Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I have been datting this guy for quite a while And i love him I really do then a few weeks ago he asked me to be his wife then with in like the last two weeks he has started acting weird like for instence we used to talk on the phone till 2 or 3 in the morrning even if we had just spent the whole day together but here lately it like he can barly spare any time for me at all He has been getting off the phone with me here lately at like 10 pm we still see each other at work and all but it is not the same and when we do talk he is always busy on his computer I know he has been busy he has been bringing some of his work home but that never was a problem before and i also know he has been busy working on putting up a website he is helping with its a radio online and he is helping by beinging a live DJ but he only works on 3 days a week and only 2 hours shifts at a time and yet he has been well to be blunt a bit distent recently and I dont know why can someone help me I dont know what to do?

2006-11-30 09:46:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a female but I am a virgin. Can you describe the first time you had sex. I am not a pervert but I am writing a book and it is about a teenage girl who has sex with a lot of guys and regrets it later. This book is for teen girls who have sex at a young age and just throw away the beautiful gift of being a virgin. I am going to start to book out with her first sexual experience and since I am a virgin, I won't know what to write. And I want to make it sound realistic so I want to ask someone who experienced it.
Please give detail because if you write just that it hurt, you won't be chosen as the best answer.

2006-11-30 09:46:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy, he rides my bus, just say his name is jason. my friend told jason i like him last tuesday, i wasn't at school wednesday, and there wasn't school thursday friday and the weekend. but on monday he started acting weird around me. this guy named cain told another guy named colton who rides my bus bus that i like jason. now everybody who sits around me keeps asking me if i liked jason. this guy named brady said because he sits across from me every day it must be a 2 way thing. i get on before him too. i'm totally confused, i might have to tell him before things get out of hand, but i'm not sure how. please help me.

2006-11-30 09:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by Shannon 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl at my school... Only ever said thx and stuff to her when the teacher asks her to give stuff out... I feel really embarrased about speaking to her and go shy and red when near her... I know some of her friends... and her younger brother... How would I talk to her... I'm 15 if that helps...

2006-11-30 09:45:52 · 7 answers · asked by captain.french 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 09:45:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i like my best friends cousin! He's really cute, smart, and nice! There's one problem! We never see eachother! I saw him a couple of times, and my friend brought me to his house a couple of times to hang out! He lives hlaf an hour away and there's just no way to contact him or even talk to him. The only choice i have is to tell ma bff but i dun want to! help!!!!!!!

2006-11-30 09:45:31 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah M 1 in Singles & Dating

i told her who i had a massive crush on, and all of a sudden shes talking to him in classes, exchanging instant messages, and becoming his friend. i dont know what shes after, but it makes me really upset, becuase shes funny and gorgeous and could probably get him before i could (i am told that i'm pretty, but i am very shy).


i guess my two questions are:
1. what do i do about my best friend? she will get defensive and b*tchy if i straight up tell her i dont like her befriending him
2. how do i outshine my best friend and get him to pay attention to me more?





ps im 17. thanks so much guys!

2006-11-30 09:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello their, I address this message to people that are observing the message and given that people seem to like responding to these messages with an abusive content becuase they have nothing better to do, I posted another message about family issues which isn't really relevant as the header on the message isn't correct and the body of the message isn't relevant to the area I posted it under.


Firstly the addressing of all means to acknowledge my greatness and your rubbed up by my superiority in respect to some of the statements I have made judging by your shallow response you must not have the same ambitions as me, well at the end of the day if I am earning 35k by the time I am 25 and driving and stuff well I don't assume thats a fault that I have been employed through constant hard work and dedication and being motivated also helps and being intellgient is a key element to that aswell oh well...

2006-11-30 09:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

would u choose Beyonce....or Toccara?

2006-11-30 09:44:43 · 15 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have had this talk before and she usually has some reason, although it changes often, for her total lack of sexual desire. Sometimes her reasoning is almost religious in nature and other times age related, we are both in our mid forties and married for over twenty. She has claimed to be suffering from "sexual burn out", (we two used to have a good sex life), or that I had a vasectomy after our last child in consideration of my wife's health and with her consent.
Leaving all the many reasons she has given for this situation aside it has occured to me that the single biggest thing for me to be worried about is that I think this is a big, big problem and that she says it is natural and "no big deal". I guess what I'd like to know is if I think something like this can be fatal to a marriage and she says it is completely unimportant, is there any way that I can help but be right?

2006-11-30 09:44:18 · 17 answers · asked by MEL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I laugh at all his jokes, but i am very shy, i can't just go up and talk to him, that isn't like me. He reccognises that i laugh at his jokes, he somethimes gets mad at me---obviously joking, he is really funny. I think he knows that I like him because my brother probably
told him. how can i get him to ask me out?

2006-11-30 09:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Tara D 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys me again,

Re that lovely m8 of mine that I mentioned in a previous question where I thanked YA for helping me finding him. Only one problem with him, when he has a little nap in his bed 4 a couple of hours etc, he literally dies, no kidding, it would take an earthquake 2 waken him up, I have used my mobile, home phone, pc even all in one go, I have called his phone, mobile and pc solidly since 7pm gmt and krikey he slept through that lot.

Has anyone got a spare nuclear bomb I can use 2 try and wake him up, even that wouldn't waken him up. One thing though, I am worried for him as he is suffering just now with extreme tiredness, I have asked him 2 b checked by his doctor for diabetes or anemia and other probs, he has been here 4 me so I am here 4 him.He is a young guy in a million, the guy's a gem, I just want him 2 wake up, if he was a girl I would swear blind it was sleeping beuty in real life.

So guys please help me, how the hell can I wake him up??????????!!!!

2006-11-30 09:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by DIAMOND_GEEZER_56 4 in Friends

I asked a question about having a fling. Wow there are some real non sympathetic people here. But my next question is where is my new friend

2006-11-30 09:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by don b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

coz everytime he says hi to me when we meet,i somehow dont want to talk to him coz im still hurting inside.would this attitude make him want me back?or should i say hello or somehing too?i don't want him to think that im ok with just being friends with him..pls..tnx..

2006-11-30 09:42:59 · 8 answers · asked by nicly 2 in Singles & Dating

what is your dream girl or boy

2006-11-30 09:42:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find a lot of times that when you speak to someone who is having troubles in their relationship they tell you one of the things that's changed is the number of times per week they have intercourse with their partner. It's as if the state of the relationship has a direct correlation with the amount of sex, the times of day of sex, the length of sex, or the kind of sex.

Sex,sex,sex,sex,sex.

So why is it that so many people act as if their whole relationship has gone down the crapper when the sex becomes a little less frequent or perhaps not as intense?

What do women think abou this? Talk to me people! Let me hear from all of you out there...

2006-11-30 09:42:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 09:42:02 · 26 answers · asked by Airhammer 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, friends. How are you doing today ? I have come to
a decision. Lately I have been dating some extraordinary
ladies. And I am trying to decide which one I should stay
with, and persue a long lasting relationship with. Is it Ms.
Wendy's, the humble soul ? Or the Bookstore Diva, utterly
divine. Some say it is the Sexy Librarian. A woman who is
looking for some serious action. But most men sould keep
an eye on her type). But anyway, I did meet someone else
on Yahoo, and she is sweet as they come. Clue she plays
a violin, how about those apples. A keeper indeed. I have
others waiting online, but their chances are slim, compared
to these lucky ladies. Which one should I go with ? Choose
one, and may the best answer win. Which female will be the
queen of Zodiacman Land ?

2006-11-30 09:41:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Today as I was walking home from school a really nice red car honked at me. Why? Was is how I looked? Why exactly do people do that? Like, what does it mean?(I'm 13, so they prolly couldn't like me?)
Thanks!!!
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2006-11-30 09:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys what do you prefer & Why?? Are you an *** man or obsessed with the boobs?? And what is so great about them anyway, Inquiring minds want to know..... :o)

2006-11-30 09:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok the question is if a guy meets a girl in a casual sort of place ie coffee shop, school where ever and they start talking. Then the guys says would you like to hang out sometime? And the girl gives him her phone number.

Should it be assumed that this girl is single and interested or that she is possibly just looking for friends or something.

2006-11-30 09:40:41 · 5 answers · asked by Nate 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband moved to a very rural town from a very fast city to raise our children. We've been here 6 mo. our children are happy, but we're not. There is no work and our savings is almost gone. (our children aren't aware of any financial strappings) What should we do? I am an educated person. I have went to 2 interviews and I'm waiting on a decision. My husband was seriously injured 11 months ago. He has applied for SS but at 37 we doubt that will go through.(even though he has paid taxes since he was 16). I just need some outside advice from a non judge mental person. Thank you all so much.

2006-11-30 09:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by sftbllr4lf 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I shave my legs and wear panties every day so it's not really something I can hide for very long. But I know most girls will be turned off by this and it feels weird to tell them on a first date.

2006-11-30 09:39:52 · 15 answers · asked by Sissyboy 1 in Singles & Dating

these ppl next door i sounded like they called me a ***** but im not sure because they were right by my window and one time it sounded like they said why dont you ask that girl next door to help and it sounded like they said no she's a ***** also one day i seen some guys out there talking and i was looking in the window like when are they leaving so i can get my news paper and when i finally went out side the news paper was everywhere all over my porch and grass im i just thinkin they don't like me are do they probly don't what do u think?????????

2006-11-30 09:39:19 · 17 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Singles & Dating

Effective communicators can express words like this need I justfiy myself to someone at a pc thats jealous and bitter about how I conduct a relevant conversation by resolution that must near a concensus of genius levels of intellect to use words appropiately, now someone that responds like such.


I happenly can say that I expressed issues defering to jobs and employment related issues in a different sub directory on the message frame domain and can say only one thing 30,000 pounds a year, I have my own home and can buy my morgage buy the time I am 25, rightfully, and I have such ambitions, therefore I must have good skills if I have lived on my own and I am not in any debts, and have a good future to look forward.to..


Need I justify this any more, as for the responses this thread generates it can only be jealousy from passive observers that live in a non ambitious way and can't handle it when people like me can aspire to better than they can I rest my case......

2006-11-30 09:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

2006-11-30 09:37:16 · 3 answers · asked by msochit515 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-30 09:37:02 · 26 answers · asked by music 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for a year now and things were great, but the last few weeks we have been fighting like really bad, and we are def. in love, we dont wanna break up, we're committed, we just need some tips on how to make us happy and make us stronger, without breaking up or "taking a break"

2006-11-30 09:36:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would be a best time to hold a bridal shower if the bride is getting married in October 2007? I am the Maid of Honor and I wanna make sure I have "all my ducks in a row".

2006-11-30 09:35:54 · 19 answers · asked by SouthEast Sensation 1 in Weddings

how do i tell my friend i like him. and get him to get over his ex?

2006-11-30 09:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by boyssuck 1 in Singles & Dating