I think true love is so much more deep than most people understand. I once asked this guy what he thought true love was and his reply was "when you can't stop thinking about her 24/7". I thought that was incredibly superficial and that explanation only covers infatuation and lust.
True love cannot be defined in my opinion. Its a state of mind, and a state in which your relationship is in. It isn't at the point where you think you can't live without your partner. Its at a point when you know you CAN live without your partner if you want to but you CHOOSE to stay with them because you enjoy their company so much. Its when you two are so close that you seem more like intimate best friends than lovers. I can't really describe what I think it is any further. Sorry.
2006-12-11 18:56:00
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answered by natofield 2
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True love. True love has become such a complex thing these days it's truly hard to come across two of the same thinking's of ones truest deepest feelings of true love. The way I see true love if you can see yourself with that same person +20 years down the road knowing that they will be by your side for the rest of your life. True love is life long never ending. It is a desire that that can not be change. True love is everlasting. True love is where you marry once in your life knowing that person is the only person made for you, and even if they die tomorrow you wouldn't marry another just because you love you true love soo much.
2006-12-11 18:57:57
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answered by devildan0269 1
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True love is like asking for a definition of the force that is LIFE (as in breathing, eating, etc., not dead). It's really not definable. For me, it includes caring for another as much as yourself and outting them first withiout a thought. It was also (I am a loner and really liked it that way. Enjoyed my own company. Wasaround othrs all the time at work and often when out and around, so be9ng "home alone" was respite. I needed the calm, or work or play alone to balance things out. When I really got to know my wife, I found I liked being with her as much or more than being alone - nearly all the time. I still need my alone time, but feel warm all over knowing she's nearby or will be home soon, etc.
To love someone, you have to like them and agree on most major thjings in life, th9ugh you may differ when it comes to detail. My wife is a Pacifist and doesn't believe in fighting - period!
I am a "Pacifist" as well, but know that sometimes you jave to fight so we don't have to. We understand and respect each others's viewpoint and I wish her's would work ans she knows it.
Real deep love shows up after you know someone well enough to know what you don't like about them and accept it as almost incidental.
2006-12-11 19:07:25
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answered by sirsmoss 2
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Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.
Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever.
Those whom true love has held, it will go on holding.
For true love is inexhaustible; the more you give, the more you have. And if you go to draw at the true fountainhead, the more water you draw, the more abundant is its flow.
We don't believe in rheumatism and true love until after the first attack.
True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.
The energy of Love is the force that binds the world. This is the energy we all exist on. This energy runs through you and you act like a filter for it. When you experience an absence of love or love is lacking in a situation, your filter is unclear. True love is simply experiencing this energy without the distortions of a muddy filter. True love is the acceptance of others without judgement and of course to do this you need to love and accept yourself first.
2006-12-11 18:54:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Lust comes first. Love does not truly come until you know someone for years. Do you have the same interests? Are you willing to compromise? Is there a true trust between the two of you? Love is many things to many people. For me love is waking up next to the same women for more than 33 years and thanking God for allowing it to happen. Love is seeing the same person you married hen you look at them even though they have changed. Love is devoting your all to making them happy until death do you part.
2006-12-11 19:00:20
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answered by Wat Da Hell 5
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True love is God sending his One and Only Son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for the world's sins and then raising Him again on the third day so that we can live with Him forever in heaven!! That is TRUE LOVE, loving us, even being the sinners that we are. <3
I think that true love between a man and a woman is where they are meant to be together forever and they love each other no matter what, through thick and thin, faults and all. Where you would do anything for that person and only want to be with that one person to share the rest of your life with. <3
:)
2006-12-11 18:52:51
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answered by Anonymous
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When Jesus said to His disciples, "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me" (Matthew 16:24), He was commanding His followers to bear the cross, not to wear the cross. Revelation speaks of being saved not by the cross, but by the blood of Jesus. It was the cross as a demonstration of Jesus' love and sacrifice that Paul and the disciples exalted, not the revolting instrument itself. Hebrews 12:2 says, "Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God." The redemption of the cross is what should be the focus of Christians
2016-05-23 08:02:26
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answered by ? 4
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true love is a redundant word
there is no such thing as false or fake love so love is love no matter what
for me i cant really define right now what love is, i dont know if im experiencing it , if i have experienced it or if i would want to experience it
for now all i know is perhaps love is associated with hurt
2006-12-11 19:03:55
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answered by haringmarumo 6
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willin to do anythin to bring joy and happiness for the person you love, without ever havein to ask what it would take to bring them that joy and happiness, feelin empy when you know you cant be around them, yet still happy at the same time because you know you love them
2006-12-11 19:02:04
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answered by kydd 6
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feeling like heart break when someone you love drop to the sea or fall down and think of he or her
2006-12-11 18:53:14
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answered by cutiegirlask 3
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