Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

when a guy is just using you for sex?

2006-11-15 06:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by blites-of you 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were (or ARE) a guy, then can you tell me how you would've reacted to somthing like this..........
Me and my boyfriend went to a club, in the back of the club we sat down on some grass. he laid down, so I laid down with my head on his chest, Then i leaned up and had my hair around the both of us, I whispered in a soft voice "I love you" he reply's "love ya too" We kiss for a little bit, Then he puts his tounge in my mouth, and starts rubbing his hand up and down the side of my waist. From about my waist up, was completly on top of him, my legs were kind of on him, but leaning on him. My knee was rested near his "spot" and i could feel him getting a slight "hard on" ....Guys, If this was happening to you, What kind of thoughts would go through your mind? What would you want to do next?, What would you have done next? Would you go home and masturbate? (we wont have SEX or give oral sex, just sort of "chase" eachother)
And girls, What are some other things i can do to turn him on

2006-11-15 06:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by ...[♥♠]... 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 06:00:36 · 10 answers · asked by alissaxnicole 2 in Singles & Dating

We live together and he flips out when I want to go visit my family. Why does he do this!!!????? What should I do???

2006-11-15 05:59:38 · 31 answers · asked by MGrnl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry if this is a bit long, I'll try to make it short as possible. About a week ago, there was a new guy "A" at my school. I was the first person he met, and he was pretty nice. The day before, another new guy "B" had arrived. New guy "A" introduced me to new guy "B", who was equally nice. Then New guy "A" started drifting away, ad one day, in sudden randomeness, asked me if I thought "B" was hot. I asked why, and he said lots of girls thought "B" was hot. I said no. After that, "B" started drifiting away. I started talking less to "A", but he started moving closer as friends! One day, "A" told "B" that I thought "B" was hot, right in front of him!! He lied! Now, whenever I talk to "B", "A" starts jumping in like a little kid that's interrupting! Like when "B" said he noticed I got a haircut, "A" says: "Oh! I noticed too! I did!" What is wrong with guys??? Can't we just be normal friends?? Again, I apologize for the length and the confusion. If you can make this out, plz reply!!!

2006-11-15 05:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by [A] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-15 05:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 and hes 21.. could it be the age difference... the experiance difference... the fact that his friends would give him crap for going out with a 16 year old.. cuz i think he likes me but just either scared to admit it or idk... please give me your opinions...

2006-11-15 05:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is going around alot, and I want the root, Nothing has happened to me, But I just wanna know for the sake of it, A QUESTION FOR THE PEOPLE WHO CHEAT AND THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T CHEAT! I WANT BOTH SIDES REVEALED!
Question: WHY DO GUYS AND GIRL'S CHEAT ON THE PERSON THAT LOVES THEM THE MOST? SERIOUSLY?? WHY?? I WANT Cheaters to answer this. Why do it???

2006-11-15 05:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 05:57:05 · 10 answers · asked by Derrick 1 in Singles & Dating

When does liking someone a lot turn into love? I realize it's a complicated question and hard to answer...

2006-11-15 05:56:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam an afrcian american, i live in a wealthy community my family is not rich nor poor, i go to school like everybody else does, one day some afrcian maerican friends of mine told me that i was acting too white! i got mad and left, i mean is their scuh thing as actinjg black or white?

2006-11-15 05:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Friends

I am a 55 year old female have been living with a man age 57 for 8 years I have been ill the intire time and on disablility. We live as a couple which he calls me his live partner. He takes care of me I do not work he doesn't want me to work even parttime because of my disability. Will I ever have any leagal rights as a wife if he dies or decides to ask me to leave?

2006-11-15 05:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by sara 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 05:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 05:55:40 · 3 answers · asked by matt v 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl and i are friends, we talked mostly through e-mail, i had feelings but i also am getting out of a relationship. she kinda likes me but kinda likes someone else too. this person might like her as well. there is nothing i can do. but i dumbly sent her an e-mail bc i just found out i got a new job, and said that i want to take her to dinner. what i meant was i wanted to pick up some buffett food for us to eat when we hang. she took it as me asking her out for a date. how do i recover from this embarrassment?

2006-11-15 05:55:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im facing this. I really want to.

2006-11-15 05:55:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 05:55:09 · 5 answers · asked by ken y 1 in Singles & Dating

i called my ex jst to see wuzup(i broke up wit him 2 days ago) and u kno alot of times there's always dat lil hope of gettin back together...man i call this boi and he talkn bout baking cookies n sht so im like "are u home?" he was like "naw im at someone house" so i ask who and he was like "well why u asking me all these questions...u tryna be slick and ask questions on the slide" so im like "Well if i just ask u are u gon answer them?" he was like " why should i?? u aint my grl" im like "did u find another grl already" he said he wasnt gon tell me so i took that as a yes he was like call him back and i said naw ill just leave u to be wit ya new grl and i hung up.

so im wondering do yall think he's had another grl all this time?? or it might just be possible he got another grl in 2 days?? which by da way i think might just be his ex

i almost cried but i aint love him so atleast i was able to hold the tears back

2006-11-15 05:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by NunyaBizz 1 in Singles & Dating

people have been bitin my head off becoz i spell things wrong. And i am talking about on this i ask a question and they all start givin me a lectureon english. y cant i spell how i like!

its understandible like:

"im doin a survey on wot i lik 2 eat" can anyone not understand that?

2006-11-15 05:54:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, a girl in my class was telling people her mom had cancer. I overheard and next lesson this one boy asked me so i told but told him not to tell anyone. Now i am getting the blame because he is spreading it... WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! The girl IS really angry with me

2006-11-15 05:54:03 · 2 answers · asked by gareth khaajgie 1 in Friends

Im fairly attractive,thin,ect. My husbandd always tells me Im sexy,beautiful, yadda yadda yadda. But sometimes I question this when Im very often hit on by men. But these men are usually very low on the chain. Not just unattractive but just slum,though,or Ill get hit on by kids. Im 26. So, If im so "hot" why dont even fairly decent people hit on me,too? Not looking to get hit on.

2006-11-15 05:53:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was wondering why many females seem to go for guys who are more thuggish type instead of the nice guy role.....Thye prefer the guy who has to watches his back from doing illegal things rather then the guy who say perhaps wears a suit to work, working with a fortune 500 company......A guy with great personality and intelligence, not someone who has been in a same box as big butch

2006-11-15 05:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 05:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by h0n3y_bliss 1 in Singles & Dating

At what age do you think it is okay to date someone much older than yourself?

What is the largest age difference you have ever experienced in a relationship?

Do you think it is okay for someone in their late teens (18 or 19, we are talking LEGAL age here) of either gender to have a dating relationship with someone in their early 30's?

2006-11-15 05:51:24 · 16 answers · asked by mynx326 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, to be honest, I'd really know how to break up with her if she had prior experience.

I do care for her though, in ways I don't care about most people. However, the love (for me) isn't there anymore, and I really want to move on, but there's this small problem for me: I'm her first (in practically everything.)

Is there anyway to break up without scarring her? I know I'll hurt her, and she knows that we'll eventually break up which is what hurts her, but the thing is I'm a caring guy that really doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I'm a college freshman and she's still a high-school senior back at home, so there really isn't any full proof ways I can see her until at least next September. Also, with college, I haven't really found the time to be able to speak with her, and shes seems to find that irritating or bad. I do care for her, it's just that at the same time I don't think this is working, and that it's better that we part ways than to drag it out.

What should I do???

2006-11-15 05:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by Fuh Q. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 05:50:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wt is the nicest think about ur body?

2006-11-15 05:50:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is so hostil, with everibody from work bad my boss apresiate that person because she is profesional what she do ,is ok but her caracter is bad.

2006-11-15 05:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by clauditza 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom won't let my hang out with my boyfriend on weekends. she just doesn't want me getting hurt. how can i get hurt? does she have to be so overly protective? my boyfriend wants to see me over the weekend. my boyfriend and i have been going out for two days now and my mom hasn't met him yet. she won't let me go to his house or him to mine. my bf and i think our moms should meet.

2006-11-15 05:49:18 · 6 answers · asked by Emo dark KITTY! 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy are sorta kickin it but the only time we see each other is in school. so i guess its not too much thats goin on but still i am light skined and i happened to sratch my neck a lil too hard now he thinks its a hickey and he's upset with me, but the thing is, and i hate to admit it but, he does have a gf. so givs him the right 2 b mad at me? and how do you think my attitude should be towards him whan i see him next hour? should i let him believe it or what?

2006-11-15 05:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by Nina Chula 2 in Singles & Dating