I shave my legs and wear panties every day so it's not really something I can hide for very long. But I know most girls will be turned off by this and it feels weird to tell them on a first date.
2006-11-30 09:39:52 · 15 answers · asked by Sissyboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not on the 1st date, as you get comfortable in a relationship you can tell them. I would think that you could drop hints prior to actually 'coming out' - like asking the female what kind of trousers she likes her man to wear, if she says 'mine' your in! :-)
2006-11-30 09:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by brian c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I'm about to expose something about myself that I"m sure some people could live without knowing, but I (a girl) thinks that transvestites are sexy. Not sure why, I just have a thing for them. Just wanted to tell you that do that you know not everyone will run screaming.
Tell her when you feel comfortable. You'll know when is the right time. You'll also know how she'll react because your relationship will be serious enough for you to know what to do.
Good luck - and look me us if she isn't into it ;)
2006-11-30 09:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her now but why do u want to be a transvestite anyway you should be the man that god intended for you to be and I'm not being mean I'm just concern about you cause i don't want people to be who they r not cause i love everyone including the people that make me mad all the time but anyway i think you should tell er so she wont feel hurt or portrayed also for your self too so u wont get hurt either
2006-12-06 02:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like the term crossdresser, it may be more familiar to her. Please tell her as soon as you think things might be serious. I am a 51 year old crossdresser. If she can't handle it, it is not her fault and she is not the right gal for you. If she can and there are many around these days, I will be happy for you.
2006-12-04 12:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't wait too long..but not too soon either!
You must trust the girl....if ya don't want the world to know!
Shaven legs caught me out...then I showed her a tastefull pic!
2006-12-04 09:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by jacen1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt wait much longer because the longer u wait the more it will hurt her. Who wants to be in a realtionship without trust if she loves and truly cares about u she will accept u.
2006-11-30 09:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her as soon as you are thinking that the relationship is getting more serious.
2006-12-01 00:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by JML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you're planning to continue dating this girl...so the sooner the better before emotions get involved.
2006-11-30 09:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you know each other better. when there's a time where you want to trust one another and be honest, try to slip in your confession. Do that in the calmest way you can.
2006-11-30 09:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After you marry her. Don't tell her until after you marry her. Then on honeymoon night ....hahahahahahahaha!....tell her! She will be shocked! But you will have a memory that will last a long time!
2006-11-30 09:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋