how do i make him like me?

Question

im 12 and there is a guy in my class that i really like. we seem to talk every now and then but the only problem is that every girl i know likes him. my friend keeps telling me that we make a good couple but i keep telling her that too many girls like him and im just one of them that her doesnt care about. i just want him to ask me to the spring danceand we could be a couple. please

Answer 1

wait til you're older. 12 seriously no wonder i see all these middle schoolers pregnant.

Answer 2

Eliza, look u r still 12 . So wait for some more time. Or if u really like him tell him this directly. Look dear, u should not get into trouble. See to it that u r safe. I think u r in 6th or 7th std. Right? u still have lots and lots to study u know? What will u do in 10th if ur crush continues? Be carefull dear. All the best.

Answer 3

I turn 12 next month and i was in that same problem before school let out for winter brake. Here is what you do. First flirt then have one of your friends write him a note asking if he likes you. Then have them write at the end of the note saying that she or he will not tell you if he says yes. Just write that so he wouldn't think this is coming from you. Make sure you tell them to write reply after that. It worked for me i hope this will work for you.

Answer 4

At 12yrs old, you know nothing about life. This is the time your hormones start to react. Better get a grip. Now is the time for you to think about your future and concentrate on your education. There will be boys around as long as the world is there and may be you going to find somebody like him or better. There is nothing wrong in being friends. But keep it at that for now. You do not know if he has any future or what is he going to be life. So hang in there and pay attention to your studies. You do not make some body like you just like you cannot make somebody love you.

Answer 5

You can't MAKE anyone like you. Be who you are, play no mind games. Let him know you would like to go to the dance with him...hint, hint...ASK HIM. Don't ask Mary to tell Wanda, to pass on to Lashonda to ask him.
When I was in school (back in the days of 'poodle skirts', white bucks, saddle oxfords,penny loafers, B/W tv's) we had a dance each fall called the SADIE HAWKINS DANCE (do a google search)...the girls asked the guy and he could NOT say no. Ask your school counselor about that for next year. We had SOCK HOPS, too...only socks worn, no shoes.
Good luck. And remember, you're 12. So many years, so many guys. Have fun!

Answer 6

well at 12 you shouldn't really be thinking about getting into a relationship but if this is what you really want then basically i also believe that you cannot make anyone like you, you first have to be happy with yourself and have a good self-esteem before you approach anyone, go ahead and be bold, ask him to the dance yourself and if he says no, oh well i bet there are many other people out there that would love to date you and take you to the dance this is just the beginning.

Answer 7

You may have to get someone that knows him and you to talk to him and see what he thinks about you. Asking ig he has someone to go to the dance with? Then maybe feel him out about taking you? that's about all you can do short of asking him to go with you and taking a chance on being shot down. If I were you I would be friendly with him. Be nice and sweet, not overbearing. Then just have fun at the dance and ask him to dance. You are very young and dating is really not appropriate, meeting someone there and being a couple may be a little much even. Try to be free and young and enjoy the company of many boys and find out the things you like about all of them. That is how we eventually choose our mates. One boy at this tender age is not going to be permanent anyhow. so, just enjoy. Make yourself beautiful. Maybe find out what his favorite song is and have them play it while you ask him to dance...just have fun and enjoy being young and free.

Answer 8

the only thing you can change in life is you, yourself...im really suprised about this considering the fact that you are 12, give it sometime and see how things go..why do you want him to ask you out, why not you ask him that..please dont keep any of these "let him be the first" things...you may lose quite a lot...take the initiative and go ahead...fortune favors the brave....the most important thing is "
who is he interested in" see if you can find that out, but ideally i suggest, you shouldnt be spending much time on this.....

anyways, i hope things go your way...happy dancing...

Answer 9

Like everyone else has said you can't force anything. You are just 12...you have time to practice your skills! Just be yourself. Take a special interest in his interests. Like if he likes superman for example...buy him a superman T-shirt or something. Or give him the nick name of superman. He will love it. If he really has a butt-load of girls after him it may be hard to get his sole attention but it sounds like you already have it. Just be honest with him. Ask him to the dance!

Answer 10

observe him. ask yourself if you truly like him or do you like him because you think he likes you or that you like him because he seems to be the most popular. if hes that popular and your not, no offense, then he probably wont ask you. he has too many choices out there for him to pick. thats the way the popular status goes. where i come from most of the guys dont ask girls out. they usually just go with some friends. thats how middle school goes. but if you really want him to like you then, as i said before, observe him. see what interests him. if he likes basketball then talk about how you played basketball in PE. if he seems uninterested like he just responds "cool" or "yeah" dont get discouraged because i once talked to this guy i like, he actually came over to me in yearbook class and started to talk to me. i asked what page do you have? he just answered "assemble page" i kept on asking questions and he just answered them straight with no other talking like he didnt want to talk to me. there is also a guy in my class that every girl has like before or is liking him. the reason everyone likes him is because he is nice, cute, smart, popular. hes the kind of guy worth liking, but other people add up to the same characteristics, but just they arent good. maybe its becasue they are more preverted. so just talk to the guy you like. laugh. and make jokes. say things that you think will continue a conversation. and just keep going. also see if he is worth liking. :)

Answer 11

Never, never do anything to MAKE a guy like you. Instead, be the best person you can be and the right guy will come along and sweep you off of your feet a long, long time from now. And it will be SO worth it.