when im here where im staying im all keyed up on edge. this lady his mom tells me what time to go to bed. what i should say. and ive dealt with this for more than i should have. 12 months or more. i really dont love her son anymore after the way they have treated me. name calling. made up stories, control freaks,complainers. im mad at me for allowing this **** to go on. i had a bad experience and had to stay here for awhile. i have contributed. when i said im gonna leave the son told me i was losing it. the mom says after all i did for you? what about her $1350.00 utility bills ive gotten paid. and the food i bought? i dont owe them diddle squate!!!!!!!! so i should go as i want to. i have anger everytime i have to deal with his moms mouth like everyday. he does nothing about it. i respect the elderly im a nurse.yesterday my nurse sister came to see me and i was happy. the mom came into the living room and said to get respect you have to give respect. the words i quoted her.
2006-12-11 18:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is such a bunch of crap! All you've done is trade one bad experience for another. What is so God awful compelling that is forcing you to stay in this mess? That son is the one who has "lost it. Besides being a useless bag of dung he's as dumb as a bag of Mississippi mud still tied to his mommy's womb. She's a vindictive controlling shrew who is trying to pull the same thing on you. Haven't you endured enough already? You've certainly paid far more then your fair share of expenses. Maybe that's why they are guilt tripping you into staying so that they can continue to keep leaching off of you and steal your money. So for cripes sake get the hell out of there! You owe them nothing! So by all means go as you want to. Are you aware that it's still your life? Pack your bags and get the lead out. Vent your anger and don't feel the least bit guilty. Leave NOW before it's too late and don't look back. If you don't you may soon find yourself permanently stuck.
2006-12-11 20:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, this is a bit complicated but I would first start with finding some place to go to first. Don't do anything irrational like hit her or just get up and leave. Play it cool for a couple of days, allow things to blow over a little bit then pack all your things and leave, and most of all never look back.
2006-12-12 02:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by devildan0269 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Call your mom or dad or whatever family member and stay with them for a while. Avoid those kinds of people.
2006-12-12 02:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mom_of_two 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant expect anyone to stand up for you, if your not standing up for yourself.
Thats where it needs to start. if you are financially able to walk away from the situation, Do JUST THAT!
Why stay and be mistreated, and miserable, when you dont have to ??
These Boots Were Made For Walking!
2006-12-12 02:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave. Feel no remorse or pity and just leave. Eveyone has the right to be respected. Dont put up with it anymore. They try to stop you push them out of your way (figure of speach).
2006-12-12 02:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Empty Space 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I'd cut my losses and leave.
Make sure you have somewhere to leave to
Maybe your friend can help you?
Why have you let them use you?
Anger is for righting wrongs not making new ones use it to get organised.
2006-12-12 02:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan to leave, first let her know exactly what is on your mind, it may workout better than you think and if it doesn't then you're leaving anyway and you have this weight off your shoulders.
2006-12-12 02:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you put up with this. Get some backbone and leave NOW.
2006-12-12 02:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK if your that far gone move on. LIFE is too short to not be happy.
2006-12-12 02:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋