Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

My wife thinks her sister and myself is having a relationship only with her no one else. This started while she was pregnant and now the baby is 2.5 years old .So this is no more postpartum but something else but honestly I ever cheated with none so far. I am getting frustrated about this because it's actually driving me nuts at least 1-3 day's a week now with her questions. She even asked me to take a Polygraph and I said yes because of my kids. How can I correct this problem because I love her and I don’t want to break up our marriage due to this? Is this some kind of mental problem? Helpppppppp

2006-12-28 21:52:08 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in love with a man,who live in UK,i live in Palma de mallorca.Well we love each other,but how we can keep that feeling alive,if we have so many miles between us?We know each other more than 2,5 years,saw each other for two times.Spent wonderfull time together,but...................

2006-12-28 21:51:44 · 29 answers · asked by Tigress in love 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know you're in love? what are the signs? Can anyone enlighten me especially when it's a one-sided situation? Thanks so much

2006-12-28 21:50:18 · 6 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2 in Singles & Dating

I was so true to this girl for two years but she betrayed me after she joined a co-education Business Scholl which is a part of my college campus..She roams with guys in front of me in her car..Its killing me..I want to take revenge..I want to pick a girl from her own college and start a frinedship with her and show my ex wat i can do..but i dont know how to do it..pls help..

2006-12-28 21:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does that mean his thingy is well thats what ive herd is it true what do you think of it?

2006-12-28 21:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i am not trying to be crude here but this is how it happened...tell me what you think.

Me and my husband was in the middle of having sex and we talk dirty all the time. However this time he would not let it go. I was pleasuring him ( you know) and he stated " how would you like me getting some one over here to F$%$ you will you &&^# me?". At first i kinda of ignored it but he kept making refernence to it.

I think that was his way of asking for a threesome. And if I am correct do I go through with it. I am not scared of experimenting. We always try new things.

REAL answers please.

2006-12-28 21:46:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf of three weeks , which I communicate with only online , stopped chatting & just logging on period about five days ago . His best friend Megan , which has been on my myspace friends list for about two weeks , left a comment on my page this morning . In the comment she wrote "I just wanted you to know that I love you , & have added you to my top 8 . " This comment struck me as odd , as this is not like Megan . Right away after reading the comment that Megan left , I sensed that I'd lost my bf . . . & sure enough ! later that night , my bf sent me an email saying that his parents did not approve of me, & that he was ending our relationship . My point is , I just knew ..... I could just sense that there was something about the comment she left that foreshadowed this whole thing . I fell in love 4 yrs ago , after that relationship failed , I began to self-harm. But now , I have learned that painful experiences make us stronger . Because of so much pain , I will now hurt no more .

2006-12-28 21:45:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a person falls in love with somebody, there must be some reason's for it.Some people fall in love in their first sight and some fall in love later. What makes people feel in these two ways?

2006-12-28 21:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by pellmell 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I like this guy a lot and he likes me too. We talk all the time and have gone out too. I'm pretty sure we are going out, but what if he thinks of me more as his close friend and not as his girlfriend. How can I tell?

2006-12-28 21:43:09 · 16 answers · asked by Texas <3 3 in Singles & Dating

In the past, I would look at all those advice columns which always advise people to talk it out face to face when there’s a misunderstanding. But is this really the best way? What if people just don’t want to share their feelings with you? What if things get worse when you talk it out, ‘cos the truth may hurt them?

2006-12-28 21:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by pamela10 1 in Friends

me ans my good friend had a fight and she told me some harsh words. basically i asked her for help overcomind some issues, as you do with friends, she told me that she can no longer deal with me and my problems and goodluck trying to solve them.

2006-12-28 21:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by amgoich 2 in Friends

How many people out there are bored as hell and really should be sleeping?

I am and I whish I could be sleeping.

2006-12-28 21:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 21:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by DJ101 3 in Singles & Dating

im 20 and i like this guy. hes 19. we ve been hanging out as friends for the last 6 months, every evening.... if i didnt know better i think we are dating. i think he looks upto me as his senior in college. we joke around about our sad social lives that we need to hang out with each etc
i really really like him but i have no idea how to go about this whole thing. cuz i really enjoy his company and i dont wanna lose it.

2006-12-28 21:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by vegas l 1 in Singles & Dating

here's the thing. I'm moving out the end of this month to a 2 bedroom suite I'm renting and I told my friend he could move in with me if he wants. shouldnt have done that, cause I actually really really dont want to live with him and now I'm stuck in this hole.

I cant just say "actually sorry I dont wanna live with you". so should I asked the landlord to play along and instead of me telling him, I'd ask the landlord to say something like "we only rent to 1 person"...

2006-12-28 21:39:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend and i have been friends for a good 15 years. since we were 5 years old and have never had a fight with eachother the entire time. We were inseperable. She stayed with me for awhile because of her father being an alcholic. during the time of our graduation of high school we started to drift apart because ì started a long time relationship with a guy. We spoke on the phone and saw eachother once every couple of months due to careers but we were still close. she has now met new friends and i can see that she is slowly going down the hill by hanging around them, she was a virgin and now she is having unprotected sex and getting drunk every weekend clubbing something that she has never done the entire time i have known her. I dont know whether she is going through a phase or what? i told her how i felt and now we have being arguing for the past 2 weeks, now she says that i have never been there for her and that im a bad friend. should i stop speaking to her? its breaking my heart

2006-12-28 21:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by caboodles111 2 in Friends

What thing or person makes you really happy?

2006-12-28 21:35:26 · 17 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in 8th grade she is in 9th

2006-12-28 21:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

i duno what todo either see my bf tommow or on new years day.he has exams when he goes back to school on 3 rd of jannuary.hes at sixthform and thease exams are very inportant if he is to get into the univerty he wonts.i dunno if to see him tommow and dont see him on new year days or wait and see him new years day.we dont live close to each other,he lives 1 hour 15 min away from me.what should i do.

2006-12-28 21:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i havent spoken two him for 3 days
we chat on msn and somtimes on phone
should i call my boyfriend or just leave it?

2006-12-28 21:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone tell me will a guy go all the way to learn play some tunes for you with on instrument, and gave you a planned birthday gift when he said he don't love you anymore? Is he doing it all as a way of showing guiltiness for whatever he done? Is there someone so "open-heart" as to say when you love someone, you don't have to own her, hv to set her free?

2006-12-28 21:28:13 · 15 answers · asked by Kitty Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a continuation of http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061226000803AAOf4NJ&r=w

In summary, Guy 1 seems shy and seems to like me. He looks in my direction and is upbeat when I talk to him. He's been downcast and more introverted toward others since i started ignoring him 2 weeks ago after he "rejected" me for coffee. He appears upset when me and Guy 2 are around each other but says NOTHING.

Guy 2 knows how to talk to women. Tuesday night he started flirting with me, came out specially (I BET) Thusday night for work drinks to see me, today he half asks me out for new years eve.

I think 1 cares but is half giving up...if its to not cause fights, cool. If its 'cause i'm not worth it, well....

What can I do? I won't see 1 til Tuesday. 2 I see tomorrow. Honestly, I lead 2 on a bit to get 1 to do something (healthy competition?)...and it's not quite working. I think 1 could be great, just can't talk to girls. But I won't risk having nothing by giving up on 2. Any ideas?

2006-12-28 21:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by JDA 3 in Singles & Dating

i am a girl .I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for last 2 yrs. He was very nice.
But one day, he touched me which no boy had done to me ever before. he holds my hand for silly things and often holds my waist when we are playing. Why is he doing this? How should i say that i am very uncomfortable with him?

2006-12-28 21:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son is only seven,and I am happy that they have a bond,but do not agree with the hunting. My 7 year old informed me that he shot a squirrel the other day. I was very mad.He is only 7 and wakes up at 4 in the morning to go in the woods and fall asleep & he received multiple bug bites,that I had to take him to the doctor,he put him on antibiotics since their were so many. Is this a sign of neglect and could I get some visitation taken away from him?He even goes on school nights,this is not in the best interest of the child,I don't think?

2006-12-28 21:26:15 · 15 answers · asked by joduscabodus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 21:26:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm only 180.5cm. I actually feel small these days with men averaging about 6'. Its the same in my class. But its cool. Just want to know your opinion.

2006-12-28 21:25:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel completely submissive when i'm under my guy's hand and hate it so much. but i'm not ready to go all the way yet soo i kinda have to have this done. is there anyway to make it better where i can feel somewhat in control? i don't think so.

2006-12-28 21:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 21:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 21:24:01 · 16 answers · asked by joey p 1 in Singles & Dating

im an average 12 year old not so popular definately not a geek wot can i do for my birthday party (ive never had a real birthday party in my life)

2006-12-28 21:23:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends