Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

Ok let’s see if I can explain this little better me and the wife are married for nine yrs, with a lot of problems. So I decided to move out to try to save our marriage it’s been five months now, since then she started going to her friends, which I knew was a bad move any way because her friend is nothing but trouble. Since then she had meant this guy ok that’s cool they are friends as she put it, so I left it go. Later on down the road I find out they are dating so I said ok if that’s what she wants I then find out that he has been incarcerated for 2 yrs, and now collecting SSI so I had ask her what’s up with that she tells me none of your business now I’m concern because I no nothing about him till this day all I no is his first name and where he is from.
It gets better he has now move in with my wife and my 8 yr old daughter and 23 months old son now I’m HOT and she still isn’t telling me anything so today I went to get my children and I had ask my daughter how comes the bum (he) don’t work and she went on to tell mom said he jumped off a bridge. Now this brings grate concern about my wife and this bum not to mention my children. Should I just take my chances and keep my children or let them go home ? Now I see why she wasn’t telling me anything HELP PLEASE!!!

2006-11-18 13:43:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to put this poem before class starts and while nobody is there. This is to prevent anyone from seeing who put it. As for people reading it nobody really cares about that stuff. Also it will be addressed to her but my name won't be written and shes always sitting in the same place since the beginning of the year. Also tell me how i should decorate the poem. I have an idea but i want other opinions.She's 19, im 17


When I think of the perfect girl,
Only you come to mind

With the intellect of a genius,
Eyes that sparkle like gems,
Hair as soft as silk,
An angelic voice that only sings beautiful melodies to my ears,
Cheeks as adorable and round like yours,
And a smile that lights up even the darkest room
No wonder you are God's only work of art

You're an amazing girl, an amazing person
You're special and irreplaceable to me
And my heart will never stop beating
For it lives off these feelings I have for you

2006-11-18 13:42:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I would want to get married around 24 or 25. That way I'm sure I'm with the right girl.

2006-11-18 13:42:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 13:41:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love is nothing that should be taken for granted. When you finally find it, cherish it. You may never feel that way again for any other girl. If you do, then it wasn't really love. Love can be the greatest thing you've ever felt in your whole entire life, or love can make you regret every decision you've made ever since it entered your life. I guess the real question is, are you willing to put your feelings up at risk for someone? Are you willing to let your guard down, and open your arms up to that person you believe is your soulmate? Maybe it depends on the person. Maybe it depends on the person and their experiences with love. Some people believe in love, and they're the lucky ones. The people who experienced love and were unsuccessful would probably give up on the idea of love, and live only for themselves. Here's another question that comes to mind: Does love truly exist? As I said, it depends on the person and their experiences.

2006-11-18 13:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by Matt S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 13:40:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and I noticed a slow down in the overall performance, particularly in the flower and jewellery applications that had operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 auto uninstalled many other valuable programs such as Romance 9.5, PersonalAttention 6.5 and GoOutofTown 3.2.

When an attempt is made to run Conversation 8.0, the screen goes blank. Upon opening HelpMeAroundTheHouse 2.6, the system simply crashes.

Husband 1.0 also auto installed a questionable Entertainment Suite. This bundled package contains several undesirable programs such as NFL 5.0, NBA 3.0 and PremierLeague 20.1.

But worse of all is a program called ChannelSurf 220.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 also auto loaded several unneccessary programs such as ManyNaps 9.7, UnfinishedProjects 20.4 and MyMomisTheBest 1.1. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail.

What do I do?

2006-11-18 13:40:52 · 3 answers · asked by JustAsking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 13:40:35 · 5 answers · asked by vinay m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a cruch on a boy named Yobany but my friend likes him and she gets me mad because she knows I like and she stills flirts with him and last time i told her stop.But she didn't.The next day Yobany's friend told me if i wanted to get with.I did and i am always kissing him in front him and know she wont tolk yo me.What should I do.

2006-11-18 13:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really believe that sign tell ur personality and your compatibility with another sign. i jost dont know which one is the most compatible for me.

2006-11-18 13:39:19 · 3 answers · asked by *Dat*-*Libra*-*Cutie* 3 in Singles & Dating

My step-son (ss) who lives with us is 11 and rec'd about $300 in cash and gift certificates for his bday at the beginning of Oct. Now his bio-Mom finally remembers and sends him $100 cash the other day. We have been trying to teach our 4 yr old that bdays only come once a year. Yet his brother has cont'd to receive money throughout the last month or so from his bio-Mom's family. So every time we go to the store his older brother keeps buying more and more toys. My 4 yr old doesn't understand and he really wants a scooter. So what does my ss do with his new $100? He goes and buys a scooter, after telling his little brother "if I have any money left over from getting what I want I'll buy you a scooter." Guess what? My older son spent all of his money and now our son is left hanging. My ss has already gotten more than 3x what our son got for his birthday. I was going to go and get the little one a scooter when husband blew a gasket and said I'd be sending the wrong message! I'm furious!!

2006-11-18 13:39:10 · 8 answers · asked by blacksun 2 in Family

2006-11-18 13:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by weirdo123 1 in Friends

my husband and i have been married for a year.. but i really think that we got married for the wrong reasons. i was pregnant before we got married.. and we got married when i was 5 months pregnant because the baby needed insurance (yeah it's stupid.. believe me). but i don't think that we loved eachother.. we never even got to have a relationship before marriage.. and now we are married with a child.. and i don't think that i love him. i am so confused.. he says that he loves me but when you get married you should love eachother first... not just jump into it hoping it will work out.. we fight a lot.. and sometimes i think that he can be a little controling.. and he brings me down a lot. i have suggested counseling but he doesn't want to go.. i wont force him. what should i do?

2006-11-18 13:38:04 · 10 answers · asked by ashjmy5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 37 female single mom and for the past year I have been feeling so sexually over charged...is that normal, and at this age?
please any honest answer /suggestions would be appreciated :)

2006-11-18 13:37:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 13:37:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

fault of your bestfriend

2006-11-18 13:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's just weird. He always finds me and talks to me when I walk into the room. He always sits by me. He only sees me at church one day a week but he still creeps me out. Anything I could do to stop it? Should I hide from him? I don't wanna be rude and tell him to stop talking to me so I have no idea what to do. Thanks!

2006-11-18 13:35:48 · 2 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

a person that i know keeps calling me and some other people immature...this is getting so annoying!!! anyway, she is always calling me immature the most...i need a comeback to shut her up!!!and a good one!!!

2006-11-18 13:34:34 · 7 answers · asked by so angry!!!! 1 in Friends

2006-11-18 13:34:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know he still likes her. she kinda likes him to, but when she told me this she said she loved me more and kissed me. IM CONFOOSED!!!! i love her lots but its to much we've broken up twice cause of that jerk but she said she was realy sorry. all her friends say i should brake up with her and my friends say so to. help me friends plz

2006-11-18 13:34:06 · 6 answers · asked by helius 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a realtionship with him for 2 years, I love this man so much. But he treats me so bad , like name calling that kind of abuse. I am tired of it, I can't leave him b/c I have no money and no family or friends i can go to, so I am at a huge disadvantage. I do have a job but I make hardley anything. Please help where can, I go??

2006-11-18 13:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by TM 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have 3 kids. It seems like anymore he's just some guy I live with. We never have any fun or do anything romantic anymore. I want to bring the spark back, but truly don't know how...we're in a rut! Any cool ideas I can try out to "fall in love again"?

2006-11-18 13:32:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She said: "After your exams, you are all mine."
I said: "Sure, 24/7."
She said: "Maybe not that much." (and laughed)

2006-11-18 13:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what country do you think has the most beautiful girls in the world?

2006-11-18 13:30:50 · 23 answers · asked by Flippy 3 in Singles & Dating

won't fit! What's wrong with me?
I'm a girl by the way!

2006-11-18 13:30:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 13:29:59 · 1 answers · asked by bigdaddy281@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

What I mean is that he always wants me to come with him outside and he always sits with me on the bus. He always says stuff under his breath. Like once he said that he wanted to hug me. He came to my door and asked me to come outside. He walked me to my door when i told him there were rapist in my neighborhood.There is one problem though... He has a girlfriend. But he always talks to me and smiles at me. Does he like me? I will give you more details later.

2006-11-18 13:29:16 · 11 answers · asked by jkwm04 1 in Singles & Dating

YA this boy in my class called me a slut but the thing is this boy likes me so he foun ou i had a by frieds and that is y but i am being very mean to him and rubbing it in his face that i hav a by friend nd like I hav this friend and i was taling to her and i was like "omg i kissed Him " and stuff like that when the boy waled by!!!! HAHAHAH


AHAHAH

2006-11-18 13:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by im_with_poindexter 1 in Friends

not men but boys i mean 17 and under. i know people say its just a faze but do they ever grow out of it? if you are a boy tell me is that all you think about? just cause i'm hot i'm not easy i have bueaty as well as brains so please tell me beacause one way not to get it is to act like a jerk. If you are male stand up for yourself show there are still some hot gentlemen

2006-11-18 13:28:16 · 17 answers · asked by pgaitskill 1 in Singles & Dating

one day me and my friend went to class our seats are next to each others but I went and sat down first. the lights were off in the class so I couldn't realy see but I looked in my frind chair and saw something gold I thought it was a candy rapper so when she came and set down I told her she was sitting on something so ge got up and got it and it was a gold bracelet she put it in her pocket and told me let her wear it until 2nd period so I did then she gave it to me after 2nd period but the next day she asked for it but I didn't give it to her I really really love jewlrey and so do she so who should the bracelet go to please let me know

2006-11-18 13:27:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends