Short version: I hate South Florida and have been trying to leave since I got here. Met my husband here; he said he wanted to leave, too, at the time, and has kept saying that until the past year. The last two years he kept wanting to stay longer (for his job). His family is here; my family is scattered everywhere. We've discussed this issue ad nauseum. We've tried compromise and scouting alternative locations, with no results (he likes the Florida locations, but not the ones in other states). He wants to stay in Florida, citing family and convenience. I can't stay and I can't go. I'm not going to try to force him to go somewhere if he doesn't want to, but I'm tired of living in limbo all of the time.
It's not a matter of geography versus love - I miss North America, and Miami is hell. This situation is rough and I can't find a middle ground that we could both be happy about. It bothers me that he has not been honest about this.
A) What's going on?
B) What to do in a no-win?
2006-10-03
10:54:16
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Hurricane77
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Marriage & Divorce