Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My girlfriend got pregnant after we had sex 3 weeks ago, we are guessing the condom broke because we were using one. And well anyway she said she wants to get an abortion because she says she dosen't have time for any children right now :( But I really do not want her to get rid of the baby, I told her I will do anything but she says she probably will get an abortion.

Does anyone know how I can stop her from getting an abortion ?

Other details:
-She is 22 (In her last year of college)
-I am 24 (I have finished college and have a great job)
-We have been together for 4 years
-We live together
-I told her I will pay for everything the baby needs (clothes, diapers, food, daycare, ect.), I even said I would marry her because I love her and really don't want her to kill are child :(

2006-12-11 19:04:01 · 18 answers · asked by Peter S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 19:03:16 · 6 answers · asked by FREDERICK S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 19:01:51 · 20 answers · asked by Bradian M 2 in Singles & Dating

So, a year ago my ex cheated on me after a year of dating. I broke it off and he denied any wrongdoing. It took me a while but I learned that it wasn't about me and I've since moved on. However, two days ago I get a message from him and he's apologizing and asking for my forgiveness. He's recently joined the military and he said he said he just wants my forgiveness and that he'd like me to reply if I feel comfortable. He's on my blocked list so I'm not even sure how the e-mail came through. However, I'm not sure if I should respond. I mean after all he's still with the girl he cheated on me with and although I've moved on I'd like to just be done with him. However, I know that forgiveness is key. So, should I at least tell him that I forgive him or just not respond?

2006-12-11 19:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 in Singles & Dating

Should either mate be limited to the point where they can't speak to their friend or hang out? What limits should not be crossed?

2006-12-11 19:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by Pink~Panther 1 in Weddings

i always got sex on my mind.. i want to just do it.. but i'm afraid imma regret it when i go ahead and do it.. what can i do

2006-12-11 18:57:38 · 21 answers · asked by coqueta19 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 18:57:05 · 17 answers · asked by ashwin 1 in Friends

hi i have this frnd PRATEETI GOYAL .her father is an IAS officer.she is avery close school buddy.her father got transferred and i dont know how to communicate with her as i dont have her ph no or address.help me find my friend .
In the year 2001 we used to study in the above mentioned school together,in 5th class.now we are in class 10th.
in2003,her father got transferred to bhilwada,where he stayed as collector.my dad got transferred to sgnr.she joined sophia there.and i joined sacred heart convent school.next year her father got transferred to jaipur and she took addmission in sms school(i.e. inthe year2004)
in the year 2005,her father got transferred to ajmer.and my father got transferred to bikaner.on our last talk on the phone call she told me that they are not shifting to ajmer.on new year i sent her a card was returned back to me by post.If you know her.plz tell me .
PLEASE.

2006-12-11 18:56:37 · 5 answers · asked by Surabhi S 5 in Friends

ive been w/ my bf for 4+ mo., and he "dared" me to write his dad an e-mail......they havnt spoken for over a year & 1/2, and i think this was his way of asking for my help.-and deal w/ the challenge of it all! lol but....so, id really like to help and thought i could start here-----i want to also cuz':

1.-cuz' id love to see them reconnect
2.-i'd like to hopefully meet him one day!

where can i find acess to info like that though-----all i know now, is that hes in phoneix, and that hes a musician......and i think married to a cop, but i dont know her name------
PLEASE help!!!!!
thanks!

2006-12-11 18:55:24 · 3 answers · asked by cokocobain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 18:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 18:53:40 · 14 answers · asked by sabrina g 1 in Friends

Should I let her???

2006-12-11 18:53:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my hair is being yanked while I'm in the middle of romantic love-making?

2006-12-11 18:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

Just checking been gone for a long time curious about old friends.

2006-12-11 18:50:31 · 2 answers · asked by jay 2 in Friends

im asking because i see so many questions on how do i know what true love is? maybe this will help?

2006-12-11 18:49:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...or in their___sizes??? especially in womens' case! oops! a gynecologists must know this or anyone can help!!!

2006-12-11 18:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by ayu 2 in Singles & Dating

I was told they consider themselves as soulmates, they love each other as they continue to respect and love their own married partners - and strictly no divorce too!.. I find it weird, but i guess love is mystical (*more, they haven't met in person yet, no plans so far, and are only chatmates) but what you think of that?

2006-12-11 18:47:51 · 26 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Friends

Ok, so I have liked this girl for a while, originally a while back on the rebound, but she just had a one month relationship with a person that I kind of know, and am on good terms with, and it has been over for a month since the breakup. Since then we have hung out rather often with her group of friends, and last week I found myself liking her the way I had when I was rebounding. In the past week we have talked on the phone 3 times each minimum of 90 minutes, once even for 230 mins, and after which she said she would like to have more of those talks, and when i suggested having them in person she said that would be good. Though I see that as a sign that she likes me at least a little, I am not seeing as much body language, I mean, she gets close to me, but I dont know, her friends are always there.. are there any other signs? should I act on this now? how should I act? I think im going to a movie with her thurs. and/ or possibly lunch. Please answer honestly & Thanks for your help.

2006-12-11 18:47:35 · 11 answers · asked by Jet Three 1 in Singles & Dating

it hurts sooooooooooooo bad?

2006-12-11 18:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

m in love with this girl who has just broken of. she just take me as a good friend. ust wanna know our future

2006-12-11 18:45:13 · 5 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

when im here where im staying im all keyed up on edge. this lady his mom tells me what time to go to bed. what i should say. and ive dealt with this for more than i should have. 12 months or more. i really dont love her son anymore after the way they have treated me. name calling. made up stories, control freaks,complainers. im mad at me for allowing this **** to go on. i had a bad experience and had to stay here for awhile. i have contributed. when i said im gonna leave the son told me i was losing it. the mom says after all i did for you? what about her $1350.00 utility bills ive gotten paid. and the food i bought? i dont owe them diddle squate!!!!!!!! so i should go as i want to. i have anger everytime i have to deal with his moms mouth like everyday. he does nothing about it. i respect the elderly im a nurse.yesterday my nurse sister came to see me and i was happy. the mom came into the living room and said to get respect you have to give respect. the words i quoted her.

2006-12-11 18:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we tied off, after he walked out of my life. Now he what's to come back. I still have love in my heart,but I am very much afraid of the emotional hurt. HELP!

2006-12-11 18:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by honestly 1 in Singles & Dating

I love this guy so much. Its been almost 3 years since we've broken up but still its sooo frickin hard. We see each other every once in a while and its kinda wierd, we have this silence. I think he still loves me and it hurts. I can't move on ! I've tried talking to him but he doesn't want anything with anyone. All he wants to do is focus on his career for a few years...

2006-12-11 18:44:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 18:44:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HE SHOULD BE SMART, GODD LOOKING ,EDUCATED,CARING , RELIGIOUS

2006-12-11 18:44:14 · 11 answers · asked by YOGITA K 1 in Singles & Dating

It has been almost a year and I found out that my girlfriend is looking into rings for me. We've been through a lot and haven't done much (ie: sex anything). I care for her a lot and I just want some help with this please.

2006-12-11 18:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by devildan0269 1 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone help me those who know rong zu er is?

2006-12-11 18:43:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 18:41:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get wett alot and i cant' deal with it i always get super wet talking to my boy-friend about sex plluse he got a sexy voice whivh turns me on or most of the toime i just get wet

2006-12-11 18:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

act or dress like a slutt and then complain because guys are treating her as such?

2006-12-11 18:36:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating