I have been datting this guy for quite a while And i love him I really do then a few weeks ago he asked me to be his wife then with in like the last two weeks he has started acting weird like for instence we used to talk on the phone till 2 or 3 in the morrning even if we had just spent the whole day together but here lately it like he can barly spare any time for me at all He has been getting off the phone with me here lately at like 10 pm we still see each other at work and all but it is not the same and when we do talk he is always busy on his computer I know he has been busy he has been bringing some of his work home but that never was a problem before and i also know he has been busy working on putting up a website he is helping with its a radio online and he is helping by beinging a live DJ but he only works on 3 days a week and only 2 hours shifts at a time and yet he has been well to be blunt a bit distent recently and I dont know why can someone help me I dont know what to do?
2006-11-30 09:46:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And by the way i did say "YES"
2006-11-30 10:00:56 · update #1
that´s odd...
hey, did you say "yes" to being his wife?
if you didn´t then maybe he is just worried you will say no...
also, marriage is a big commitment...he might just be really worried or stressed about it. it´s life changing!
listen, maybe he has been busy with work suddenly, but i don´t think so...unless he is working over to earn money to put towards your dress or a honeymoon or something OR he is working overtime to have more vacation time with you moving in together and planning the wedding and having the wedding and honeymoon and all that jazz.
if you don´t think the above fits the situation, all i can suggest is that you sit down and talk to him. Maybe he just needs you to reassure him that you love him and that you are happy with him and just talk to him about it...he might be really confused right now.
good luck.
happy marriage jajaja:)
2006-11-30 09:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that he works at the same place you do? Also you were seeing each other a lot and talked on the phone until 2 or 3 a.m., but lately he has been a little bit distant to you? No wonder he has isolated himself from you, you both need to stop seeing and talking to each other, to at least breath and spend more with other friends, apart from each other because you both will get bored with each other before you tie the knot, as they say. If you value your relationship with your boyfriend have a long talk with him about what is bothering you and I am pretty sure you would find out that he only was doing it to keep your relationship going. Good luck.
2006-11-30 10:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you need a little distance in relationships- he should back off so you can see if you can still be independent at all. It's hard to know exactly what is going on, but it sounds like he may be doing the right thing, as long as he still has contact with you.
2006-11-30 09:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by bdbarry09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you rattled off like ten lines with no punctuation. stream of consciousness. appreciate the space and distance, you'll be begging for it in a few years
2006-11-30 09:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Super G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RU engaged??? if u feel that something is wrong, then something is wrong. ask him what's going on, and u must read in his answer what's going on. U know, but u must realize.
2006-11-30 09:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Christian V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋