Is there anything I can do to feel more comfortable and relaxed when i talk to the girl i really like? Im naturally shy, but I dont usually get this nervous around someone, not even other girls. I really want to talk to her though and really need some suggestions...
2006-10-03 10:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her about simple things to start off with. Like movies, tv, or music. After a bunch of simple stuff you'll start to feel more comfortable around her. Then you can start to flirt with her and such. Just relax around her and don't worry about how you'll sound to her. Be yourself. Don't try and be someone your not.
Good Luck.
2006-10-03 11:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarssed that you are shy...it isn't the end of the world. Here are some tips.
1. Just say Hi to her once a day when you see her pass down the hall. Make sure she hears and says Hi back. If she's a bit freaked out, she doesn't like you and move on.
2. Smile when you see her. Maybe she likes you and smile back. Remember to look at her so she knows that you are smiling.
After you do this for a few weeks...time to talk to her! During lunch, if she's alone, talk to her. Anytime she's alone, go talk to her. Say Hi. If you had a class with her, say Do you remember me from _________? Just blurt it out! Don't be embarssed because there is a 50/100 chance she likes you!
Your shyness will fade away and you will feel more comfortable when you talk to her...luckily she'll have a major crush on you...but just begin with Hi's in the halls and smiles and looking at her beautiful eyes.
2006-10-03 17:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will appreciate the fact that you actually approached her in the first place. We can sense when you are nervous and shy, so she will probably know that you are, but just suck it up and go for it! what do you have to lose? If shes a *****, then she doesnt deserve you, but most likely she will be just as shy as you are. Think about what you are going to say before going up to her, but still make it casual. And dont worry, if it doesnt work out, then you can always rely on this experience the next time you want to talk to a girl that you like.
2006-10-03 17:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Smart Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat some chocolate and take a deep breath!
It's always hard to meet someone for the first time and start a conversation.
Just relax and be yourself!
2006-10-03 17:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by carrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it will make it easier if when you talk to her, you ask her questions about things SHE is into, HER classes, things SHE enjoys doing - that takes the pressure off of you to say something clever or to try to say something interesting about yourself.
Leisurely,
RT
2006-10-03 17:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions and then listen. Chicks like it when guys listen. It shows interest and it is a lot eassier to have a conversation.
2006-10-03 17:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and be yourself. Don't make a big deal of it.
2006-10-03 17:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about some thing you know alot about so you can't possbly bomb it and do it alone with her in a big crowd so the attention isn't soely on you
2006-10-03 18:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by carlos_aka_stormi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself we are all humans theres no big deal
2006-10-03 17:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am too shy to tell you
2006-10-03 17:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋