimate,because big breast distract from true intimacy. He sounds rude,and you probably need to go for someone else,because he is criticizing your body,which shouldn't matter,he needs a smaller breasted chick.
2006-12-31 20:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy has different preferences....fortunately for you most guys do prefer larger breasts. You shouldn't be with this guy anyways if he is going to turn you are down because of your breast size. You need a guy who loves everything about you!
2006-12-31 20:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by dlsjbk2125 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A guy can choke if they're more than a mouth full. Also, large nipps are generally a turn off. If you're big with small starlets you'll be ok.
2006-12-31 20:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by dww32720 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know it sounds funny coming from a guy (again) but I dont like em big. But if I was him and I really liked you, Id be able 2look beyond that.
2006-12-31 20:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have guy friends that area more into like a B cup, they say 32B-34B is perfect. But I think most like them bigger!
2007-01-04 12:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by shellybelly_000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, men are looking for symmetry. There are so many beautiful women in the world but who are they to say that size is not beauty? I guess, it depends on how you use it. honey, you can not please everybody, just hang around on those who like it
2006-12-31 20:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Philippines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋