I was told they consider themselves as soulmates, they love each other as they continue to respect and love their own married partners - and strictly no divorce too!.. I find it weird, but i guess love is mystical (*more, they haven't met in person yet, no plans so far, and are only chatmates) but what you think of that?
2006-12-11 18:47:51 · 26 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is ok till the time it is plutonic.cos there are certain commitments towards your family.In fact it helps in improving your sex life with your spouse.people learn from others experience also and I feel there is no harm in learning from others.
2006-12-11 18:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by mans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total jerk. And you sound like an easy target to string along because of your low self-esteem. If he's going to marry a woman and has proposed, chances are that he's not going to leave her for some office fling. And even if he did, don't you know the saying that you'll lose them the way you got them? You'll always be paranoid when he talks to other women even if he does go for you. You'll still always wonder if you're good enough. Find someone that makes you their number 1 choice. You don't have to settle. Get a dog or go out more if you're that lonely. You can ALWAYS find a replacement. Always. No matter who you are.
2016-05-23 08:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not ok to sex chat
would you be ok if your hubby did that to you?
its intimacy bond breaking!!
You dont have the right to let anyone sexually amuse you apart from your husband. Be it on chat or in ur imagination or having sex
I dont understand when married men and women seek sexual pleasures from other people! You have a person ready to satisfy your sexual needs right in front of you.
I personally feel all Dic ks and all Pu ss ies are the the same!!
Why not sex chat with your husband! Am sure it will be really kinky and more satisfying.
2006-12-11 18:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i suppose it is ok for them, but for the other two parties, I wouldn't think they would agree. But often times married couple allow themselves to engage in sexual activity either together with other people are just chatting as you mentioned here. I guess it all depends on the circumstances. I am sure for this situation, she wouldn't want to be caught.
2006-12-11 18:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by who_is_cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask? Each is supposedly married./ in a committed relationship. What is the reason for their chatting at all?
Isn't' someone else entitled to their attention, affection, and all that they are experiencing with whatever sex chat they are engaging?
Both need to get off the computer, and go talk dirty to the person laying in their bed - alone waiting to share themselves with their S/O.
2006-12-11 19:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that souls can connect from a distance. If they are both married, then I guess it depends on the kind of chatting. Talking to a friend about sex stuff is normal. But "I'd like to do this to you" "OOOH, I'd love that" and so on is getting a little close to cheating. I don't know if it's totally cheating, but it's getting close.
2006-12-11 18:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's more then sex chat from the sounds of it. If they consider themselves soulmates...I think I would be a little worried!
2006-12-11 19:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by my_bad_ass_kids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know if it's a sin, but I suspect that it is. Look at it this way - if you take one drink, promising you'll take only one drink so as to avoid getting drunk, what's the use in taking the drink. But if that one drink gives you a little buzz, if you enjoyed it, and it left you wanting more, aren't you just as guilty? If chatting is as far as you go with someone other than your spouse, but it leaves you wanting more, aren't you just as guilty as if you had gone farther?
2006-12-11 18:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. what is there to say they will not meet in the future and break someones heart. If they really value the loved ones, it is a foolish game what they are playing.
2006-12-11 18:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by ana l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could possibly be more juvenile than deciding that someone you've never met, who is writing you from afar and could be COMPLETELY not what they seem, and who has the luxury of only presenting his/her best side--what could be more juvenile than deciding that THAT person is your "soul mate." It sounds like this person is not very mature. Plus, it's not OK. How would her husband feel if he knew this? Crazy junior high stuff.
2006-12-11 18:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋