Hey, I like this guy a lot and he likes me too. We talk all the time and have gone out too. I'm pretty sure we are going out, but what if he thinks of me more as his close friend and not as his girlfriend. How can I tell?
2006-12-28 21:43:09 · 16 answers · asked by Texas <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have gone out with a few other people, and we have held hands, but he has not come out and asked me yet.
2006-12-28 21:51:38 · update #1
the best solution according to me is by making him tell it through his own mouth. here is a small sentimental plan. this works when u really have another best friend who is a boy and tell him ur problem. if he agrees to help, do as i say. act in front of the guy like u r a grilfriend to the guy whom u asked to help. he will automatically speak out. if he doesnot then he thinks u as his close friend. all the best. if u do not get what i say just mail me. ok. all the best once again.
2006-12-28 21:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by bandaruvamsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are close and open then just ask him there's no harm i believe straight talk between real friends does not break friendships at all so ask him and take things from there if he only wants a friendship except it and remain friends but if its more than that good for you.
2006-12-28 21:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....gone out in the sense dates? or just trips? I think you should honestly ask him what u guys are doing..... Did he officially ask you out and ask you to be his gf??? If so, then he's thinking of you as his gf but if not, u guys are just close friends...But u rly rly should ask him............ :) Good Luck!
2006-12-28 21:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourselves some time. And then if you are still confused ask him about it. Or, you can do something which could make him jeolous if he takes you as a GF
2006-12-28 21:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by pellmell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep hanging out, and eventually the true feelings and intentions will come to surface.
2006-12-28 21:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple :) ask him about the one he love...??? or about his girlfriend ..???and if he start shying infront of you then change the Question and say .. Ok fine friend then gave me the hints about ur LOVE,, gave me hints about her look, r something told me about ur Life partner what sort of things you want to see in her ... and then simple by get the answers you can easily conclude that what his choice,,, and what is your place..?? HAPPY Now chill and ask him ..
2006-12-28 21:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPELL IT---COMMUNICATION---ask and see if the answer is there---if not, you can move on or just remain friends---but ask---no one will die because you wanted to know. Good Luck
2006-12-28 21:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ask him, what he interprets your realationship to be, if it is a freind ship, or is it something more.
2006-12-28 21:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him lol. Youll know when he plants one on ya :P
2006-12-28 21:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it. I take it your not active. Makes it harder to tell.
2006-12-28 21:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋