these ppl next door i sounded like they called me a ***** but im not sure because they were right by my window and one time it sounded like they said why dont you ask that girl next door to help and it sounded like they said no she's a ***** also one day i seen some guys out there talking and i was looking in the window like when are they leaving so i can get my news paper and when i finally went out side the news paper was everywhere all over my porch and grass im i just thinkin they don't like me are do they probly don't what do u think?????????
2006-11-30 09:39:19 · 17 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I Don't think my neighbors like me either, but I don't care because they live my life or pay my bills. I was going to ask them if they have a problem with me but I thought it might make things worse.
2006-11-30 09:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by SWEETSTEPH 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe not but why dont you ask them, or have you done something that might have upset them? do you have any dogs, cats, or other animals that may cause problem like excessive barking, not picking poop after walking, running around stray a lot, bad odors, etc? do you have a lot of company and visitors coming by causing lots of noise, traffic, and taking up parking spaces for other nearby residents? are you friendly and do you speak or smile when you see them? these may be reasons why it may or may not be true that your neighbors dont like you. either way, you have a right to be there considering you pay rent and hopefully respect the rules like everyone else. if it continues then maybe you should move to a new apartment or a different location within your apartment complex to get new neighbors.
2006-11-30 17:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by madi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will never know until you invite them for a cup of coffee or take them a piece of cake that she made. People can make assumptions and these assumptions are generally driven by the unknown. Be forward and give them a smile, say hello, complement on something dear to their heart and knock them off their feet with kindness. Keep in mind if it is a married couple, the wife might be suspect, so introduce your friend or spouse as a steady person and no competition to wither member of the opposite sex. Also if they have kids and you have kids introduced them and kids usualy can do things that we adults will never understand.
2006-11-30 17:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Spell check --then remember some people are just mean because they can be not for any other reason --if they continue to be abusive then you can ask them first to PLEASE leave you and your property alone and if that doesn't work you might have to contact the law or move
2006-11-30 17:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about if they like you or not. You live once and don't live in fear it's your newspaper you pay for it...get it. Who cares if they may have called you names. You should ignore ignorance all together. Live and be happy. If you're that afraid to even go get your newspaper you may want to consider moving.
2006-11-30 17:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by sftbllr4lf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It appears as if they dont like you at all. If these words are directed at you, and you are offended and start pointing fingers, look at yourself first and see why they would call you a b...h.
2006-11-30 17:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Regenerit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmm...wut makes u think that? do they have a reason to think your a B? If so then i would say they dont like you. The newspaper everywhere i think is a sign they dont like you thats if they did it.
2006-11-30 17:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by kaligurl1229 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE THE INITIATIVE BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE MORE CONCERN ABOUT YOU BY ASSUMING THOSE THINGS BUT IN THE OTHER HAND ONE HUMAN BEING NEXT DOOR NEED YOUR HELP AND KNOWING YOU ARE NICE A THINK YOU WOULD DO THE RIGHT THING AND MAKE APPROACH
2006-11-30 17:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by cochocheto 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
might like you cuz boys act immature for the age and maybe just funkin around... but what could u have done to them..? maybe theyre just ignorant.?
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2006-11-30 17:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kellie N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm. have you ever talked to them? have you ever actually been face to face with them and had the impression that they didn't like you? anyway, what does it matter if they don't? don't worry about it unless it's really going to impact you.
2006-11-30 17:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by kThanks. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋