Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

i'm married with my wife for 3 years now, we have a 1year10moths son, and everthing else is ok. but why when i want to have sex with her she usually doesn't want to. i'm in the mood like 4-5 days per week but she sometimes seems none. she never show interest to have sex with me. what's wrong? is it her sex drive? sometimes we only have sex 2-3 times per month only.

2006-10-13 21:01:05 · 4 answers · asked by Mohawk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 21:00:46 · 18 answers · asked by please 1 in Singles & Dating

I masturbating for long time.my eye being weak and ..............

2006-10-13 20:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by aria_rad98 1 in Singles & Dating

There are 3 groomsmen, and are looking for gifts anywhere up to about $100, please help

2006-10-13 20:58:43 · 12 answers · asked by jacstar1986 2 in Weddings

Help me please? My daughter has all these parties to go to, boys and girls. I need lots of gift ideas that are not expensive

2006-10-13 20:58:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Maybe it is a habit, maybe it is an addiction, but I have noticed the intensity of the projects and my good looks always get the sparks flying.

2006-10-13 20:58:18 · 14 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Singles & Dating

I've said and done some pretty awful things that I regret, and that have hurt people. I didn't mean for anyone to get hurt and at the time didn't see how it could, but somehow someone always does. I look down on myself for alot of stuff I did, and even though my family doesn't mention it much I feel like they always expect me to screw up. I can't let myself move on and i have tried to do right but always end up repeating my mistakes, how can I move on?

2006-10-13 20:56:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words.

When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.


1. Let me help:


Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

2. I understand you:

People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.

3. I respect you:

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

4. I miss you:

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

5. Maybe you're right:

This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can
open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the
other person.

6. Please forgive me:

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to
faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is
wiser today than he was yesterday.

7. I thank you:

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

8. Count on me:

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds
people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you
can count on me."

9. I'll be there:

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from
home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there."Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

10. Go for it:


We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow
their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

11. I love you:


Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs.

The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little
words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.

Never take some one for granted,Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember this always in life.

2006-10-13 20:55:30 · 4 answers · asked by ashok kumar 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm 20 years old, and a virgin. I feel like a young and insane 16 year old or a cave man because I can't stop thinking about sex. And it drives me nuts. Do any of you man feel the same way? Its like I can't control my hormones, I go to college and see tons loads of hot women everywhere and it drives me crazy to know that I'm still a virgin and may not have a chance with either one of them. Is this natural to think about sex every 10 seconds? Am I a pervert or just a young adult who can't control his hormones? I am a virgin you know, and it drives me nuts! Help me!

2006-10-13 20:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by joshooog 2 in Singles & Dating

to her the 2sec girl to brake my heart
she dose not know

she dose not care

but she the one that hurt me this way

oh renee

the pain of it all that i feel in my heart

that hardens my soul and cause me to be cold

the ever lasting memory of u corusing throw my soul

but alas i have found a place in my own heart

were i feed on my on hellish thoughts

of only being like you

and braking hearts

the is my new gift my lust

i shell never love again

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Y abre los ojos

2006-10-13 20:52:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 20:51:49 · 12 answers · asked by Deegoor 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom told me no, because Maya will not remember it when she gets older,s he thinks it will be a waste of money. Which I can see because we arde stationed in Germany and all of our family are back in Oklahoma and Kansas. Did anyone throw a party fr their one year old?

2006-10-13 20:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

That looked like him?
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=A8SUKZH&key=PMF

2006-10-13 20:51:03 · 3 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been trying to find if there is a way to find someones e mail address or unlisted phone number on the internet, i recently moved back to the usa from east africa and have lost contact with some of my dearest friends and ive tried everything to locate them, i guess after nearly twenty years living out of the country i have no idea where they are,if they are, etc.....

2006-10-13 20:49:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what different things can i do to make our marriage successful

2006-10-13 20:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's a previous question about my relation with this guy.. he's really changed and i want the old him back..but i know that's not possible.. i feel really bad i havent went out for a week now, he acts as if he's great without me but all of his friends told me he's depressing..please help..i can't stop thinking about him

2006-10-13 20:47:10 · 16 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating

I think its time I stopped sending my kids off for visits. These are my reasons.
1. I get no child support.
2. He cancels about half the visits at the last minute anyway.
3.He has never called to talk to the boys I have to ring when the boys want to talk to him.
4. He tells my son terrible lies and some truths that are not for a 6 year olds ears.

My son misses his dad and asks to go. My kids are 6 and 7.

2006-10-13 20:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there any problem in such marriage.

2006-10-13 20:46:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love to do it and do not understand y she would not want it.

2006-10-13 20:45:09 · 19 answers · asked by panther_nut 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and then i keep going until i cant no more u think is bad ? ? ? u think something would happen to the condom ? ? advice ! ! !! !

2006-10-13 20:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by raidershot2 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to go for contact marriage with an American.What will be the cost?Is there anybody?i am male.

2006-10-13 20:44:38 · 7 answers · asked by Mohsin A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do I approach to her.
I have her MSN and I meet her in school everyday.
please tell me some ways to do it.

2006-10-13 20:44:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 20:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by jlh1975 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ya know what gets me about this site is that we can all just lie and no one will be none the wiser how r you going to call my bluff and me call yours, You just can't. Some people on here really need to play in traffic, some sick people, myself included depending on what question I have in mind, I tried to play in traffic, no cars though, damn...It just urks me alot, so what if I wonder what someone is wearing or doing, its real, not like: oh my god, what did my rice krispie just tell you, or oh I went to the bathroom and this brown stuff came out...WHAT IS IT...Damn, use common sense and ask fairly normal questions, dont care how perverse they are, just don't ask a retarded question that my unborn niece could answer....SORRY HAD TO VENT

2006-10-13 20:42:44 · 7 answers · asked by Justcurious81 2 in Singles & Dating

I know him since the 6th grade, that first time i saw him, i wanted to commit suicide because i couldnt have him!!! Now in the 8th grade, his still the hottest guy in school!!! i cant keep my eyes of him!! Everytime i try to see his big nice butt, and his cute cheeks and his hot bod and geat hair, or little parts of his underware or skin ( stomach or back) I LOVE HIM!!! But i dont know if he's Bi, i know i am, but i think he flirts with me ( he's been talking to me, shaking me from the hand, looking at me, tieing my shoe, and some other things), and of course i flurt with him, Every ****** girl wants him, and he has never gone into a SERIOUS relationship, what should i do?

2006-10-13 20:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heard or told, share them please

2006-10-13 20:42:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He likes to call up ppl once awhile to catch up things........but he always pick the wrong time to call. Sometimes, I told him I need to rush my assignment, and he just doesn't get it, and still talks about his sht..........hes my friend but how do I tell him to piss off.........

2006-10-13 20:41:59 · 10 answers · asked by LIFE ! 2 in Friends

new ideas to make a relationship last longer.

2006-10-13 20:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to busy with law school, and my dad is an ex marine so his really tough when chossing someone to date.

2006-10-13 20:35:19 · 24 answers · asked by lisalawyer101 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys..Its Sat Nite..How do i get a date..???
dating sites dont work..hardly know anyone in this city as i'm new here and stags are not allowed anywhere..Girls sigh away if u approach them directly..What do i do!!

2006-10-13 20:33:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating